Trying to reclaim hyperfeminity as a woman is like if Black people trying to reclaim racist minstrel imagery…
you..you read this out before you sent this to me right? I’m sorry for not responding to you previously if that’s what’s got you so worked up but I looked into the book you recommended I read and I’d rather not read a book that has incorrect statistics and’s whole message when you take off the fancy ribbons is just “makeup bad, makeup please men” (and some of the deaths threats I’ve been receiving certainly haven’t helped me respond either)
Hyperfeminity and racist minstrel imagery are very VERY different things, and you trying to compare them just tells me you do not understand hyperfeminity nor do you understand the decades of pain and racism surrounding minstrel imagery.
When I made my original post I was calling out TERFs, not radical feminists (which is why it’s not used). TERFs are toxic, exclusionist, racist, transphobic/homophobic, anti-feminty, and/or just all around assholes where as Rad fems are actual feminists who believe that gender is a social construct and I have no problem with.
When I was reading your response to me you made some valid arguments and it was well written, however, you also compared women to slabs of seasoned meat and as the seasoned meat you’re talking about I’m just here to say. I chose my seasonings because I like them, I chose to wear makeup and I chose to wear short skirts because I like them.
and before you say anything about how I’m “pandering to men” shut the fuck up, it is not my job to tone myself down so men don’t get a hard on in public and try to touch me, it’s their job to control themselves and let me live peacefully. And I would be able to leave peacefully if it wasn’t for TERFs like you who let men get away with abusing hyperfeminity but it’s cause you do let them get away with it that I got my first ‘me too’ moment at 11 when I chose to wear a skirt to school for the first time.
I said it before and I’ll say it again, femininity is not something to turn away as it’s a central part in many women’s lives, nor should we turn away actual feminists just because they want to wear a mini skirt and high heels. The longer we keep this ideology the more dangerous it will become for ALL women, the longer we enforce the idea that any woman who expresses femininity is in some way made for men the harder it will be when we go to fight against S@ and the more normalized it will become.
Oh, and I don’t hate masculine women or gender neutral/gender non conforming women as you claim, they’re all wonderful and many of them are my close friends. My post simply wasn’t about them, easy as that.
I’m not your enemy, but you are very clearly mine if this is truly what you believe.
This disability pride month, let’s talk more about the fact that even invisibly disabled people cannot work full time jobs. Let’s talk about how job hunting is a fucking nightmare, how people expect us to be able to work if we’re able to stand at all, how we’re told we’re not qualified for jobs that would be lighter on us physically but the part-time retail position down the road would “love” to have you until you have that job and you’re calling out more than once a month. Let’s talk about how remote work isn’t always an option, how difficult it even is to find remote work, how classist remote work tends to be. When I say “give disabled people enough money to live, zero required qualifiers, zero questions asked,” I mean it. Yes, even they can “technically” work. Capitalism has poisoned society into treating its members like cogs in a machine, and if one isn’t spinning, the immediate reaction is to throw it out.
The towns people are extremely scared of this evil and powerful witch that lives in the surrounding forest, nobody knows her name all they know is if you try to get near her she’ll curse you.
the truth is, the witch in question is extremely anti-social and putting curses on the over-friendly towns people was the only way to get them off her back. She’s not evil, she just wants to collect herbs and medicines in peace.
Big problem with online trans discourse is that a lot of people - including other trans people - 100% believe that trans people are the gender we say we are, and that transitioning is not Just A Weird Sex Fetish Thing, in the abstract. Theoretically. But once confronted with actual trans people that dissolves away pretty quickly.
A lot of people out there who try to be trans-positive will gladly believe any accusation of sexual misconduct against a trans person - ESPECIALLY trans women because of the whole "deception" stereotype. "No, no, it's not because they're trans, I just like to Believe Victims," someone will say, despite the fact that any evidence is...flimsy at best - they liked a children's cartoon, they like erotic horror, they like a Bad Ship, they refused to dogpile someone for liking a Bad Ship, they made a joke about their genitals in a strictly adult space, they flirted with someone once (and stopped when it wasn't reciprocated but let's just ignore that clearly they still WANT to and THINKING is the SAME as HARASSING) - oh, they're obviously a predator, and saying that accusation is transphobic is trivializing transphobia!
A lot of people out there who try to be trans-positive will tell transmascs that they're "dominating the conversation" if they're doing ~10-25% of the speaking - which is...even less forgiving than where cishet men will usually see women as dominating the conversation (25-30%). Transmasc exclusionism hinges on this concept. We need to sit down and be quiet like good little girls responsible people aware of the dangers of male privilege because perfectly stealth trans men make 90% of what their cis male counterparts make rather than 80% so clearly there's no difference between us at all! We need to make ourselves small and ~remember it's okay to be feminine~.
It's, uh, how can I put this? Bad.
Heyyyy I remembered I actually can post shit on Tumblr and I promised a part 2 so here it is please enjoy! Please note this is all my own opinion and that I apologize if you dislike them, I may change certain aspects of already created lore and some parts of Minecraft as a whole to fit my ideals better.
TWs: cursing, death, mentioned witchcraft (????), death, “accounting” (Wil said Sally was an accountant and we all know what that truly means), possession, abandonment, trauma (ig?)
- witchdoctorponkwitchdoctorponkwitchdoctorponk- Ponk is a doctor in the SMP (I can’t remember if this is cannon or nah but it is in this reality) when someone gets hurt on the SMP they usually go to him, but because most medicines and such in Minecraft are y’know potions he knows his way around them and as a joke people call Ponk a witch-doctor. He’ll give people all kinds of neat potions and such to help them recover faster or ease pain, and since to make the complicated potions needed for his lien of work he ends up falling into the hole of witchcraft.
- Charlie knows more than he lets on, he’s been around for thousands of years- and is the same age if not older than Philza (who I hc to be almost 33,000+ years old). He’s definitely seen some shit, he just may not want to reveal or accept what he’s seen, because of this he puts on the mask of knowing little about the world to shield not only himself but also those he cares about from the horrors he’s seen through the years.
- I am in support of Demon Sapnap, he’s like a hybrid of whatever tf Bad is and to me it just makes more sense that a demon would adopt another demon.
- “if Bad adopted Sapnap would he count as a dilf?” “Ace shut your mouth.”
- (After being reminded of Puffy’s boundaries, I am changing this to only speak of my dad!Schlatt and son!Tubbo theory) Tubbo is Schlatt’s son, or at the very least we think he is, for my headcannons I’m just saying they are. Tubbo’s mom I’d assume was either human or some other horned hybrid (probably another sheep hybrid) but due to Schlatt’s alcohol problems and bad attitude she probably left him not long after Tubbo was born which lead to Schlatt being unable to take care of him and his addictions getting worse yadda yadda. AND NO HE WAS NOT ADOPTED BY PHIL.
- while we’re still on the topic of Puffy- they use to be a pirate captain, but settled down after a while then later adopted Foolish. But Foolish was not the cause of her leave, but rather she needed a break for the dangerous pirate life which lead her to the SMP. She stayed for a while but by the time she was finally ready her crew had already left her behind because she had taken too long. She eventually forgot about her days as a pirate until many years later when she found the ship again.
- Tubbo and Ranboo have confirmed that their C!characters are indeed in a romantic relationship but I’m not ready to accept that Tubbo fell in love with the enderman he was suppose to steal money from. (He can do better smh ✋🙄)
- Ranboo teleports in his sleep which is the only way Tubbo is actually able to go to sleep because it means that there is no longer a monster nearby since they keep Micheal in a separate house (if I’m remembering lore correctly that is).
- purpled is an alien, what kind of alien we don’t know.
- Sally wasn’t an accountant that deals with letters and numbers, she was an “Accountant”. She ran away with Wilbur to live happily with their child, but then cause Salmon don’t lie very long she died of natural causes. Wilbur was thrown in a deep, deep, depression which somehow lead him down the path of making a drug van.
- If Velvet (antforst’s significant other) joined the SMP there are two things that may happen. 1. He’d be able to undo whatever the egg did to Ant. The whole true love conquers all trope but in a different way, it’s still true love but instead it’s giving Ant the motivation he needs to fight back against the egg and possibly helping save everyone else. 2. He’d join the egg in order to be with Ant just as Bad did for Skeppy, history repeating itself almost. Though I think it’d be 1 instead there is still this possibility, the Egg lures people in through empty promises of giving them their greatest desires, and Velvet’s greatest desire would most likely to be with Ant. This lead to Velvet’s possession, yada yada, bam! More food for the fan artists.
- Dream is homeless but also not, like he has a house but it’s not his and he’s rarely there. So someone on the SMP (idk who, probably Foolish) had built him a house as a gift in the earlier days of the SMP, but nobody knew of it other than person who built it. But the person who built it still technically owns it making it their house and not Dreams, because of this Dream isn’t there often since he was too busy, then he went to Prison and it was basically abandoned.
Hey, hey! Friendly reminder to make sure your supposedly “fearless” character gets their darkest fear revealed in the worst way possible so they break down into a vulnerable shaking mess in front of all the people they care about
TW: Mention of SA
I don't have many somnophilia post, but I can't help but worry that they may attract creeps. So here's a little PSA:
If you grope your partner while they're sleeping without prior negotiation of consent, that's assault.
If you penetrate your partner while they're sleeping without prior negotiation of consent, that's assault.
If you penetrate yourself on your partner while they're sleeping without prior negotiation of consent, that's assault.
If you previously negotiated and obtained consent but continue any of the activities mentioned after your partner has used their safeword, that's assault.
Consent is mandatory. Consent can be revoked at any time. This applies to any act, sexual or nonsexual. If you don't have consent, it isn't CNC. It's assault.
I was about to go to bed when I saw I had 99+ notifs (which just keep counting!) and I’m ugly crying right now I didn’t think I’d get this far, thank you all so much for liking my artwork and thank you Eret for liking it as well. I really didn’t think this would happen to thank you all so much 💕💕💕
why are people trying to unassociate radfem from terf please it's so dangerous
I just got an ask about a Native spirit that many Natives have asked monsterfuckers to not use.
It starts with a W.
People from the culture it’s from do not say its name because in their culture, saying the name summons the spirit. Out of respect for my friends from that culture, I do not say/type the name either.
I would kindly ask you not put that creature in my ask box in the future. I know the person that submitted it likely didn’t know so there’s no hard feelings. It’s alright. I’m not upset.
I’m not really the best person to educate folks on this topic and I wish I had some resources on why that’s not a good thing for non-Native people to use for their fiction.
I’m sure even my wording here isn’t great. I know the spirit is from a specific Native culture (there’s a lot of them, for those that didn’t know lol) and I can’t remember which one(s) and my brain is still fuzzy from being sick.
So if any of my followers are familiar with this issue, please feel free to share the info of why this isn’t good.
Again, I understand the person that sent the ask likely didn’t know all this. I’m not upset. I just think it’s worth mentioning.
Yknow what. I’m just gonna say it.
It’s about time we have a fictional princess who actually enjoys being a princess.
She enjoys the politics. She enjoys the diplomacy. And she enjoys the balls and banquets and attention and pretty dresses and that doesn’t make her a dumb shallow bimbo or some regressive anti feminist handmaid or whatever the kids say these days about women who don’t fall in line with their Strong Female Character power fantasies.
All the princesses urging for ‘something more’ that’s all fine and good but I’m ready to see a princess who appreciates that being a princess is already a lot!
Hello! I'm Ace | she/they | 19 | I enjoy Minecraft, Art, Animal Crossing, Writing, and I adore Y2K fashoin | June Gemini | "it's always the b//tches with strict parents that are the horniest" - my best friend
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