I Think Many People Have A Fundamentally Wrong Idea Of How CNC Play Is Supposed To Work.

I think many people have a fundamentally wrong idea of how CNC play is supposed to work.

To fit the season we are in I’ll describe CNC as the haunted house of kinky play.

In a haunted house the point is to be surprised and scared. You don’t know what is going to await you in each room and we suspend belief for a bit to pretend that these monsters are real, there is some real danger.

But under that is an agreement we make when we enter the haunted house. The actors won’t hurt us, the gore and monsters aren’t real. The people inside are going to try to scare you but if they see you aren’t having a good time they will back off.

It’s the same with CNC play. It’s something that should be done with someone you know well and who knows you even better.

It’s a blanket of consent that allows the submissive to lose themselves in the experience. To not have to constantly be checked in on over and over by their dom because their dom already knows their limits well, and how hard to push them, and can read very well when they stop having a good time and stop.

It’s a chance to explore scenarios where you wouldn’t actually want to be in. It’s the fun of someone pretending to kidnap you but you know deep down you are safe. It’s the fun of playing with multiple partners like you are being overcome against your will but the whole group is in on your limits and desires and is facilitating that for you.

CNC is never supposed to be to abuse someone. Or have an opportunity to hurt someone without their consent. It’s play, a show, an experience that’s a bit deeper and more involved than your ordinary sexual encounters. But it’s always for the enjoyment of both the dom and sub to fulfill their fantasies in a way that is always safe and consensual.

ends august 31, 2024

each milestone will come into effect when it is reached and i will follow them all until the 31st! i will edit with updates as this goes on

5 notes: pick a day to shave every week - i pick wednesday

10 notes: pick a night to sleep with a dildo in every week - i pick tuesday

20 notes: skip one of my T shots this month

50 notes: pick a day each week to not be allowed to touch my clit - i pick wednesday!!

75 notes: i'm no longer allowed to touch my clit when my knees are touching (it takes me longer to come the further my legs are spread)

100 notes: pick a second day to shave each week! gotta stay smooth 🥰 - i pick monday!

150 notes: pick a second night to sleep with a dildo in - oh gosh, i wasnt prepared to make this decision so soon... monday as well i guess

200 notes: pick a third day to shave each week - friday!

250 notes: im not allowed to touch my clit when my pussy is empty

300 notes: add a poll so yall can pick a second day of the week that i'm not allowed to touch my clit - i'll add it in a reblog! - poll chose saturday

400 notes: wear a bra outside the house at some point during the challenge

500 notes: skip two of my T shots this month

i've been peer pressured into dividing the remaining milestones in half! so at 500 notes we are skipping all the way to skipping 3 T shots 😳

300 notes: i can only touch my clit when my legs are spread wide

375 notes: add another day of the week i cant touch my clit (poll) - friday won

450 notes: i can only touch my clit while looking at nsfw content ive never seen before

500 notes: skip three of my T shots this month

the remaining milestones are looking kinda sparse so im gonna add a new one in between all of them :3

thank you to @tokenxtransxtraitor for helping me figure out better numbers to use!! ive lowered the rest of the milestones a lot :3

550 notes: poll to let you guys pick a day im only allowed to edge and ruin :D - poll picked monday

600 notes: i have to have the sound on to be allowed to touch >:3

650 notes: poll to pick the pronouns in my bio - poll in progress

700 notes: add 5 more milestones somewhere :D (probably between 1k and 2.5k)

750 notes: poll to pick one more no touch day!

800 notes: no more T for the entire challenge

850 notes: i can only touch while pumping my tits

900 notes: TBD; if someone decides to take advantage of me and ensure this milestone gets hit before i've edited it in, i'll push some limits for you guys :3

950 notes: extend a week into september (including no T)

1000 notes: i have to beg for spam :0

2,500 notes: i continue for the rest of 2024 (not including no T; i meant to include this from the start. i would go back on T after the first week in september.)

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blackdrago96

8 months ago

Nonstick broom

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blackdrago96

1 year ago

Reblog to impregnate the FTM you reblogged from and give her dysphoria-inducing silly huge birthing hips and heavy milky tits ♡

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blackdrago96

2 years ago

Bottle rocket under ice

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blackdrago96

1 year ago

I love my mutuals. Reblog if you love your mutuals.

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blackdrago96

3 months ago

Trying to help her get to her goals

Valentine's Detrans Game!

I feel like this is the perfect month to ruin my sense of identity! Spamming is allowed of course - ruin my life by any means necessary! :) As the title suggests, the game will end on February 14 <3

Repeatable goals:

50 notes - I'll shave my pussy.

100 notes - I can't cut my hair for a month.

200 notes - I must pick a kinky idea from my ask box and take a photo or video of myself doing it.

Non-Repeatable goals:

100 Notes - I'll only watch lesbian porn for a week.

200 Notes - I'll sleep with a dildo stuffed in my pussy at least once a week.

300 Notes - I'll write lewd things all over my body in sharpie and post photos. Suggestions encouraged!

400 Notes - I'll post a photo of my pussy with anatomical labels.

500 Notes - I'll masturbate outside with a dildo until I cum.

600 Notes - I'll post a video of me touching my pussy with at least half my face showing (nose and up.)

700 Notes - I'll film myself deep throating a dildo (good luck trying to hide my face in that).