As the title says, I am going to make my own label for my orientation. I have found labels that are close, but there are always extra pieces of information that don't really describe me. I know that you don't have to fit a label exactly to use it, but I think this will give me peace.
Aversexual - A label for when you experience a significant amount of sexual attraction, but have feelings towards sex that do not align with this attraction. This could be anything you feel fits this definition, but some examples include feeling neutral, averse, repulsed, etc!
Etymology: Aver (from averse) + sexual
[ID: a seven striped flag. In descending order, the stripes are light purple, lavender, light pink, hot pink, red, grey, and black. End ID.]
Averromantic - A label for when you experience a significant amount of romantic attraction, but you have feelings towards romance that do not align with this attraction. This could be anything you feel fits this definition, but some examples include feeling neutral, averse, repulsed, etc!
Etymology: Aver (from averse) + romantic
[ID: a seven striped flag. In descending order, the stripes are green, light green, pastel yellow, light orange, red, grey, and black. End ID.]
Averaroace / Averrose - A label for when you experience a significant amount of romantic and sexual attraction, but have feelings towards sex and romance that do not align with this attraction. This could be anything you feel fits this definition, but some examples include feeling neutral, averse, repulsed, etc!
[ID: a seven striped flag. In descending order, the stripes are blue, light blue, light pastel green, yellow, red, grey, and black. End ID.]
Etymology: Aver (from averse) + aro + ace,
or Aver + ro (from romantic) + se (from sexual)
I only made these three flags, but the prefix aver- can be applied to any type of attraction!
Bpd Adjacent Flag! A flag that is left vague so anyone who has BPD, is questioning, or simply experiencing traits or symptoms can use it! This was made with people who have trouble pinpointing or recognizing symptoms in mind, and is not to be used by transID supporters.
[ID: Two images. The first image is a flag with eight equal horizontal stripes. In descending order, the stripes are lavender purple, pastel lavender purple, white, soft yellow, peach orange, bright pink, purple magenta, and dark magenta. In the center of the flag, there is a black BPD symbol. The second image is a flag identical to the first, but without the symbol. End ID.]
BPD + Autism Adjacent flag! A flag that is left vague so anyone who has BPD and Autism themselves, is questioning having the disorders, or simply experiences traits or symptoms can use it! This was made with people who have trouble pinpointing or recognizing symptoms in mind, and is not to be used by transID supporters.
I made several versions of this flag. The first two are here, and more will be placed under the cut.
[ID: Two images. The first image is a flag with ten equal horizontal stripes. In descending order, the stripes are smoky blue, sky blue, blue green, pastel green, pale yellow, pale orange, peach orange, bright pink, purple magenta, and dark magenta. In the center of the flag is a combined autism and BPD symbol. The second image is a flag identical to the first, but without the symbol. End ID.]
Flags by me, requested by a member of the LGBTQIA wiki server! Colors picked from two BPD flags as well as an autism flag.
More versions below the cut, as well as the transparent symbol:
[ID 1: A flag with eight equal horizontal stripes. In descending order, the stripes are sky blue, blue green, pastel green, pale yellow, pale orange, peach orange, bright pink, and purple magenta. In the center of the flag is a black combined BPD and Autism symbol with added white lines for clarity. End ID.]
[ID 2: A flag that is identical to the first, but the symbol does not have white lines. End ID.]
[ID 3: A flag that is identical to the first, but there is no symbol. End ID.]
[ID 4: A flag that is identical to the first flag for BPD and Autism above the cut, but with white lines added to the symbol for clarity. End ID.]
[ID: Two images. Both images are the combined BPD and Autism symbol. The first has white lines added for clarity while the second has these areas made transparent. End ID.]
[plain text: (C)PTSD Aro! /end plain text.]
Flag for aros and arospecs who have ptsd or cptsd!
[ID: A rectangular flag with nine equal horizontal stripes. In descending order, the stripes are dark blue, leaf green, dull pastel green, off white green, dull purple grey, off white pink, dull yellow, dull orange, and dull red. End ID.]
[ID: A divider that consists of a thin white line with three stars on each side. End ID.]
Flag by me, tagging @radiomogai.
Then if itβs ok, may I request a HPD adjacent flag?οΏΌ
Sure thing! I will get to work soon!
Silly flag! For when you are silly. I just made this for fun really so interpret it however you want to!!
[ID: A flag with nine equal horizontal stripes. In descending order, the stripes are dark purple, grape purple, sky blue, bright teal, off white pink, pastel yellow, pastel orange, hot pink, and dark plum pink. End ID.]
Flag by me, using colors from Neopronouns' sillyperspeque flag (link).
Loser gay flag - flag for anyone who considers themselves gay and reclaims the term "loser" for themselves!
[ID: A flag with seven equal horizontal stripes. In descending order, the stripes are berry pink, pink, light peach pink, white, blue mint green, berry blue, and blue purple. End ID.]
Loser trans flag - flag for anyone who considers themselves trans and reclaims the term "loser" for themselves!
[ID: A flag with five equal horizontal stripes. In descending order, the stripes are lapis blue, faded pink, light blue grey, faded purple, and muted dark blue. End ID.]
Loser Narc flag, for people with NPD who reclaim the term loser for themselves!
[ID: Two images. The first image is a flag with seven horizontal stripes. In descending order, there is a thick deep red stripe, a thin brick red stripe, a thin pale orange stripe, a thin pale yellow stripe, a thin lavender blue stripe, a thin purple blue stripe, and a thick dark grey stripe. The second image is a flag with seven equal horizontal stripes. In descending order, the stripes are deep red, brick red, pale orange, pale yellow, lavender blue, purple blue, and dark grey. End ID.]
Exclusive to those with NPD! Researched self diagnosis is valid.
Flag by me. Colors inspired by the NPD awareness flag.
Tagging @losingender and @npd-archive.
We're not halfway there yet, but we're slowly making our way there ππ
We're less than β¬2,000 away from achieving this goal.
Please help me get there ππ
I trust your help ππ¨
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Palettian (pal - ET - chee - an): a colorgender that can be described with or feels connected to color schemes or palettes, or the appeal of color schemes or palettes. It can be all color palettes, or any number of specific ones!
If this already exists, please inform me!
Phantovast - a (xeno)gender related to space, ghosts, nebulae, uncertainty, darkness, and the vastness of the universe! It may be an aesthetigender but it doesn't have to be!
[ID: A flag with seven equal horizontal stripes. In descending order, the colors are purple grey, dark purple brown, pale black, grey blue, ice blue, and off white. End ID.]
omg nevermind i did not read your entire post despite all that i'm so sorry!! well instead please just take that ask as an appreciation message for what that means to me π«
No worries! Thank you very much for your asks, reading them made me very happy! Pretty good timing too, I'm on a trip right now so I haven't had as much access to my laptop and I seem to have logged on right as you sent those! Have a good timezone!
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