@divinelowblood

are you sure about that

who has the worst url on tumblr.com

NORTH STAR NORTH STAR NORTH STAR

So....I have two more wedding dresses for Warmer-Winter. Here:

Tell me which one you like best and be honest....I really like the Misty one. Mainly because it reminds me of clouds and steam

The angel on my shoulder judging everyone and everything, including my life choices:

The devil on my other shoulder regretting my life choices for me:

people always talk about how the masses used to watch gladiator fights or public executions for fun, but we rarely discuss how people also went to human medical surgery’s for sport and entertainment, just showed up in a big tent and watched official operations, sometimes a flutist played music in the corner for it

like, “I’m not not dying of some random disease or having to work a 50 hour work day today, better go watch some dude get his leg sawed off in a science tent.”

what I’m saying is that it’s good we invented tv 

Me at 3 A.M in the kitchen eating something in the darkness and then suddenly the lights turn on.

https://youtu.be/v4pxws00tr4

Now is as good a time as any to show you: Cover image and theme for the Warmer Winter AU!

do you think Skrael's last name is north?

autistic and possibly has an iron deficiency, I don't care if she's shown to trip, she falls way too often to be clumsy

also dedede has adhd. it might be me projecting onto a comfort character but. fuckit. adhddd.

ADHDDD................ I BIG LOVE THAT

bro projecting onto ccs is so fucking valid...... i share the same hc!!! i’m not adhd myself but i’m autistic and we’re solidarity so!!!!!!!!

yup

This heart-warming Disneyland Paris spot features a sweet CG duck who simply adores Donald Duck. It’s the perfect cure for post-Christmas blues!!!

So my parent of the gender exclusively referred to as male, although he could have identified as any gender and still have been the parent that provided the male reproductive cell-

Bright: so my father-

Clef: father? Why so formal?

Bright:

Bright: so my daddy-

Clef: no.

❤❤❤

To keep it race-neutral, I colored (Y/N)'s hand gray instead of any specific skin color.

Sometimes, although our words or actions may hurt others, they might understand. It's important to have support to help you get better with this kind of thing. If someone in your life - be it a friend or a partner - can't help you but still cares enough to put up with it, and you care about them enough to change, then you have almost a full balance there. You'll just need another friend or a partner who understands what you're going through enough to be able to help you in the ways you need.

Speaking from experience, I have a brother who was that way. He left to live with his girlfriend, and that actually emotionally wounded our mother. After realizing what he'd done, and hearing that I was having trouble at home, he starting visiting more often on his days off from work and teaching me by telling his experiences so that I wouldn't make the same mistakes he did.

I'm glad he took the time to do that, because since he started, I've shown much more improvement.

Thank you, Tyler.

Unpopular opinion, but sometimes it feels like ND positive posts can make the assumption that our actions don’t impact other people. 

Like “it’s ok if you can’t meet a deadline!” If I don’t keep up with my grading and lesson planning, that negatively impacts my 128 students. 

“It’s ok if you can’t reply to texts! Or hang out with your friends!” Other people (even NT people) have feelings. 

Honestly, I think the message should be more “you’re not a bad person for these things” and less “it doesn’t matter.”

If you can’t keep up with deadlines, you’re not a bad person. But you do have to consider what career you go into so you aren’t screwing over other people in the process. 

You aren’t a bad person if you can’t keep up with friendships, but your friends shouldn’t be expected to just wait around until you can. 

I think this is the biggest disconnect between me and the “ADHD is a gift!” movement. I laugh it off when my ADHD impacts me. Like, when I forget to bring my lunch to work or walk into my bedroom multiple times forgetting what I needed many times in a row. 

But it crushes me when my ADHD hurts my students or coworkers. 

Maybe I’m missing something here, and I hope I am, but I think we desperately need to re-evaluate the way we talk about neurodivergence.