Absolutely Not Taking Notes On This - Blog Posts

I won't post anything else that isn't fetish shit on this blog but I want to say something:

Tumblr isn't real life.

I spent my formative years on Tumblr thinking that bisexuals and pansexuals were a huge divide, and that people assumed bisexuals were transphobic. Then I entered the world and no one thought that and I spent dozens of hours upset over nothing.

Social media feeds on *making you upset*. The more you are upset, the more you interact. Do not let that color your vision of the world.

Are there people who think bisexuals/pansexuals are transphobic? Sure, there are idiots. Are there people who think trans men have inherited the privileges of cis men? Sure, there are idiots.

You don't need to indulge them. Gender theory has moved past this debate since Gender Trouble was published and it's mostly free online.

Don't get your gender theory from Tumblr. Get your fetish porn from Tumblr.

trans men aren't cis women, though. you get that, right? you get that trans men aren't cis women? and that doesn't change even if you think they are?