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Happy Holidays, Sweetie
20.12.2023
An illustration of Lui and Rebecka I did before Christmas! I'm a bit behind with my uploads, please expect some more winter and holiday work ⛄
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The five W's and H are actually questions that l'd like to see people answer, not forced obviously!
If I do get answers though, it'll give me more to think about, each person has a unique way of answering, a unique way of understanding. We can understand but be so confused at the same time. The complicated ways just leave me in awe, I couldn't never not be surprised by a human
“Rules for Happiness: something to do, someone to love, something to hope for.”
— Immanuel Kant
I love non-sexual intimacy. Just holding someone? Sign me up. Oh you're sad? I'll hug you until you feel better. Oh you crave comfort? Then I'll be here. You just want my touch? Well of course! Just holding people and making them feel happy is SSOOSOSOSO
I just wanted to tell you, whoever may read this, That I am glad to be apart of your day. Even if it was just a small glance. There are so many artists, writers, talkers and so much more on this platform and I am glad that I decided to join. Everyone is amazing and I hope that even just a little big of happiness can fall into your day.
Some of you may have never heard of me before, and even then, I extend this message to you. I hope that whoever you are, wherever you are, that you may smile and have joy. That you may live a good, wonderful life.
Corviknight
He’s too heavy for the wire, it will snap soon.
I want to be happy, I want to have self-confidence, but I don't want to delude myself.
(Note: the difference between guilt and shame is that ‘guilt’ focuses on specific acts or behaviors, while ‘shame’ involves the overall sense of self.)
an author i love just tweeted about how “big joy and small joy are the same” and how she was just as content the other night eating chocolate and cuddling her dog as she was on her Big Trip to new york and honestly. i think that’s it. this morning i was listening to an audiobook while baking shortbread in my joggers and i realised i really didn’t care what Big Things happened in my future as long as i could keep baking and reading at the weekend and maybe that is the kind of bar we have to set to guard ourselves against disappointment. just appreciate and cherish the mundane stuff and see everything else as a bonus.
Make a workout plan that works well with your menstrual cycle.
Deep clean your room.
Take an everything shower.
Plan your week.
Eat a nutritious snack.
Try a new recipe.
Buy a new fragnance or scented lotion.
Stretch or do yoga.
Talk to yourself.
Look in the mirror and point out every nice thing about yourself.
Read or reread the book you love.
Study for the next test.
Cut blue light an hour before sleeping.
Drink tea after waking up.
Limit your screen time.
Don't surround yourself with negative media (art, posts, etc.).
Dress up nicely.
Research a topic you like
Replay your favourite game.
Spend some time with the person you love and care about.
Try to understand the cause of your bad habits.
Look at motivating (not toxic) posts.
Affirm after waking up and before going to sleep.
Buy a beautiful and comfortable pijama.
Rearrange your room.
Find a new, intresting hobby.
Look for a fragnance that suits you and your personality the best.
Write out the things you want to change about yourself.
Don't skip important hygiene; brushing teeth, washing hair, skipping skincare, showering.
Take a hot relaxing bath.
Completely relax and just think without any distractions; music, subliminals, etc.
Set a new yet small goal you want to work towards to.
Remind yourself of your journey and how far you've come.
Work on your posture.
Cuddle with your animal.
Take a nap.
Buy a new candle.
Romanticise your life and every small thing about it.
Drink some lemon/cucumber water.
Find a new intresting show.
Create a new playlist with your favourite songs.
Find a new comfort YouTuber.
Think about your fun childhood memories.
Try a new form of exercise.
Make a vision board.
Get a therapist, and if you can't: talk with strangers online.
Listen to yout favourite subliminals.
Create a moodboard.
Create a new peace of jewerly.
Give away the clothes you dont wear anymore.
Create a visionboard and look at it everyday while affirming.
Try a new makeup style.
Go out without doing your makeup.
Get used to your 'effortless' look; no makeup, lay clothes, tied hair.
Get used to failing and learn from your mistakes.
Be grateful for the simple things you're blessed with.
Listen to a podcast.
Go on a walk.
Choose your kind of 'perfection'.
Think about deep topics and write about it.
TW: mention of suicide attempt
This was the first time she explicitly told me how proud she is of me and how far I've come.
While I've had a lot of people tell me that they're proud of me but somehow, hearing this from someone who knows me a lot differently than others, knows all those things that I refuse to share with others, understands my thought process, it just made all the difference.
As she was telling me about the growth I've had, I couldn't hold back the tears.
She told me that I seemed more confident, sure of myself and stronger than ever before. It was really overwhelming.
I'm really glad to have found her and to have come so far. From attempting to take my own life last year to not depending on anyone for my happiness and being content with my life as it is. It's been one hell of a journey and I'm just happy to be alive to experience this.
Never give up, you'll get there eventually.
I LOVE THEM!!! LOOOK AT THEM!!!
If you find yourself in a situation where you aren’t happy, please, do anything in your power to get yourself out of it. Even if it makes others unhappy. When necessary, put your well-being first.
Thought I'd share the birthday cake I made from scratch for my mom this year. She's stole a slice before we could even blow up the candles. It's german chocolate for anyone interested in knowing. Her birthday was yesterday. So if you want, you can wish her a happy belated birthday.
Kal maine mummy ko aise hi bola aur aaj specially mere liye kathal ke kofte ki sabji ban rhi 😁 yaar ye mummy log itni pyaari kyu hoti hai 😌 yaa ghar pe aaj dusra din hai isiliye itna Pyaar mil rha phir ghar ki murgi daal brabar ho jayegi, kuchh din ruk jaun to sabse jyada pareshan mere se hi honge sab 🤔😅