Howdy from your local demi boy, enby, he/they. I am your parent and you are safe here.
since the old version of this post was flagged for 'adult content'...
hello, my name is leo, or more commonly known as ‘lav’ on here.
i’ve been dealing with debilitating chronic pain for over 10 years and i really need a wheelchair. i haven’t gotten much help from my healthcare system, being fat and afab has really fucked me over while trying to seek medical attention..
i am still fighting to completely figure out what’s wrong with me, but for now i know that i have several bulging discs in my lower back, as well as scoliosis. (as well as medically recognised POTS).
my pain is getting worse and worse, and i barely leave my home since walking and being upright in general hurts so much. a wheelchair would improve my life immensely, both physically and mentally.
i am currently on disability benefits, which pretty much is the lowest income group in sweden, and saving up for a wheelchair myself would take a very long time.. i will of course also be saving up as much as i can and putting into an account meant for wheelchair funds.
so i’m asking you to donate if you want to and if you are financially able to, and if not, please reblog this.
i have found a good chair that is also accessible to a fat person, and i need 7111 SEK (around 650$) to cover the cost of the chair & the shipping. i have started a gofundme that i’ll be sharing in this post, and i welcome all help, donating just a little helps, and reblogging and sharing the gofundme in general helps immensely too.
thank you so much for reading💜
This is probably the only thin I’ll ever post but here we go.
Asexuality.
It’s completely normal. Just likes it’s completely normal for some people to be interested in sex.
Sex is like... a side quest. Y’know in video game.
It’s not necessary to complete your goal most of the time unless it’s a specific goal, and even then there can be ways around it, that could be likened to cheat codes. Some people enjoy side quests, some like them occasionally, others like to play them constantly; sometimes hindering their process on their main goal. And some people hate them in general.
That’s not to say ace people can’t have sex or that all are sex repulsed, it’s just an example. Some people don’t typically do the side quests but will occasionally endulge in them. Whether because they want to or because they want to share the experience with someone. That doesn’t make them any less of an gamer in that sense, so why would it an ace occasionally having sex make them any less ace.
As an ace, I’m not met with prejudice on the daily, unlike some people, but having people tell you that your sexuality doesn’t exist because you just haven’t blossomed yet is... Brainwashing. That’s probably not the best term but I can’t think of a better on. Drilling the idea that sex is something that you are supposed to o and except and like to be fully developed is a horrible thing to insinuate.
I don’t expect people to get better about this, people are horny, but that’s my two cents.
Ok so I have developed a new obsession and my lizard brain has drawn a connection between 4 unrelated characters and this paired them together.
They’re all
Skinny
Tall
Related to the color blue
And have some trauma
And I redrew each of em
We’ve got
2D from Gorillaz
Edd from Ed, Edd, and Eddy
Huggy Wuggy from Poppy Playtime
And
Megamind from, well Megamind
The way my brain rationalized these was that they should each be from a Different form of media such as a band, cartoon, video game, or movie.
And now I present you my favorite work I’ve created of these boys so far
Since I love Gorillaz
Ummm hi? My name is Sonny (pronounced sunny) and I use all pronouns with a preference of they/them.
And uh these are the flags I associate with
- ace
- aro
- non-binary
- androgyne
- trans
- aroace
Not the asshole, that mama was out of line.
I’m sorry. I just. I just love farting stepdad so much 😭 Like use what you have available to you.
What song would be playing on my pride float?
I...
I don’t know how to explain why other than I live this song and Robin is LGBTQ+.
Once I realised that I was Aro/Ace, I actually started to appreciate love and romance more.
Before, it always was this vague concept everyone was supposed to be a part of no matter what, but now it seems more like a fun way people can interact with eachother if they choose to do so.
Now that I no longer feel obligated to be a part of the whole romance thing, I'm actually more interested in stories containing romantic tropes. It feels freeing to no longer feel forced to picture myself in those situations.
sorry but cancelling a genuinely good show about overcoming grief starring a girl of color played by an actress who's actually around the character's age, two queer characters (one of whom is of color) whose relationship kind of drives the show, and honestly just in general a show which goes out of it's way to do justice to its characters and actors is... certainly a move
“Exclusionists are pathetic.” I absolutely love that last part because it’s refined nonsense.
Cripples are not “exclusionists” or “pathetic” for asserting that cripplepunk is for physically disabled people. That is literally just a fact.
Copy pasting your queer politics over every marginalized community you encounter is pathetic.
Calling people “exclusies” for experiencing traumas and oppression you don’t is pathetic.
Refusing to educate yourself is pathetic.
Lying about terms and a community created a decade ago by a dead person who EXPLICITLY STATED who it was for
I love all things frog, mushroom, rainbow high… I have Ehlers danlos syndrome and use both a rollator and a cane. Enby that is bad at making friends but likes to have them. I adore many cartoons but haven’t seen even more.
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