literally
my old therapist kept trying to put my gender into her own words and it was so frustrating, because no amount of reading or watching videos will help you understand how i express and feel my gender. (im nb)
my new therapist just listens to me, doesn't try to compress what i say into something easier for her to understand. i know she doesn't understand, but thats ok. she doesn't understand but she doesn't make that my problem, she doesn't ask me to explain, she doesn't try to put me in a box, she just lets me be who i am, and she just listens.
I'm so sick of "progressive" cis people trying to tell me, a trans woman, what being trans is like and what causes it. Oh, you have a trans friend? Cool. That doesn't mean you have the first fucking clue what being trans is like. Oh, you read queer theory? Cool, you still don't have a fucking clue. Stop trying to tell me things about how I work. Transition and then we'll talk you fucking idiot.
im not even kidding this was the first video game i ever played and a t-girl taught me how to play and made me choose bridget. ily A!
Boutta come out to my dad guys, wish me luck
Here’s Bridget’s theme to motivate me
and yet i like her so fucking much
she’s just fucking insufferable dude. god
would more people actually accept this? i actually like my body but i'm always made to feel like i shouldn't. i don't care that my stretch marks are purple, i think its a beautiful story told through lines in my skin, i dont care that when i wear crop tops my stomach hangs out, i don't care that certian pants give me a "muffin top" WHO DOESN"T LIKE MUFFINS.
Being fat or chubby or plus sized isn’t something people are beautiful in spite of, btw. It’s beautiful in and of itself
Fat butches on motorcycles, in bars, wearing tank tops and worn out jeans and jackets that show off the space they aren’t afraid to take up in the world are beautiful
Fat femmes in dresses and shirts and pants that don’t try to hide them, the indents of tight clothing on soft skin, are beautiful
Because of, not despite
too real
Oh no I'm not into her I just spend every free moment fantasizing about her lips on mine
literally me i am afab and look like a cishet teen girl but im not?
Love nonbinary people forever, regardless of how they look, how they present, what pronouns do they look or whether they want to pursue medical transition or not. An AMAB nb person has a beard and looks like a bear? Good for them. An AFAB agender person is breasting boobily down the stairs? Good for them! A genderflux person decides to pursue medical transition and still be genderflux? Fantastic stuff imo. A nonbinary person does not want to disclose their ASAB? Also great! Again, love nonbinary people forever, unconditionally so.
relapsed in january, cut LITERALLY ONCE they sent me to the mental hospital. SO not worth it
you ever had a relapse that’s so mid you wish you just stayed clean lmao
you could say... they're boiling
"i look rlly ugly rn icel"
no u dont ily ur so pretty all the timeeeee
literally shes so pretty
shes basically the sun and the moon and the stars. she shines so brightly i cant even look at her (or i'll go red)
just dyed my hair! ignore everything but the hair (also i just woke up and haven't styled it yet)
and unfortunately its only gonna get worse as time goes on
you met me at a very mentally ill time in my life