・꙳𓂂•.♡・❥・♡꙳𓂂•.

༺✾𓂃✧♨༻

"Coffee smells like freshly ground heaven." - Jessi Lane Adams

.・꙳・.✭.・♡˚✦𓂃☆.•・.

Punishment with silence

He doesn't reply to messages. He pretends not to hear you. He is silent, although he knows you are waiting for a word.

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This is not ordinary silence. This is not a need for solitude. This is not a moment to think.

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This is a weapon. Precise and aimed straight at you. Causing pain without leaving a mark. Hurting without touching. Punishment with silence. A sophisticated method of control. A way to break your spirit. A technique that makes you beg for attention.

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And this person? They are just waiting. Waiting for you to break. Waiting for you to be ready for anything. Waiting for you to understand "your guilt".

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This is not love. This is not care. This is not even a bad mood. This is emotional abuse. Silent. Subtle. Devastating. No shouting. No hitting. No brawls. And yet it leaves scars on the soul.

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You need to know this: Real partners talk. Real friends explain. Real loved ones do not use silence as punishment. You are not guilty of someone else's silence. You are not responsible for someone else's game. You don't have to beg for the attention of someone who deliberately ignores you.

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You deserve a relationship based on respect. You deserve a relationship in which silence is peace, not a weapon. You deserve someone who sees you as a human being even in conflict.

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Remember: Silence is golden only when someone does not use it as a weapon.

~ R. Wicijowski

・❥・"And, when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it." ・❥・

Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist

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"Recognizing that everything you encounter, touch, or love can become part of you, and in essence never disappears, as long as you can recall it to memory or heart. It's all so connected that we lose everything, but also, we never lose anything." .・❥・꙳•.♡꙳𓂃𓂂

-Adrianne Lenker

Good or bad our memories are always with you.・❥・꙳•.♡꙳𓂃𓂂

Collage by me.

.•・❥・♡꙳𓂃𓂂*・❥・꙳•.

We are constantly looking for joy in our life, we strive for it, because we want to be happy at all costs, and it doesn't belong to this world, but to the inner space of our hearts, which we can visit whenever we want. We'll find it there.

- Monika

"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”

– Ralph Waldo Emerson

•.・❥・♡꙳𓂃𓂂*・❥・꙳•.

"Human is a >>spoken<< animal, but only individuals who have something to keep silent about with each other mate for life."

- Wojciech Kuczok

•.・❥・♡꙳𓂃𓂂*・❥・꙳•.

Breaking news: Pope Francis, whose time as head of the Catholic Church was noted for an everyman humility and outreach efforts to people of disparate backgrounds and faiths, has died at 88. RIP 🙏🖤😢

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Christmas is not about opening presents, it is about opening our hearts. •.¸♡ ♡¸.•⭒☆*°*•・꙳