duck, red guy and yellow guy are the type of friends to point at each other and say “look its you” when an ugly character comes on their tv
I'm fictionkin, and I usually feel very close to my respective kintypes, but because of some complicated feelings toward one of them, I ended up pushing away all my feelings on that kintype, and now I feel really disconnected from it. (I do have a "That's me!" feeling and some memories for background.) Any tips on regaining that close feeling I share with the rest of my kintypes? It's okay if you can't help. Hope this makes sense.
maybe try to interact more with material about that kintype! interacting with it will help bring it closer to you.look at pictures, read about them, maybe buy merch of it, listen to music related to it.if its a fictotype, you could read meta or fanfic, listen to the character’s theme, make/look at fanart, or interact with them in their source material.meditation is always good, and you could have things around you that remind you of it.
- habit
Can I just say how much I love that the creators of DHMIS clearly love their fans? Like, in this one interview, it kind of comes across like they expect Joe and Becky to be disturbed by the fact that so many fans make humanized versions of the characters and ship them together. And Becky and Joe are both just like “Yeah, we know - it’s amazing and we love that our fans decided to explore ideas like that”.
one of the most important things about dissociative identity disorder and generally being a system that i wish people would understand is that it truly isn’t as cut and dry as it may seem for member count.
you’ll see people who say they have “six alters” and then immediately assume it’s six fully fleshed out equal individuals with no confusion or fuzziness regarding identity. that’s simply not true in a majority of cases, as i have seen.
most systems still VERY much deal with confusion regarding potential splits, go through dissociative episodes where they’re unsure of who they are, sometimes feel no attachment towards any identities, feel like they might have split and then suddenly that person is gone, unsure if alters they haven’t heard from often have gone dormant, not sure how to react when alters do come out of dormancy, etc.
it’s not a fun feeling and it’s genuinely unfair in certain situations to force systems to list every single alter to you with full certainty, as if it will never change. because it will. for so many different reasons, systems will grow, they will shrink, they will fuse, they will develop. you can’t expect the person with the dissociative disorder and lack of core identity to be able to keep up a perfected list of forever, it’s simply impossible. you may have alters who stick with you, but that doesn’t mean changes won’t happen.
and systems who may be reading this — please don’t feel bad. you are not a hassle, you are not a headache, and you are not an inconvenience for simply coping with something like this. it’s out of your control and the only thing you can do is continue to cope to find ways to help yourself retrain from these reactions. please don’t allow yourself to be harmed by others who don’t understand what you are going through. there are people who will accept and love you for who you are, all of you.
past, present, and future.
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While these Hello Kitty & Friends memes bring a smile and some laughter, they also shine a light on the realities of living with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). It's important to find humor in the quirks that can arise, even when the behaviors can feel intense or exaggerated. Laughter can be a way to connect and raise awareness about the complexities of BPD, reminding us that while the experiences can be serious, finding humor is part of the healing journey.
Ok but like when i was shrig the house all of us lived in was so weirdly layed out- like most of us lived in the same house and like there was basically two living rooms? one that looked like the one from the tv show and then one that was like the same room as the kitchen? the kitchen was the same one from dhmis 5. Then across from the counter that was basically off screen in 5 there was another living room- mine and lars room was attached to the kitchen/living room? it was weird- ik theres other rooms too and i think they were weird too i dont remember them that well though
Fictionkin culture is getting stupidly upset when you can't do what you could do as your kin. like hello universe why'd you take that away from me you big meanie
Fictionkin culture is!
school fixed its 'security app' thing so I'll be posting a lot less /neu
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