You Are Not Stuck—you Are Just Hesitating.

My love for you is the most authentic and genuine thing I have ever known.

It’s a beautiful skill to master the art of being whoever the moment needs. But don’t ever shrink your own feelings because no one stayed when you got serious about what you need.

Stillness has a way of pulling everything to the surface. The dreams you have tucked away, the fears you don’t speak out loud, the memories that still echo, and the questions that still don’t have answers. It’s when your guard is down and the world is quiet that your soul speaks the loudest. Even in the weight of it all the wisdom is still unfolding, the thoughts and feelings are not here to torment you, there here to show you the truth of your heart, what needs your love, your attention, your healing. Allow the quiet to soften what the distractions may sharpen. Allow your soul to feel heard so that you can understand the map of your heart and move in the direction of what’s purposeful and true.

The most magnetic thing you can do is to let yourself be fully loved—exactly as you are.

If a person you love leaves it’s because they believed it would make them feel better. Not because they don’t care but because they value feeling good. Recognise this truth. Not trying to fight, resist, fix or deny it is the single most powerful move you can make. To allow is to do something, to respect their choice is to do something. To accept, without trying to change, control or convince them to see things differently—takes more strength, confidence and faith than any act of force. Standing your ground and understanding the art of allowing is the ultimate act of self worth.

There is always a way back to love and renewal through forgiveness. There is always an opportunity to make right your wrongs and breathe new life into your heart. The journey of forgiveness often begins within ourselves, a willingness to be open and a desire to be in union with our soul.

To forgive others, we must first confront our own mistakes and accept our humanity. When we hold onto guilt or resentment towards ourselves, it becomes a barrier to extending that compassion to others. This weight of unacknowledged mistakes can cloud our judgment and perpetuate cycles of blame and hurt. By forgiving ourselves, we create a space for understanding and empathy, not only for ourselves but for those around us.

By nurturing a forgiving attitude towards ourselves, we set the foundation for healing relationships and in turn creating a more compassionate world.

Occasionally, we encounter a silence that words cannot penetrate, a landscape of feelings that is too vast to articulate. There are times when we articulate thoughts with eloquence, yet they lack the warmth of genuine emotion. And then, in the rarest of moments, we find ourselves enveloped in a serene void, where neither feelings nor words exist, and all that remains is a tranquil emptiness.

I know my worth but sometimes I like to have a little sale 🙃