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this is actually the reason WHY i didnt come out for so long

i used to say shit like that before i realized i was a dude, my “friends” used to say shit like that, my mom used to say stuff like that

i was scared of realizing that i was a man due to the way everyone talked about them around me

i was nothing like the men they were saying men acted but was scared so badly of being seen that way that i boxed my thoughts of being trans up and sent them to the back of my mind

it was only until i finally felt comfortable (after i dropped all my those shitty people i called “friends”) that i finally let myself discover who i was

i genderfluided myself into a man and never changed back

this comment is also something i picked up on too

ive literally had a trans woman tell me (who used to act the way listed above) that she and many trans women who act like that are insecure about masculinity due to their transition so take it out on people who want to be masculine

im just tired of the queer community hating me for wanting to be a man

im so tired of radfeminism being the main feminist movement in social media

it isnt actual feminism its hatred in a trench coat wearing a mask with the words “feminism”

Yeah probably if you haven't lived the life of a trans man seeing people go "I don't like when people joke about hating men" or something along that line, it probably sounds mra ish.

But in my everyday life, people only address me as a man when they are using it to insult me. I forgot to do XYZ? That's me being a dumb man. I'm talking too long? I'm mansplaining. Etc etc. These are the only times in my real life that people will address me as a man. That's why we use the term 'malgendering', that's why many hate those "trans inclusive misandry" jokes. Because that's the only thing people are trans inclusive in.