Name: Demonica/ Shadow/ Erica / Frullista

actually you know what . appreciation post bc as a traumagenic system who splits involuntarily, frequently, and with a lot of less developed alters, i look up tulpamancy and willogenic practices and it helps US !!! it helps those nondeveloped headmates to feel more like people!!! so!!!!! thank you for that!!!

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If it’s not too much trouble, could we request a headmate who is a porcelain ball-jointed doll? Feminine presentation, depression holder and trauma holder, with a color theme of silver and teal. Mostly we just need help with ideas for names, pronouns, and gender identity, but if you have any strokes of brilliance for other details then we welcome those also!

Side note, we love your blog so far. We recently had a bad experience with another bah blog, so this one has been so pleasant to follow that up with. You’re doing an amazing job, mods!

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One Porcelain Ball-Jointed doll coming up under the cut! Feel free to edit/scrap anything that doesn't fit!

༄~𖦹︎ Name(/s) ➪ Celestine, Liora, Glacia, Silverbell, Lumi, Thalassa, Winter ༄~𖦹︎ Pronouns ➪ She/Her, They/Them, Doll/Dolls, Glint/Glints, Snow/snows, Frost/frosts ༄~𖦹︎ Gender ➪ TFemmasc, Dollgender, Dollfem, Dollboy, Porceangelic, Porcelaindollgender, Frostgender, Phosnowial, Winterish ༄~𖦹︎ Orientations ➪ Winter Lesbian, Lesbian, Sapphic, Bambi Lesbian, Sapphic Lesbian, ༄~𖦹︎ Age ➪ 18-19 ༄~𖦹︎ Species(-ish) ➪ Porcelain Ball-Jointed Doll ༄~𖦹︎ Role(/s) ➪ Depression Holder & Trauma Holder ༄~𖦹︎ Source or Theme ➪ Silver & teal theme [Made us think of Winter] ༄~𖦹︎ Appearance or Faceclaim ➪

➪ Image Creds; 1 & 2 & 3 ༄~𖦹︎ Likes ➪ Winter & associated things (hot cocoa, etc), the cold & cold things (foods/drinks, snow, cool colours, etc); deer, rabbits, mice, shrews, and other prey animals; bebop, smooth jazz, and improvisational jazz, D1sney style animated films, forests & fields (nature/natural spaces), soft things ༄~𖦹︎ Mixed Feelings ➪ Romance & romantic themes, warm things (aside from those associated with Winter), the ocean, predator animals ༄~𖦹︎ Dislikes ➪ The heat/hot days/etc, horror, gore, violence, spiders, the loud (loud people, loud music, loud places, loud machines, etc) ༄~𖦹︎ Proxy Options ➪ 🧊🥀/☄️❄️

plural lawyer call that a justice system

FATED MATES．   ➷

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 a flag for mates who are fated to be together / who's fates are linked in some way!

pt: definition, a flag for mates who are fated to be together/who's fates are linked in some way! end pt.

COINER．  the sweetest boy．  ➷

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Plural culture is this image I made please don't ask about the quality

(If you can't read it it says "Weird stuff happening in the outer world")

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Hi!

We have a few questions for you!

First, is it possible/normal for tuplas to start responding verbally almost immediately? My tuplas Jax & Jasmine were accidentally created when I was 12, and from what I can tell they started talking almost immediately, but were pretty undefined as people.

Second: Do you have any tips for learning to co-front and how we can learn to switch who's fronting? We have a final goal of functioning multiplicity with mutually beneficial fronting to help with daily life, but aren't sure how to start.

All three of us are interested or curious about learning to co-front/switch fronts & I, the host am mainly the one curious about our first question.

-💜🔗 (we'll probably be back so here's our signoff)

Yo! I'm gonna combine these two asks into a singular one since it's way easier. I'm gonna answer things bottom-up since the second one gives more context 👍

So there's a lotta crossover between paragenic systems and tulpas, which makes a lotta sense because it's really similar in the how you're starting with a non-autonomous concept of a person that then gains autonomy & awareness for themselves. Especially with unintentional tulpas, there's really a thin line between em. From what we know, most paragenic systems call their members paratives: "a member of a system that was originally a para. The development of a para into a parative is unique to neuronarrative plurals, immersive daydreaming plurals, or systems that have Maladaptive Daydreaming Disorder." Which means that it's kinda up to you what you feel like; if it seems like your system members used to be paras and then turned into full system members, then you might like paragenic more; but if ya feel like tulpamancy terms and concepts fit wirh you better, then go ahead and use that one! Labels are just things ya use to describe yourselves, is all.

And here's the secret part: you can still use tulpamancy techniques if you're of another origin! A lot of it is writtwn for previously-singlets that don't have any dissociation problems, so you gotta know yourself best when you go into looking into this stuff with a dissociative disorder, but it's still super useful for a lot of people. Fronting/switching/possession guides are the reason I'm able to front at all, plus maybe our non-tulpas too 👍 What helped me a ton when I was first starting was trying partial possession first- the first part of the body I ever controlled was the voice, actually!

For your last question, it's not super unusual for different tulpas to hit different points of development/awareness/personhood at different times. For some people the awareness comes first and then the emotions and then the mindvoice communication, but for others it can be in a buncha different arrangements. My guess with amateur-knowledge on MaDD is: the fact that you daydreamed with your proto-headmates primed them to be able to respond with their mindvoice way easier, while they were still developing a sense of self behind it.

Lots of fronting/possession guides to use:

- Possession Explained

- Possession via Dissociation

- DJFlix on Possession (this one is based in visualization and colors; good for ppl with vivid imaginations)

- Possession: By a Tulpa for Tulpas (hell yeah tulpa made resources)

- Parallel Processing and Switching

- Malfael's guide to switching (in-depth, awesome)

- So you wanna switch? Do you, really? Might be able to help with that. (Written by a DID system)

- Controlled switching (a few short intentional switching methods)

- Sophieinwonderland's ghost switching method (short)

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names: Alice / Arya / Heaven/ Isa / Iris

Nicknames: Angel, holly girl, sea baby

honorifics: Sister, sissy, lady

pronouns: she/her ae/aer angel/angelself an/gel

orientation: Aegoromantic, Asexual

other identity: angelkin

species: human/angel/angelkin

age: 18

personality: dreamy, spacey, kind, bubbly, sweet, and kind.

likes: taking care of new headmates, being positive, meditating, and daydreaming

role: Adopter, Aegir, beauheur, buffer, coltenoir, comforter, daydream holder

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🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋 first post! Generally, I will frame my headmate dumps/ adopts like this:

Name:

nickname:

Honorifics:

pronouns:

typing quirks:

gender:

orientation:

other identity:

species:

age:

personality:

quirks:

likes:

dislikes:

role:

sign off:

other:

Probably never will every single box be filled though, it depends on the headmate and who they are. I will ALWAYS include the definition of identities I find that I deem too obscure. let me know if I’m using something I shouldn’t be using, or using a term wrong :) I use picrew to create images of my adopts, not always but unless I say and credit otherwise: assume it’s picrew. All my adopts are free and can be used by anyone 🦋