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This is a new alternate blog started because Tumblr has designated my original “The Hotwife Blog” as explicit, thus almost everything I post is flagged/removed unless it’s extremely tame.

This blog is about the Hotwife phenomenon. I began researching the subject many years ago seeking to understand what about a Hotwife was so sexually exciting, and if I was crazy for wanting my wife to be one. Was there something screwed up in my head, that my wife having sex with other men turns me on? At the time I had no idea there was even a term for my fantasy. I found out that not only is it the most common fantasy men have, but it is also a lifestyle that is much more mainstream than I ever imagined. I also found a lot of confusion and conflicting information.There are a lot of wife sharing lifestyles, many of which overlap or share some of the same basic ideas, but too often the Hotwife lifestyle and cuckold lifestyle are depicted as being one in the same. In actuality they are very different. Unfortunately, Tumblr is probably the worst offender at spreading misinformation. It is full of captioned photos linking cuckolding and Hotwifing. Not to mention most of these photos are of young women with perfect little bodies fucking hot young guys with big cocks, which doesn’t represent reality for most people. Add to that captions saying something to the effect of how the husband is a sissy and needs to lick the cum off her when she gets home, and you can get a really distorted view. I understand these are fantasies, but anyone looking for information about the lifestyle, especially women, could be immediately turned off before having a chance to explore the true lifestyle. I hope to clarify the classic Hotwife lifestyle with this blog. The following is a compilation of information gathered from across the Internet along with my own experiences and preferences. Hopefully, for anyone who happens to stumble across it, this blog will give a little clarification into this quickly growing phenomenon.

First let’s define the Hotwife. A “Hotwife” is a happily married woman who has the freedom to have sex with other men with both the permission and encouragement of her husband. However, while the wife is free to play with others, the husband remains completely monogamous to her. The husband is turned on by his wife’s sexual exploits. The wife’s sexual pleasure should not be confused with romantic feelings for her sex partners. The other men just are sexual adventures, she loves her husband and both spouses understand the distinction between love and sex.

The hotwife shouldn’t be confused with other forms of wife sharing lifestyles including swinging and the aforementioned cuckolding. Swingers are typically couples that enjoy having sex with other couples, so both the husband and wife have sex with different partners. The term “cuckolding” is tossed around quite a bit these days and while “Hotwife” is often used synonymously with the term “Cuckoldress” within that lifestyle, it is a different idea. Cuckolding, while also wife-centric, focuses on demeaning and abusive behavior towards a submissive husband whom usually considers himself sexually inadequate. Where Hotwifing could be considered the polar opposite of cuckolding. It focuses on the wife’s experiences. Hotwives and their husbands are motivated by the sexual thrill, for its own sake. The exhilaration she gets having sex with other men and knowing that this excites her husband. Humiliation has no part in it. Recently the term Stag, for the husband, and Vixen, for the wife, have starting to be used to further define this lifestyle and distance it from Cuckolding.

Clearly, the Hotwife concept is at odds with cultural conditioning and human tendencies toward jealousy and possessiveness, so it’s no surprise most wives are shocked to learn of their husband’s desire. At the same time, most husbands wouldn’t allow their wives to become Hotwives. Although they may entertain these thoughts in fantasies; possessiveness, jealousy and cultural conditioning ultimately prevail. However, we know that some husbands seem to handle this without ill effects on the relationship. The jealousy often still exists, but comes out in their sexual excitement, rather than through fear or anger. And some husbands seem to just be immune to jealousy, either by virtue of their own personality, or by their confidence in the security of their relationship and the love they share with their wives. Surprising to most people, couples that participate in the Hotwife lifestyle aren’t unhappily married couples that have fallen out of love and are just looking for a way to fuck around. In most cases, the couples have been together for a very long time and are very much in love. They still have great sex just maybe not as often as they would like. By exploring this lifestyle they experience more physical and emotional intimacy and end up having better sex, having it more often and being more adventurous when they do it. That being said, these types of relationships are not for everybody. Many couples may dip their toes into these waters, and yanked them out again, because of jealousy and fear. Furthermore, if you have an unhealthy relationship, venturing into the lifestyle is just asking for trouble.

So why would a husband who truly loved his wife want to see her with another man? There are many answers and it varies from husband to husband. I think most are voyeuristic in nature, but the underlying answer is that it’s his love and deep emotional connection with his wife that’s at the core. It’s his wife having sex with others that excites him; not strangers having sex with which he has no emotional connection. He gets turned on seeing his wife excited and feeling free, in the throes of passion achieving greater sexual pleasure through the attentions of more than one man. It makes her more appealing and naughty, basically letting her inner slut out.

So why would a wife who truly loves her husband want have sex with other men? As with the husband, there can be many reasons. For some, they like feeling desired or they may enjoy being seduced. Others may simply enjoy the opportunity for sexual variety, the excitement of new sexual experiences, the “forbidden” nature of what she’s doing and knowing that it excites her husband. In many cases it improves relationships communication and intimacy, as well as, supercharging her sex life with their husband. Some women may immediately embrace the opportunity for sexual freedom, but most will take some time to weigh how it will affect her marriage and your feelings toward her. Many wives will suspicious that you have some ulterior motive… that its just a ploy for you to later say that since she is fucking other guys, that you should be able to fuck other women too. In this case, it will take time for her to truly believe that this is not your desire. It should be noted that, of course, many wives are not interested in becoming Hotwives, even though she may enjoy sex and may have had numerous sexual partners before marriage, and may even enjoy Hotwire role play, actually being a Hotwife is just not something she will ever be comfortable with. In this situation the husband should not push his wife into doing anything she doesn’t want to do. If for no other reason than it defeats the idea of the fantasy, but more importantly it will most likely damage your relationship.

Hotwifing has several levels of involvement by the husband. The arrangement between each husband and wife will be specific to them depending on the couple and what they prefer. There are no set rules; it depends entirely on the partners to set the boundaries and limitations. The wife may meet other men alone. The husband may never know or meet the other men. She meets them on her own, and makes all the arrangements without any involvement from her husband. The other men may or may not know about her lifestyle, or be aware that the husband knows about them. They may not even know she is married, if she chooses to remove her rings and pretend to be single. Sometimes both the husband and wife meet men together. The husband could even be the one who finds other men or helps make arrangements for the wife to meet her “dates”, but the husband is not involved in any sexual activities between the wife and the other men. Other wives will have sexual relations with other men in her husband’s presence, or even engaging in sexual play that involves all three, as part of threesome where she first has sex with the other men and then her husband, or both with her at once. Whatever the level of involvement, the husband is turned on by his wife’s sexual exploits, whether this happens with his direct involvement or with him just watching or hearing her recount later when she returns home from a date.

The rest of this blog consist of a collection of inspirational images collected from across the web that I believe embodies the true spirit of the Hotwife/Vixen lifestyle.

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What tends to feel better for you, sex or masturbation?

Your 5 favorite spots to be stimulated.

Have you ever had your prostate stimulated?

Have you ever had an orgasm from anywhere other than your genitals?

Are you well-acquainted with your G-spot?

Are handjobs boring, or underrated?

Do you like having your balls touched?

Do you like having your nipples touched?

Do you like having your anus touched?

Have you ever been fisted?

Do you like mild roughness (scratching, spanking, hair-pulling, etc.)?

Do you have any kinks?

Are you into anything under the BDSM umbrella?

Do you pee in the shower?

Do you ever masturbate in the shower?

Have you had sex in the shower?

Do you like being naked?

Do you sleep partially/fully naked?

Have you ever to a nude beach, naked party, or other situation involving casual nudity?

Are you comfortable with partners seeing you nude in non-sexual contexts?

Have you ever showered with someone (non-sexually)?

Do you care if a partner sees you going to the bathroom?

Do you have naked pictures/videos of yourself? If yes, have you sent them to anyone? Are they online?

How many sexual partners have you had?

How often do you masturbate?

What position do you typically masturbate in (laying on back, on stomach, sitting up, etc.)?

Describe your masturbation routine, technique, etc.

What do you masturbate to (porn, smut, imagination, etc.)?

Have you ever masturbated to the point you got sore?

Your thoughts the first time you got up close and personal with the opposite set of genitals?

What kind of underwear do you normally wear?

Do you ever go commando?

Have you ever had a wet dream/orgasmed in your sleep?

How big is your penis?

Does your penis curve at all?

Are you circumcised or no? Are you happy with it?

Are you turned on or off by foreskin, or don’t care?

Do you find genitals physically attractive, or weird/gross, or not feel strongly either way?

Do you like the way your genitals look?

Would you be able to pick out your genitals from a lineup?

Do you like your butt?

What do you do with your pubic hair (shave, trim, wax, nothing, etc.)?

Do you care/have a preference what partners do with their pubic hair?

Do you tuck your penis a certain way (i.e. left or right) when you get dressed?

Do you have or want any genital piercings? Do you like any on other people?

What is the quickest you’ve ever brought yourself (or been brought) to orgasm?

Do you ever “edge” (repeatedly stop and start) when masturbating?

What’s the longest masturbation session you’ve had? Longest sex session?

What’s the most orgasms you’ve had in one session (of anything)?

Do your orgasms tend to be full-body, or crotch-centric?

Spit or swallow?

When you ejaculate, do you more shoot or dribble?

Is it hot or gross to get ejaculated on?

Have you ever had sex in a public place?

Have you ever had sex/masturbated while somebody was sleeping near you?

Strangest/most unique place you’ve had sex? How about masturbated?

Have you had any sexual experiences that were downright gross?

Are you particularly “vocal” when masturbating/having sex?

Have you ever been caught masturbating/having sex?

Have you had or do you want to have a threesome (or foursome, or more)?

Have you ever used a homemade sex toy, or a regular object as a sex toy?

Can a dildo feel as good as a penis?

What are your favorite positions?

Your most embarrassing sexual experience?

Have you ever had any genital injuries?

Have you ever had a sexually transmitted infection?

Do you think you’re “good” at sex, or your performance/skill could use improvement?

If you had the opposite set of genitals for a day, name 5 things you would do.

What’s something you like about your body?

What’s something you dislike about your body?

What body parts do you find the sexiest?

What was your most recent sexual thought?

Do you ever just play with your balls, penis, hole?

When was the last time you touched your genitals?

Do you often imagine people naked?

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10 freaky things to try

1- Sex outdoor

I don’t know if it’s the thrill of being caught or just the feeling of a gently breeze on your privates but having sex outdoors gives a great rush and is easy to organise.

2- Sex Blindfolded

Wether your are the blindfolder or blindfoldee, this is another simple experience to try. The heightened senses and build up of anticipation for the blindfoldee is intense. While being in control and having a naked person completely at your will, is a rush.

3- Anal Sex

This is not for the faint hearted and you should do some research and preparation from both sides, so you’re both relaxed and confident. When all of that is checked off, boy is this fun. The taboo nature of it, the first sensation of sliding into a tight asshole is one of a kind. Very intense and moan inducing from all sides.

4- Rimming (Eating ass like groceries)

This seems to be becoming a thing now and if you’ve experienced it, you’ll understand why. The sensation is unique and pleasing on different level to normal oral. Known to cause guys to hyperventilate, this is a treat that needs to be shared.

5- Intoxicated Sex

Be sensible with this one, but sex intoxicated is mind blowing and body shattering. Increase sex drive, super heightened senses and increased duration makes this basically hyper sex. Your session switches from regular to RnB dream or your favourite porno. Just be sensible as there can be dangerous consequences wether on alcohol or something more elicit.

6- Being watched

This is similar to having outdoor sex but is cranked up a notch or two. Wether it’s out dogging and allowing people to watch you or setting up something so others are watching you, is a huge turn on. To know you are turning on others as they watch you putting in work, adds another level to your experience.

7- Watch people having sex

Being on the other side of the looking glass is a lot of fun to. Having a live sex porno in front of you is amazing. If you get to have some fun or join in after is great but just the sexual energy and arousal is enough. Surely your next chance to have sex will have some added spice from your increased horn.

8- Role Play

The best role play is when you really get into it. Tom Hardy this and be a true method actor/actress. Even if you’re with your normal partner, this brings in a dimension where you can be anywhere fucking in the most exciting circumstances, and pushing boundaries you make not always cross.

9- Have a threesome

MFM, MFF, FFF, MMM, whatever your flavour, as long as all parties involved are into it and want to be there………this is simple better than you can even imagine it would be. Do it, simple.

10-Communicate

Very simple but underrated. Talk to each other. Talk about stuff you’re interested in, stuff you’ve fantasised about, things you don’t want to do or are scared to do and why. If you know each other better, your sex will be 100% better.

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15 ways to be a better cocksucker

#1 – Be able to host, especially if he is married.

#2 – Break your gag reflex by practicing with a banana or a dildo

.#3 – Never use your hands, unless told to

.#4 – Look him in the eyes when his cock is down your throat.

#5 – Learn to listen and observe non-verbal cues that tell you how to suck him better

#6 – Pay attention to his balls as well.

#7 – you don’t need to take a break.

#8 – When he is cumming, keep sucking him all the way through until his orgasm ends.

#9 – Always swallow, unless he decides to blow it some other way, in which case, let him.

#10 – Keep his cock in your mouth after he has come, and let it get soft while he comes down from his orgasm. He might fall asleep with his cock in your mouth, let him.

#11 – When he is done cumming, you are not done. Get him hard again.

#12 – Strive to make your mouth a replacement for masturbation. I would much rather cum down your throat than jerk off

.#13– Rim him. When you are rimming him, don’t stop until he is finished enjoying it, which can be over an hour sometimes. Get used to that.

#14 –touch your cunt when you are sucking him, but do not cum

.#15 - Ask him if he wants to take pictures or record you sucking his cock to brag and show to his friends