I Swear People Now Think They’re Entitled To Know Every Queer Person That Could Possibly Be Around

I swear people now think they’re entitled to know every queer person that could possibly be around them. NO ONE IS ENTITLED TO MAKE ANYONE COME OUT. Let’s learn our lesson from Kit Connor and just allow people to be who they are without trying to speculate or force them to come out. At the end of the day we don’t know these celebrities and have no right to their private information.

With the whole “Taylor swift is gay” article going around I want to talk about my hatred for the “gaydar” and speculation about people’s identities.

I genuinely hate it when someone talks about a celebrity (or anyone) and they say “are you sure they aren’t a little fruity?” To any feminine guy or masculine woman. It makes me so angry beyond words. Now, if you know me, you know I like Ben Schwartz. I talk about him all the time. Every time I show videos of him people around me always ask “oh are you sure he isn’t gay” men can fucking like theater, or improv or art and not be gay. Not be LGBT. It’s fucking sickening.

People even say this about me sometimes , which is different as I am LGBT. But even if I wasn’t it still isn’t ok to just walk up to someone and go “hey are you *limp wrist*” like it just. AAHSHFJWJFHIWHDUWIEJ STOP. Like I get it, it’s cool finding other LGBT people, but stop putting people into fucking boxes. Stop assuming people’s sexualities. It doesn’t matter if they are a celebrity or a random Joe. Just stop.

No one owes you anything. You don’t need to know. Just. Fucking. Stop.