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Hi!

First of all I would like to apologize if at some point this question bothers you, but I would like to ask for advice.

My partner (M) and I (F) have been together for a year and a half, he is completely vanilla with strong traditional convictions and I have had a past linked to bdsm and the Dom/Sub relationship.

The truth is that when we first started dating I told him about it and he told me that he didn't care, but that he couldn't see himself hurting someone he loved. I didn't bring it up again because I had that part of me asleep, but now I feel like I need that again and I don't know how to introduce it and make him see that it's not pain, but something that goes beyond that.

Could you please give me some advice?

Thanks in advance.

There is nothing for you to apologize for. I’m happy to do what I can to help and you’re not the only one to have run into this issue before. I’ve even had partners that were very vanilla and I had to adjust to what they were comfortable with. I don’t know that any two (or more) partners ever exactly match their kinks and levels. So you have to find what works for the both of you. It’s a growing process for you both and the key is being able to talk about it. The trouble is that talking is often the hard part for most people. Do you feel you can talk about it with him openly and that he will receive what your saying? That’s going to be key and it will be tough if he can’t meet you that far.

Exploring kinks can be a challenge for the vanilla flavored people and especially if they are the victim of traditional brainwashing. Yes I say brainwashing because that’s what I feel it is. People can be so conditioned by their family, culture, religion, society. It’s hard to shake that. Their brains are so conditioned to think of all kinks as bad and they really can’t process how satisfying those desires can be so freeing and liberating and fulfilling. The key for you to open up his world is going to be doing it by small increments. Think of it as expanding his horizon and comfort zone. You just may have to be a bit patient with him and always check in with each other afterwards.

Most partners really want to please each other. Hopefully yours is the same way. So if you sit him down and explain that this is something you are desiring and that you want to share with him and that it will really turn you on I’d be willing to bet that he will at least listen. Don’t start him out with whips or nipple clamps or anything that will make him feel like he’s hurting you. Start him out with some basic power play maybe. For example tell him that it really turns you on when he tells you to suck him and how, or to manhandle you into what position he wants you to be in. Tell him you love it when he pins you to the bed. Or maybe suggest tying you to the bed. Something soft and easy for him to buy in to. I think once he sees and feels how you react to it that he will be on board to try some more. Then you can gradually introduce more into the equation. Do you guys ever sext? Try sexting with him about a fantasy like that. Seeing if you can get his anticipation up. Guide him towards the things you want because remember that he has no clue about that stuff. His ignorance and lack of openness comes from his conditioning. It’s up to you to break that and guide him. Remember that a d/s relationship also requires the sub to guide the dom in her comfort levels. You’re just unfortunately starting from zero experience.

He’s probably not going to turn into the master dom to your sub but hopefully the two of you can reach a happy middle that gives you some of that d/s experience you crave while opening up his world but still making him feel comfortable. I hope you have some success with it. I’d love to hear how it goes and if the two of you are making progress together. I’ll be sending you both some good d/s vibes!

Daddy’s lap is where you belong, baby girl! Close to me, in daddy’s arms, so I can hold you close and kiss you hard! I don’t care where we are, my lap is your place! Bring your luscious little bottom here! Let me feel you wiggling and squirming for daddy! Let me feel your warmth against me, your soft arms around my neck as you lean in close! Let me taste your lips and feel your head on my shoulder! This is where you belong, baby girl!

Do you know beautiful you are, baby girl? How absolutely perfect you are, just as you are? Every beautiful curve, your full hips and breasts, your luscious ass, perfect! You are just as you are meant to be and you should be proud of your body. Flaunt it, use it, show it to me and let me show you how much daddy loves it, craves it and wants to use it. Let me trace every curve with my kisses, my tongue, my fingers. Let me devour you, explore you, find every sensitive and erotic spot until you’re lost to the pleasure, a moaning, dripping, desperate mess. You are perfect just the way you are, baby girl! Let daddy show you!

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i’m 18 and your blog makes me so wet

Awwww. Thank you, sweet girl! I’m so glad you like it. 😍

That’s what I want! Pillow fights in bed, wrestling and tickling and playing until we are kissing and clutching and craving each other! Show me that playfulness, baby girl! Show me what a little smart ass you are, let me see your inner little girl, show me that bratty side! Whack me in the back with your pillow when I’m not looking and dare me to make something of it! I’ll wrestle you and tickle you and pillow fight you until we are both gasping and giggling and laughing! Then I’ll grab your little hands in mine, pin you to the bed and show your squirmy little ass just how much daddy wants and needs you! Kissing you, tasting you, teasing you and fucking you until you are a cumming little mess for me! After we are both spent and gasping we will lie tangled together and start to laugh all over again! That’s what I want!

So tell me, baby girl, do you misbehave just to get your spanks? We both know how much you love them, how wet they make you. If daddy slips his fingers down between those legs I’ll fell you dripping for me already won’t I? You could just ask for spanks and daddy would be happy to give them to you, but I think you prefer being a brat and earning them. Talking back to daddy, sassing him, and being bratty just to feel daddy grab you and pull you across his lap, roughly yanking down your panties to spank your bare bottom raw. Craving that moment when you’ve beg daddy to stop and promised to be good just so daddy will fuck your desperate needy little pussy until you’ve spent yourself on daddy’s cock and are dripping with my cum. Your ass still hot and burning as you snuggle in close to daddy, a bratty little smile on your lips as you feel daddy’s cum dripping from you.

Let daddy spoil you baby girl. Let me wash away those worries and stresses of the day. Let yourself relax and rest and know that you are safe in daddy’s care. Always protected and loved and cared for. Feel the warm water washing through your hair and over your skin. Daddy’s strong hands and fingers slipping through your hair, massaging your scalp, caressing your head, neck, your cheeks. Feel those worries rinsing away with each caress, with each pour of the warm water over your skin. Feel daddy’s love flowing over you with the water, filling you up and nourishing your heart and soul. Let me spoil you and renew you, baby girl! Daddy’s precious beautiful angel!

He he. I love this. It is so adorable! 😍😍 I wonder how many littles there are out there that are afraid to come out of the toybox, that don’t know they are littles yet or are too shy to admit that they need it?

When you confess that you are a little it’s called “Coming out of the toybox”

(at least i say so. but, you can too)

Now wouldn’t this be the perfect evening together, kitten? A delicious glass of whisky in one hand and your bare little bottom across my lap in the other! Daddy’s little fucktoy ready to be teased and played with as you lay there like a good girl for me! I want to run my hands over your soft curves, caressing you slowly as I sip the smoky whisky and savor its taste! Let my fingers tantalize and tease you! Let them excite you, bring you to the edge and hold you there! Let me make you gasp and moan and squirm in my lap as relax and enjoy daddy’s teasing! Pulling my fingers up from your soft wet folds to taste your sweet juices then taking a sip of my whisky, savoring the mix of my two favorite flavors! You wait patiently for daddy to finish his drink, being such a good girl for me, but I can feel how needy you are, kitten! Your little hips trying to grind against my hand, grind against the growing hardness of my cock against your tummy, your breath coming fast, heart racing, your eyes watching me, hungry for more! I promise daddy will reward your patience! But I also know you love it! Love the attention, the gentle playing, daddy’s soft words whispered between sips of whisky, the edging, the anticipation of what comes next!