currently doing some research on like clinical reports of age regression and I found this...
brb enjoying my autistic fantasy defense
tips for getting out of little space when you need to. (this is what I've found works for me, something different might work better for you)
Make sure you have ways to regulate your emotions when big so you don't slip back into little space when you first get stressed again
Try to ground yourself in your body, it'll remind you of your big age
And make sure you're happy with your body so it's easier to ground yourself. For me this means putting on gender affirming gear and a really dope outfit
Put on some less child friendly music you like
Try to change your surrounding and having some spaces where you regress and others where you don't
Make sure all your toys and other agere stuff is put away and preferably out of sight
If you feel comfortable put yourself in a situation where you can't regress (eg around ppl who don't know you regress)
Try doing things that make you feel like an adult, for me this is my sport (Kendo) and writing analyses of shows I like
don't try to act older than your big age, it might just make you feel like you're 'playing' adult and make you feel more little
And remember to not force yourself de-regress unnecessarily, it's your mind's way of healing and if you can try to work on stuff you need to do while regressed.
"Autistic adults are adults"
But what if I don't wanna :(
caregiver helping a black age regressor through internalized racism
*caregiver is helping the little take a bath* "hey bubba, be careful, you're gonna hurt your skin" "I needs to get clean" "You only have to scrub a little to get clean, now you're gonna start tearing your skin" "no! I'm not clean enough yet. I needs to be clean like the pwetty girls on TV" "oh bubba," *picks you up and holds you* "you're not dirty, you're african and there are very many pretty girls on TV that look like you" "mmm... but they're not cared about like the clean girls" "bubba, all of those girls are clean and so are you. And yes sometimes people care more about the white girls but you don't have to worry about that because you'll always have me to care about you" "okay, mama... why can not people just care about all of us?" "because sometimes the world is mean and that's very sad but I'm here to protect you"
🥳🥳🥳HAPPY BIRTHDAY 🥳🥳🥳
MY BIRTHDAY TOMORROW GUYS IM GOING TO BE A BIG GIRL
I love the idea of almost all the council regressing and Mel has to try to wrangle them together while they're getting into arguments and throwing tantrums about other people not voting for their bills
After seeing your Lest board I just thought about little Salo and I don't know why. Could you make a mood board for little Salo?
Little!Salo moodboard!!
Perhappss cg lest and little Salo?! 🙈 anyway just an idea 😋 anywho I rlly like how this moodboard turned out I hope you like it!
He'd be quite fussy
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(Replycon made by my son @ biccyssafespace)
This probably isn't a new thought but regressor!Doofenschmirtz and caregiver!perry the platypus!!!
But they get less socially acceptable as they go on (plz DNI if you find padded regression and other things like it weird)
hoards of stuffed animals
"I hate being an adult cause when I'm in the grocery store all scared and alone I can't just start crying out for my mom because instead of someone assuming I'm lost, they'll just look at me weird"
always feeling like I was younger than all my peers even if they were actually slightly younger than me
like half the foods I eat I eat b/c they make me feel like a kid. Like my big treat for myself after a stressful week was a pack of paw patrol yogurt drinks
Getting super into kids media, like the only movie that interests me is The Wild Robot
feeling comforted by how period pads felt like diapers
Having trouble tinkling myself up until 10th grade
Still sleeping in my parents bed some nights in 7th grade
Still as an adult picking my nose (I know it's unsanitary and I'm trying to stop)
I love seeing different regressors unique little talk. There are the more common replacing Ls and Rs with Ws but also inserting them in between a change from vowel to consonants. And the grammatical differences. Like some littles refer to themselves in the third person or use me instead of I or vice versa.
It's all so cute
DNI: nsfw, kink, age play
Vent below
Ppl are so mean :((( I don't like me friends and I hate that I have to be friends with them cause we're in the same sport. They all joke about being autistic then say they don't like those ppl cause they're too autistic and then when I say they're not autistic enough to understand that you can't just "start socializing" they say there's no more or less autistic and like yeah there isn't but you clearly don't know anywhere enough about autism or disability to understand how one condition can cause people varying levels of disability like you're self diagnosed and haven't even done research, you do not speak for the autistic community*. You tone down your definition of autism to mean being a bit weird so you can fit into it and then when ppl talk about the actual affects of autism you say that's not a real thing cause it doesn't fit into your definition. I hate them. And they're like just talk to people and then say they don't like other people cause they talk too much. I hate them I hate them I hate them.
Like why are we talking badly about ppl behind their backs. I get shitty on ppl who have done bad things but they were literally saying "he's just too autistic for me"
I hate how autism has been mainstreamed to mean quirky then people feel comfortable shitting on actually autistic people because they're "a bit autistic"
They're sooooo mean and I hate them and I miss being a kid and when people said mean things adults told them not to but now they're all like we're adults, but that doesn't make being mean okay!!!
*this isn't anything against self diagnosed ppl who did literally any research and don't use their label as an excuse to be ableist. Self diagnosis is very important for ppl who can't get access to assessments or for whom having an official diagnosis would hurt but there are more ppl now adays that use their ability to self diagnose badly
Vent about being harassed under the cut. Tw: death threats
I'm just so scared now. Ask my friends are always dismissed and I can't bring it up to anyone in my life because they won't understand the do great I feel over something that's "just online comments". They were telling me they were going to hang me. That's not okay. I didn't deserve that. I'm so scared. I'm to scared to regress right now cause I know if I see any more of those comments when little I won't be able to handle it. No one in my life has ever gone easy on me I just need someone to listen to me when I'm upset and not dismiss it. I feel so dirty, my whole body feels dirty. Before it got really bad I was dealing with it by dehumanizing myself cause that's one of the few things that give me comfort, to just set my body as an object and my mind as unnecessary. But now I feel like my whole body is dirty and worthless. I'm so scared. I wish I had someone who would protect me. I'm so scared. I'm so alone and I'm so scared
age regressor (3-8 little, 19 big). trans guy (he/him). special interest is arcane :D. feel free to say hi. nsfw or kink dni
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