Blackdrago96 - Just On To See The World

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THIS IS THE BEST THING I HAVE EVER SEEN

I think many people have a fundamentally wrong idea of how CNC play is supposed to work.

To fit the season we are in I’ll describe CNC as the haunted house of kinky play.

In a haunted house the point is to be surprised and scared. You don’t know what is going to await you in each room and we suspend belief for a bit to pretend that these monsters are real, there is some real danger.

But under that is an agreement we make when we enter the haunted house. The actors won’t hurt us, the gore and monsters aren’t real. The people inside are going to try to scare you but if they see you aren’t having a good time they will back off.

It’s the same with CNC play. It’s something that should be done with someone you know well and who knows you even better.

It’s a blanket of consent that allows the submissive to lose themselves in the experience. To not have to constantly be checked in on over and over by their dom because their dom already knows their limits well, and how hard to push them, and can read very well when they stop having a good time and stop.

It’s a chance to explore scenarios where you wouldn’t actually want to be in. It’s the fun of someone pretending to kidnap you but you know deep down you are safe. It’s the fun of playing with multiple partners like you are being overcome against your will but the whole group is in on your limits and desires and is facilitating that for you.

CNC is never supposed to be to abuse someone. Or have an opportunity to hurt someone without their consent. It’s play, a show, an experience that’s a bit deeper and more involved than your ordinary sexual encounters. But it’s always for the enjoyment of both the dom and sub to fulfill their fantasies in a way that is always safe and consensual.

SOOO my 2025 bimbo bingo calls for a spanking poll every other month!!! :)) and I want to do it!!

since there are 2500 of you here now (what?!) im pulling a chicken card and making the increments smallerrr sorrrrrryyyyy but i remember what happened last time hahahahahaahah (and there were less than 1000 of u then)

Edit: i lied 🥺 I don’t want mercy I want more 🥺🥺

every comment is another vote for A (& i will thank u for voting 2 make me a better toy)

every like is another vote for B

every RB is another vote for C

spamming is encouraged 💕

Once the tallies are in, i have until January 31st to get all of the spanks done for it to count on the bimbo bingo :)

Oh! And— I’m not allowed to see what the results are until the final day :) so you can make fun of me for what’s coming if you wish, since I’m already humiliating myself :)))

counts close on 1/3/25!! <3

💕 detrans notes game 💕

I’ve been seeing notes games everywhere and I wanna play too!!

so, for every 5 notes this gets, that’s one day that I’m going to only go by she/her and my birthname with friends! Right now, half of them think I’m genderfluid so this will force me to come out fully as a girl 🫶

as a bonus challenge:

- if I get 100 notes, I’ll keep my face and chest shaved for a month (and will add on a month for every 100 past that)

- if I get 200 notes, I’ll make an email with my birthname and start using it for business related things instead of the one I currently use (which has my chosen name)

- if I get 300 notes, I’ll grow my hair out to be tomboy sidetails (Google it; very cute and still short but I’ve never seen a boy w that haircut)

- if I get 400 notes, I’ll ask my next therapist to only use she/her and my birthname

- if I get 500 notes (before October), I’ll talk to my doctor about starting the process of going off of testosterone at my next appointment!

I’ll be starting September 1st just to have a backlog but this game doesn’t have a time limit so do your worst!

Bit of advice to anyone who is new to kink or even just sex: assume "no", "stop", "too much", "wait" etc are safewords unless you specifically negotiate otherwise.

You can play with "no no it's too much stop" type stuff being banter or dirty talk or whatever, but you shouldn't assume they are. Yes even if you set a safeword and you or the other person isn't using it.

Also: getting quiet or not very responsive is a reason to check in. Someone not being able to give you a clear "yes I'm having fun let's keep going" or seeming a bit off is a reason to stop when you do check in, especially when they're a new partner.. You can't just assume things are fine bc they haven't said the safeword.

Safewords should be extra measures to ensure ongoing consent, not the only measure.

Make me regret this

every five notes on this post is a day I don’t take my T shot

As both a poly and bi individual; The above jokes mentioned, are fucking sick. They aren't funny, and they are traumatic to anyone who had a bad childhood especially about sexuality.

your outwardly violent attitude towards any and all romantic & sexual arrangements that don't mirror your good wholesome vanilla monogamous ideal is actually not made quirky and lovable by your queer identity. people who do the "if my partner even asked about polyamory i would buy a gun" schtick on here are pretty functionally identical to straight people who joke about murdering their partners if they came out as bi

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