When all you want is peace, but you keep on being tested and now all you think of are hard decisions to take like choosing to walk away or try harder.
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It's been a moment! This time next week we will officially be in 2025!! Itās so crazy to think that our new year glow-up started in September and I for one have seen HUGE shifts in starting my pre-2025 glow-up. If youāre late to the game, and only now having time to reflect on what you want achieve in 2025 here 3 simple focus points:
You absolutely need a vision. What are you working towards? What is your goal? This needs to be centred around how you want to feel. Every time Iāve skipped this step, Iāve just plodded along with life, sure some things have changed but not on a DRASTIC level. If you want that unrecognisable-collapsing-timelines shift to take place in your life you need to get familiar with your next level, this is so when it arrives, when you are presented with stepping stones it feels natural. It doesnāt feel scary. When I was sharing a room with my mom a year ago looking at ocean view apartments that were way more than I was used to paying I was able to push through the fear and discomfort of āwho am I to live thereā, āthis is too expensiveā because I had REHEARSED living in my new apartment so much. I knew what it felt like to walk my dog along the beach every morning. This lifestyle was NORMAL for me in my mind, so when the 3D caught up, I knew it was destiny. It felt right, it flowed, because I was FAMILIAR with my vision.
You need to actually look at your day to day and see where you are not optimising your life to move yourself forward. For example, you donāt have time for the gym in the mornings but waste 30mins scrolling in bed. That is time that can be optimised! You donāt have time to cook healthy lunches so end up buying junk food and feel gross, meal-prep is how you optimise your time! You donāt have time to meditate, but have to walk your dog every morningā¦Walking meditation with the dog is how you optimise. Make time work for you. Make your day, align with your future self, with the elevated you, not the lazy you, unproductive you.
You need to start speaking life into yourself with gratitude and praise. This looks like those mornings driving where you usually overthink and work yourself into a mental hell hole, you start speaking life into yourself. You go on a rampage, you remind yourself how good things always happen to you, how badass you truly are. Itās just you, in your car, let loose and make this a habit. Youāre in the mirror, you pro-actively speak loving words into yourself, you go out of your way throughout the day to remind yourself how lucky you are that xxx, how wonderful it is xxxx, how grateful you are xxxx..What this does is mentally programme your mind into higher vibrational thoughts. Youāll naturally start thinking better, negative thoughts wonāt be able to make a home inside of you because you will have a deposit of good energy, of self love from speaking life into yourself throughout the day.Ā
The moment you decide you are worthy. The universe starts to agree.
A person who values themself has standards and remains exclusive
They donāt need attention from the masses because they know their worth
They understand that being accessible to everyone lowers their value
They are selective with who they date because they know itās a reflection of them
They arenāt seeking superficial validation online because they donāt need it and most likely get it in real life
They make career choices that align with their passions and beliefs and donāt comprise their morals for a dollar
They understand that quality friendships are more important than a large circle of acquaintances
They love themselves and take care of their body, they donāt partake in hobbies that are unhealthy
They invest in their personal growth and education because they understand that expanding their knowledge and skills increases their value
They are mindful of how they spend their time and choose environments that nurture their growth rather than drain their energy
They donāt settle for mediocre and always strive for excellence in whatever they do
They avoid toxic relationships and environments
They are intentional with their energy and choose to share it with people that align with their values
They practice self discipline
They like being alone and understand that being alone is a time for reflection and recharging
They have very strong boundaries and demand respect in all interactions because they respect themselves first
We're all stars in the makingā
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