This Is My Favorite Leap Year Quote. 

to asexual boys:

it’s ok that you don’t feel sexually attracted to girls or boys

it doesn’t make you any less of a man

it’s ok if you’re a virgin

it’s ok if you want to stay a virgin

it’s ok

ur great

my winter self-care giveaway!

hello everyone! my last self-care giveaway was really popular, so i’ve decided do do another one, especially as it’s getting really cold where i live again, and winter depression can be tough. 

here’s what two lucky people will win:

3 Lush items of your choice

one “Happy Light” (for depression/Seasonal Affective Disorder)

handmade hat/scarf/gloves (matching set)

2 books of your choice

one medium sized stuffed animal

one pair of fuzzy socks

a bag of your choice of candy

one bag of your choice of tea (choose from herbal, black, etc.) from Adagio

if you’re following me, you’ll get 50 dollars in addition to everything else! (this is going to be from my birthday money, so you better not unfollow me after ;n;)

rules:

ends christmas day, 11:59 pm (12/25/15, my birthday, incidentally!)

there’ll only be two winners at first, but if i get enough notes, i’ll add more winners!

reblog as many times as you want, but don’t spam your followers.

likes and reblogs count.

when the giveaway ends, i’ll randomly choose and message the winner. if they don’t respond within 48 hours, i’ll pick another winner.

if there’s something on the list you don’t want, just let me know!

if you like this giveaway or have suggestions about anything i should add, i’d love to hear from you! i’d like to be able to do smaller versions of this giveaway more often, so feel free to message me!

good luck!! <3

Same here. Six.

reblog & tag how old you were in 2006

Christmas Mistletoe.

Reblog and see who leaves you a kiss in your ask box. ;)

Hi, in case you didn’t know, it is Ace Day! So in celebration, I made a Jedi with the asexual flag colors. So I guess I will say a few things about me for now.

I am Gray-Asexual, which means I rarely experience sexual attraction. I am Biromantic (bisexual too when I do feel attraction), which means that I can fall in love with and desire to date members of either sex. I am sex repulsed, which for me means that ideas of me having sex or other people having sex make me sick/bother me immensely.

Well that is it for this post. I will post another one for Ace Day later.

I’m going to come out as bisexual to my homophobic parents on 1st January 2016, please reblog this and I will put your URL in a notebook and give it to them to show that people support me x

*ace people laughing in the distance*

allosexual person: wow sex is the greatest thing ever me, a confused asexual: ok but have you ever stepped on a really crunchy leaf?

To all the wonderful Aces out there

I’m sending all of my love to Asexual people at Christmas time. This can be an especially hard time for aces, especially if relatives and friends start questioning them about relationships.

Don’t feel like you have to validate your sexuality or reasons why you do not have a partner this Christmas. You should not be made to feel bad about who you are, especially as we near a new year.

Honestly I love this time of year, but the questions from family members drive me insane. For a long time I sat in silence, not speaking out against how uncomfortable those sort of personal questions made me. Not only did I feel uncomfortable, but I felt guilty for not having a partner/relationship. 

I have since discovered that I am on the ace-spectrum. I no longer feel guilty because I no longer believe there is anything wrong with me. I guess that’s the message I wanted to get out today.

Your sexuality does not define you. 

Your lack of interest in sex/relationships/ etc does not mean you are broken.

Also, if people make you feel that bad about you not being in a relationship, you should really reevaluate whether you need those people in your life. 

You should never feel guilty for who you are. 

You are wonderful just the way you are.  I wanted to tell you all that because there are probably plenty of people who won’t hear it from family/friends over this winter season. 

#exactly you are loved by someone #noh8 #fuckracism #novosexual #asexual #pansexual #bisexual #lipsticklesbian #fuckwhatyouthink #fuckthem #fuckfamily #fuckfakefamilymembers #youareworthit #youareimportant