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🎶- favorite song right now?

hands down moo by dojacat that song is a fucking bop and i want it played at my funeral

🐰- do you believe in soul mates?

I wouldn’t say that i do but then I wouldn’t say that I don’t ya know? I believe that everyone has someone out there for them but I wouldn’t go as deep to say that its their soulmate because sometimes things just don’t work out and that’s okay 

Are you still doing the emoji thing? If so 🎥 and 🔪 please :)

🎥- what show are you currently binging on?

I know this is gonna sound kinda silly but I’ve been binging on the old Bakugan cartoon show. That show was the shit and always will be 😤😤 I was so upset when I saw they remade it on cartoon network and they just absolutely ruined it so I decided that I would re-live my childhood and make the pain just a bit more bearable 

🔪- scariest/creepiest experience?

I think one of the worst experiences I’ve had was last year when I was walking to school in the summer because I had cheer practice. Half way there a car pulls up next to me and a man is asking where I’m going and if I needed a ride. I told him I was going to school and that it was fine I didn’t need a ride. 

He kept insisting that it would be no trouble and that he could take me but I kept declining the ride because I knew better then to get in a car with a stranger. I got a bad vibe from him and I kept trying to walk away and continue my way to school because it wasn’t too far and I didn’t want to be late to practice but no matter what I said he would slowly keep driving next to me. Finally, after telling him multiple times that I didn’t need a ride and that I had to go, he finally left but not before saying, “Alright well I’ll see you around”. 

I didn’t think anything of it, taking it that he finally gave up and that I’d never see him again in my life, but unfortunately that wasn’t the case. 

Two days later I was walking to practice again and I see the same car driving down the street but in the other direction. I was a little skeptical but thought that there was no reason to be worried and that it was probably just someone with the same car. But right when I heard the brakes screech after passing by me, I got this horrible feeling in my stomach and I knew I had to get away.

I quickened my pace and started calling a friend so that I would look like I was busy talking and hopefully he would leave me alone. It was the same case, the car was driving slowly next to me but the man didn’t say anything. I looked at him and he gave me this sinister smile and waved at me, waiting for me to get off the phone. He saw that I was taking my time talking to my friend and he mouthed to me “do you want a ride”.

I shook my head no and started walking faster than I already was, still on the phone. After about 5 minutes he sped off and I’ve never felt so relieved. 

After that, I told my cheer coach and she told me to be careful and that she’d buy me a can of pepper spray and if anything to call her because she knew I lived close by. 

I started taking a different route that week to school to avoid seeing that man again. It worked that week, and when I went to my dads house the next week, I got rides to practice because he wasn’t working at the time and we lived much farther. The week after that, I went back with my mom and I kept using the new route and this process seemed to work for a few weeks after.

One day, I woke up later than I anticipated to and I took the old route because it was faster to get to school. I was jogging to school and I hear a car behind me and a wolf whistle from the driver. It was the same fucking guy and he kept driving behind me, clearly to enjoy the view. At this point I’m sprinting to school because 1. I can’t be late to practice and 2. this guy won’t stop following me. 

Finally I reach the stoplight in front of my school and wait at the corner. As I was waiting for the cross walk sign to give me the signal to go, this fucker pulls up next to me and asks me if this was my school. I say nothing to him, not wanting to give him any of my personal information. 

I go to walk down the crosswalk, but he cuts me off and literally parks there in front of the corner. At this point I’m terrified. He knows my route to school, he knows where I go to school, and he keeps following me and begging me to get in his car. When I looked a him again, he has this evil look on his face and in the passenger seat there is a knife. I don’t know if he gave me that look because he knew I saw it but I knew I absolutely had to get away from him no matter what it took.

At this point I’ve had enough and I’m literally screaming at him “What the fuck are you doing”  “Move your fucking car”  “Leave me alone”  “Just let me go already” 

I’m on the brink of tears and I try walking around his car and he fucking moves it forward. At this I bolt across the street, not caring that the crosswalk sign is at 2 seconds and I literally run for my life to the school with tears running down my face. 

I ran into my soccer coach, who had just finished up practice with his varsity team and he immediately asks me what’s wrong and hugs me and I just break down. I told him everything that had happened and he was appalled at what he heard. He called campus security and told them to look out for the car and the man I described. 

After that, I felt better and he walked me to my cheer practice and told my other coach what had happened and to tell all the other girls to be careful. My cheer coach got emotional and hugged me and asked if I wanted to take the day off but I told her I was fine and that i could practice.

After practice, my soccer coach and cheer coach pulled me aside and walked me over to the main office where police were. In the front of the school was the man being bent over the hood of a police car with his hands cuffed behind his back. The police then asked me questions if I knew him and what happened with him. I explained to them everything I knew and the told me that had been wanted for cases of battery and sexual assault. After that I broke down into tears again because I could have been another victim if I would have gotten into his car. 

I don’t know what has happened to that man but I know that he was having multiple charges pressed against him but I haven’t seen him since then.

I thank God everyday of my life because who knows what would have happened if I got into his car or never told anyone. I just hope that this never happens to anyone else and if anyone is experiencing this same situation, please, i beg of you, please don’t ever get into a strangers car, no matter how convenient it may seem at the time or how nice they might look. Tell someone because you never know what could happen.

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❄️- what is your favorite season?

I love summer. I can’t stand the cold and I love being out on nice summer days just enjoying the sun and the warm summer nights. Its great

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🌧️- favorite thing to do on rainy days?

It really depends. I love rainy days, but only when I’m at home. i hate the rain when I’m at school because it just makes me even more depressed that I’m there and I can’t enjoy it to the fullest. When I’m at home on rainy day, I either listen to sad music to make me sad to match the mood outside idk why but I do and I’ve found that I’m not the only one who does this so I know I'm not weird 😤 , or I chill and read and just enjoy the weather by cuddling up with a lot of blankets. Sometimes I do go on walks but not for long because I’m very sensitive to the cold and will most likely get sick after a while but otherwise I do enjoy my walk.

💘- 3 ways to win your heart?

1.Don’t be a douche 

Honestly, I don’t think I’m too hard to win over. I appreciate the little things.

1. I love going out. It can be to the movies, an amusement park, volunteering, hiking, or even just chilling in a car or in a park. I don’t have super high expectations for people, I love just being able to go out with them and having a good time enjoying each others presence ya know.

2. Phone calls. I absolutely love talking on the phone and face timing. I don’t really like texting, I just don’t feel much of a connection form it, and I feel like talking on the phone just means so much more. Little things like this will always make my day.

3. I love having common interests. I love talking about things me and another person like and just being a total nerd and gushing about it. I also like when people are open minded about my interests and give it a shot. For example, one of my best friends wasn’t too sure about anime and I gave her a couple suggestions and she ended up watching one and she liked it and when she told me about it like my heart was so happy. I really appreciated her watching it and I think stuff like that shows effort and it just shows that its the little things that really count.

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These were actually really hard questions for me tbh 

☕- coffee or tea?

Coffee

I’m pretty basic so I absolutely love Starbucks with all my being but I only get Frappechinos from there. If I do drink hot coffee, it has to be really really sweet with a crap ton of sugar. The same goes for tea, I don’t really like Iced tea but hot tea isn’t bad but it has to be extremely sweet if I’m going to drink it. 

🍰- strawberry or vanilla?

Strawberry

I love both and it physically pains me to try and choose between them because I couldn’t live without the other and they are the best combination and nothing will ever change that. Strawberry flavored anything is sooo good and I practically eat them on a day to day basis but I could eat vanilla ice cream with literally any desert and I personally prefer plain old vanilla cake rather than chocolate ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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🍃- would you rather live in a sea with mermaids or a forest with fairies?

Honestly this was a hard question for me. I love mermaids, I think they’re super cool but like the ocean scares me so I’d rather play it safe and live in the forest with fairies .

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✨- which fictional character (book, show, or movie) do you relate to most?

I feel like I probably relate to Naruto because as cheesy as it might sound I have relatively big aspirations that I’m working hard to follow through with as best as I can. I have a lot of negativity around me from other people who say I won’t make money doing what i want to do and that it’s too tough to get in to such a business but regardless of what they say I’m still tryin my best and looking for ways of getting to where I want.

 Also, i’m not afraid to stand up for something i feel is wrong and if I see something I don’t like I will speak up about it no matter who it is. With how society is now, I don’t want to be another bystander. I want to be there to do what’s right and to help those who can’t help themselves, it’s just the right thing to do.

Theres not enough Narutos in this world full of side characters to make changes for the better

🌸- what is your favorite flower?

I think a lot of flowers are beautiful but like my all time favorite is probably a sun flower. I actually used to hate them as a kid because i thought they were so overrated and ugly but now I see their true beauty and strength