The way some people cannot understand that when I, an aroace-spec person, call someone "hot" it doesn't mean I'd like to share bed with them, but that I think they are a pleasing sight for my eyes. Yeah, they have good features. Yeah, they are pretty/handsome. That's it. Nothing more, it's just nice to look at them. Just like looking at some flower or aesthetically pleasing food. You don't need to like the scent of that flower or taste of that food, but it looks nice.
i’m tired of getting FUCKING discouraged, i’ve had enough. i am shifting. AND SO ARE YOU.
Affirmations I've been using recently:
"I have decided that I'm already in my (desired reality name) desired reality."
"I have decided to shift to my (desired reality nams) desired reality."
"I have become aware of my (desired reality name) desired reality."
"I am (desired reality name)."
if all you did today was get through today, it’s good and it’s enough.
I don’t think we are meant to fear the Gods. Not even Gods of storms, death, or war. To believe in them is to accept them as they are. Don’t let anybody convince you that polytheists should fear the Gods. Be awe-struck, be humble before them if it feels right, but in this modern day and age, spirituality shouldn’t feel unsafe.
You don't need to have a method(s) to shift. You don't need affirmations. You don't need a subliminal. You just need you.
If methods, affirmations, and subliminals help you, then go head and use it. I'm not going to judge. (Methods and affirmations help me).
Just know you don't NEED it. Not having it won't stop you shifting. Just breathe and do whatever is comfort and feels right to you. Just don't let anyone tell you that you NEED something to shift.
"It felt so good to feel the fresh wind on her face, the soft soil under her feet. She spread her arms and spinned and laughed."
I ALMOST SHIFTED A FEW DAYS AGO!!! I DECIDED TO THINK TO MYSELF, "I WILL SHIFT! NOTHING WILL STOP ME!" I WAS DOING MY USUAL AFFIRMATIONS BUT THEN I THOUGHT ABOUT USING MY SENSES AND I STARTED TO THINK "I CAN HEAR PEOPLE TALKING", "I CAN SMELL PEOPLE'S SWEAT", "I CAN FEEL THE SEATBELT", "I CAN SEE THE DROP SHIP. I CAN SEE MY S/O SITTING NEXT TO ME." AND I KEPT DOING IT AND THEN SUDDENLY I HEARD MULTIPLE VOICES BUT I COULDN'T HEAR EXACTLY WHAT THEY WERE SAYING! I COULD SMELL THE SWEAT! I COULD SEE CLEARLY THE DROP SHIP AND MY S/O IN MY MIND'S EYE! I COULD ALMOST FEEL THE SEATBELT IN MY HANDS! IT WAS THE FIRST TIME I EVER TRIED TO USE MY SENSES TO SHIFT!!!
༊*·˚ i love shifters.
༊*·˚ i love shifters who post storytimes & edits.
༊*·˚ i love shifters who are private about their drs.
༊*·˚ i love shifters with novel length scripts.
༊*·˚ i love shifters who don’t script.
༊*·˚ i love shifters who have shifted.
༊*·˚ i love shifters who haven’t shifted.
༊*·˚ i love shifters who try every night.
༊*·˚ i love shifters who haven’t tried in a while or are on a break.
༊*·˚ i love shifters with s/o’s.
༊*·˚ i love shifters without s/o’s.
༊*·˚ i love shifters who write scenarios and self-inserts.
༊*·˚ i love shifters who don’t write scenarios.
༊*·˚ i love shifters with a million drs.
༊*·˚ i love shifters with one dr.
༊*·˚ i love fem shifters.
༊*·˚ i love masc shifters.
༊*·˚ i love androgynous shifters.
༊*·˚ i love shifters of all shapes and sizes.
༊*·˚ i love shifters who doubt.
༊*·˚ i love shifters who have been trying for years.
༊*·˚ i love you all.
Idk if anyone else thinks this too but I'm pretty sure that those random ideas you get for your dr aren't actually just random ideas, it's you accidentally channeling your dr self without even knowing you're doing it. that one really specific scenario that randomly popped into your head? That actually happened in your dr and you just remembered it. I have so many scenarios, quotes and little quirks that I scripted about people in my dr but they're so specific and they came to me out of nowhere and I could not have made half of those up by myself