me and the 1109 edits of the same man saved in my camera roll against the world.
emma, how to embrace the fulfillment state? do you have any tips to stay motived or not care when you don't shift at the same night? like, what tools do you use to stay connected and enjoyed? example: listening to music that reminds of your dr or scenarios. ‧ ౨ৎ thank you, love. ♡
you want to be in the fulfilment state . . . then enjoy things. actually. on purpose. like an insane person. stare at the ceiling like it’s a renaissance painting of your dr bedroom. listen to music that makes your chest hurt a little because it reminds you of the hallway you pace in your dr when you're pretending not to wait for him (you know the hallway. it echoes when he walks). live like you’re the unreliable narrator of a niche novel being turned into an arthouse tv show no one will understand until season 3. eat it up. embody it. haunt your own plot.
tips for staying motivated when you don’t shift that night: girl. do you stop being in love with your crush just because they didn’t text you back one (1) time? (ok maybe you do. relatable. but try to not do that here.) your dr is a place, not a prize. a home, not a finish line. not shifting one night doesn’t mean you’re not shifting. it just means your brain had the audacity to be tired. that’s not failure. that’s maintenance. like ok fine i didn’t quantum-leap into my hot little dreamverse, but did i romanticise the bus ride to school while listening to a fan edit soundtrack?? yes. did i do an 8-second visualisation while brushing my teeth and accidentally dissociate into another realm for a minute? also yes. so i won. every day is shifting. every second is evidence. every blink is a rehearsal.
and yes. i use tools. god i love tools. i’m like an inventor but instead of building machines i make deranged playlists that emotionally manipulate me into believing i’m already living inside a jane austen x kubrick crossover episode.
anyway. you are not failing to shift. you are literally in the foyer of your dream life eating strawberries and lying on the carpet. stay there. rearrange the furniture. hum a little song
from personal experience, you really don’t need to have the belief OR the feeling of already having your desire in order to get it. you can hope, wish, even be desperate and still be successful in the end. because genuinely, in what world wouldn’t you be able to shift or manifest with JUST the thought of wanting it? because to me, that’s just a useless limitation and that’s not something I’m going to hold onto!
I just needed to get this off my chest because I’ve seen an unlimited number of blogs saying things along the lines of, “hope won’t get you anywhere.” or “in order to get what you want, you need to believe that you have it.” and I call that B U L L S H I T. like, what the hell guys. 😭😭
stop focusing on your senses
when shifting, your physical senses are the last to shift! when you’re hyper-aware of your body, you could be anchoring yourself to your current reality.
let go.
detach from the need to feel immediate sensations and trust the process. you are in control.
focus on your intention, not on whether you ‘feel’ it happening. this is why i like to make it clear that not everyone feels physical symptoms, and that is okay!!! shifting is about aligning your consciousness, not forcing physical proof.
remind yourself: you are already shifting. every thought, every visualization, every moment spent in alignment with your desired reality brings you closer.
release the need for validation. your experience is valid, whether or not you feel tingles, heaviness, or detachment. trust in your mind’s power.
shifting isn’t something you have to ‘catch’ happening - it’s something you allow to unfold.
a/n; if anyone has any idea of what they would like me to make a post about, go ahead and use my asks <3
“my hogwarts academia dr is gonna be chill, just vibes, less chaotic than my hogwarts band dr—”
I’m a goddamn liar.
I’ve started scripting a few songs I want to write along with my novel & poetry collection. I’ve added dramatic lore. I’ve scripted that lore comes back to haunt me quite literally.
Can I have one dr where I’m not putting myself through despair? Please?
Spoiler: the answer is no.
stop looking for confirmation
shifting is different for everyone. what works for one person may not work for you. it’s good to try different things and look for advice but at the end of the day you need to remember that shifting is personal. we are all different and different things work better for each of us. some people shift while visualising, some using a guided meditation and some by setting an intention.
don’t compare yourself to others, stop looking for confirmation and believe in yourself, listen to yourself and trust yourself. you know what’s best for you.
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just found out my dr s/o is and/or was an hour away from where I live… what do you mean the love of my life who doesn’t know I exist in this reality is an hOUR AWAY what is he dOING HERE I actually can’t take it I’m shifting right the fuck now I NEED HIM
(edit: I was in shambles writing this okay I mean the actor who plays him is supposedly an hour away and my body did not know how to process that)
SHIFTING IS WORTH EVERY BIT OF EFFORT.
Guys i don’t even know where to start. It’s so worth it. No listen, it’s so worth it!
I wake up and everything feels different but it feels like HOME. The beloved voices calling my name, the people I’ve dreamed of are real and all HERE.
YES you’ll look around and will see everything you’ve scripted! Your bed, your pet, your people, your EVERYTHING
The moment you see them, everything else fades. The frustration, the doubts, the nights you almost gave up, none of it matters anymore. Because you did it. Because you’re finally there.
So don’t give up.
I’ve recently embraced having different names in my drs, along with hairstyles and tattoos and stuff.
I used to be so adamant on being the same me I know here. I guess I’m a sentimental bitch. But then I had to change my name and hair in my Nightmare Before Kissmas dr for canon purposes and it was… liberating. And now i’m so into it. I want to be a new bitch every single time.
there is nothing quite as motivating as a fresh, new dr to script. I am vibrating with excitement I have so many ideas the possibilities are endless I am tHRIVING