Reading. Reading. Reading. Being well-read is so valuable!! Get cosy, pick up a Jane Austen, Emily Brontë, or maybe a Charles Dickens and spend some of your free time indulging in literature. <3
Soft-spoken and kind expressions. No one likes being around rude people. Being a bitch doesn’t make you look confident. Instead, be kind, make conversation, pay attention, engage, etc… trust me.
Dainty jewellery. Find some high-quality signature pieces.
Think before you speak. Take a moment to reflect on your thoughts so you can speak confidently and with intent without stumbling over your words!! <3
Quality over quantity. Stop buying large amounts of cheap clothing; instead, save up and invest in higher-quality pieces that will actually last you. :)
Practice your handwriting. Having pretty and neat handwriting is a lovely little detail; extra points if you write in cursive. ;)
Drop the slang words. Bro, cap, sus, drip, rizz, mid… just stop, please.
Keep to yourself. Small circle, no bragging, gossips only with the closest, keep your plans to yourself.
Watch your posture. Straighten that back, honey. I see you. :))
Manicured nails. I do mine every two weeks. Almond-shaped, always dark red. <3
As always, Please feel free to add your own suggestions and tips in the comments!! ♡ ₊ ⊹
✩‧₊*:・love ya ・:*₊‧✩
My American friends supporting my nail business once I land that side! 🤞🏼
Don’t be afraid anymore. Not of anyone. Not of anything. Nothing. Ever again. Listen to me: not ever again.
I am the girl that I think I am. 💅🏾
A young woman from South Africa 🇿🇦 chasing her dreams, living her ancestors wildest dreams 💫. It is just a matter of time till I get where I am ordained to be!
You're looking at your Air Hostess, your steward 👩🏽✈️✈️🛳 a beautiful Flight Attendant👩🏽✈️❤️🔥💅🏾🌍.
Andrei Tarkovsky, from a diary entry featured in Time Within Time; Selected Diaries
Sent over by my mentor
the first step, be clear about what your best version would look like. questions to ask yourself.
what would my best version look like?
what habits would i have?
what would my life be like?
what would be my morning and evening routine?
what thoughts would i have?
what would i focus on?
what thoughts and habits should i leave behind?
how would i like to feel?
and lastly…
what can i start doing to connect with this version of me?
you can also add your own questions if they resonate with you, the important thing about this exercise is that you connect a little bit more with that better version of yourself.
from my experience, it is important to focus and work on these three areas of our life at the same time so that none of these areas are out of balance and we can flow to that version more easily.
it is important because i have realized from my own experience and from other people who send me questions that they only focus on one area, in most cases, the habits, and forget others, then when something happens or we go through a bad moment we feel lost and it seems that everything is "wrong" but if we work on these areas at the same time and we nurture them day by day we will have more control of our emotions and thoughts, then we will not stagnate in "bad times". remember, we can always go through bad times but these always bring us a learning experience.
✨ physical
daily movement, create an exercise routine
eating healthy food, for the sake and perfect functioning of our body.
create a daily routine that will help us reach our goals.
healthy habits
hobbies that help us connect with our best self.
focus on the well-being of our body
✨ mental and emotional
read about personal growth, psychology, and topics that will help us to improve our personal best.
journaling
keep a daily record of our emotions, as well as our habits.
focus on what we do want rather than what we don't want
detect what our negative thought patterns are and change them for - more positive ones according to how we want to think and feel from now on.
affirm positively
work on those areas of our life that we need to improve or are damaged
✨ spiritual
healing and balancing both your feminine and masculine energies
develop your intuition
have faith in yourself and in the process of creation (god, universe, energy…)
read about spirituality
meditate day and night
doing energetic cleansing
connect with your spiritual side
love yourself for who you are now
forgive the people who hurt us and forget the past
practice gratitude
practice compassion and tolerance towards yourself and others
connect with nature
this is what i believe brings us closer to becoming our best version, as i am always learning new things about the subject and evolving both personally and spiritually so i will continue to share this in future posts.
as always all questions related to the topic are welcome and if you have any doubts you can also ask.
These workouts have been treating me good the week!🫧🫧🫡🤩
8 minute pelvic floor workout by eleni fit
10 minute full body by growwithjo
10 minute back workout by pamela reif
10 minute glute bridge burnout by pamela reif
10 minute core by madfit
10 minute full body by pamela reif
10 minute glute bridge burnout by madfit
10 minute abs and yoga by madfit
12 minute booty workout by move with nicole
15 minute full body slow strength by pamela reif
15 minute slow and on the floor workout by madfit
15 minute abs and booty by madfit
15 minute abs and yoga by madfit
17 minute pelvic floor workout by daisy keech
20 minute thigh workout by emi wong
20 minute slow and on the floor workout by madfit
20 minute full body victoria’s secret workout by mary braun
20 minute pilates core workout by eleni fit
20 minute abs by caroline girvan
20 minute lower body pilates by madeleine abeid
20 minute abs and booty by madfit
20 minute abs by madfit
24 minute full body sculpt by coach kel
25 minute barre and mat pilates by fitbymik
25 minute hourglass pilates by madeleine abeid
25 minute full body workout by emkfit
30 minute abs and thighs workout by emi wong
30 minute abs and booty by growwithjo
30 minute pilates by mizi
30 minute beginner pilates by move with nicole
30 minute pilates core workout by move with nicole
30 minute pilates for weight loss by moving mango pilates
30 minute full body pilates by move with nicole
30 minute full body pilates by move with nicole
30 minute full body pilates by move with nicole
30 minute full body pilates by move with nicole
30 minute abs by caroline girvan
30 minute hourglass pilates by madeleine abeid
30 minute beginner floor cardio by ps fit
30 minute abs by madfit
35 minute abs and booty pilates by move with nicole
35 minute full body pilates by move with nicole
35 minute full body pilates by move with nicole
40 minute full body workout by mizi
40 minute full body pilates by madeleine abeid
To do list - explore my entire being - accept my entire being - respect my entire being - support my entire being - love my entire being
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