Ooooooooooookay I Think Im Objectum. Well Shit

warning, talk of sa/rape a little bit, both with someone else and brief mentions of my own trauma. putting that there just to be sure. fuck genderqueerdykes

honestly, i had a weird feeling about genderqueerdykes before i knew about the transmisogyny and it raping it's ex. like, looking at it's posts before just rubbed me the wrong way for some reason. and no, i can't follow my intuition because it's really fucky, but something about the way it worded it's posts put me off. good thing to know that this guy is a horrible person! now i don't need to feel bad!

as someone who went through coerced cosca and got nonconsensually groped by someone quite a few times, i hate rapists! i hate abusers! fuck everyone who thinks to themselves "wow, i want to take advantage of this person whilst they're definitely unable to consent, or i don't take no for an answer! this feels so great!" because FUCK abusers.

my heart goes out to anyone who's dealt with this bullshit before, even people i don't agree with or like at fucking all. the world needs to be rid of people who use their own power to hurt others

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　Angry Sensitive Flag　﹏　a flag for those who are sensitive in the angry sense. can be used in any way user sees fit. 　　RADQUEERS DO NOT USE

[PT: Angry sensitive flag : a flag for those a flag for those who are sensitive in the angry sense. can be used in any way user sees fit. Radqueers do no use. /End PT]

Notes : this was made because i see a lot of sensitive flags but most of them didnt fit me. i have mood swings so my sensitivity is more on the anger side. i wanted to see some love for those like me who are easily angered by small things

Tagging: @radiomogai , @nqvo , @smilepilled

𐙚 ﹐amphisexual

a term for someone whose internal sense of sex/physical sex is both male and female (NOT synonymous with intersexuality)

a subset of transsexual and altersexual. its like duosexual, but i dislike the transmed subreddit it was coined on and i liked "amphi" more as a prefix

intersex people who are altersex and/or feel their sex is male and female due to being intersex may id with the term.. with that being said, this is a general term for anyone whose sex is male and female and is not synonymous to being inersex

my coined term/flag ꒱

a 'brief' analysis on the queerness of kitty bubai and franke athens from psychonauts, and the depth behind their favorite medias

ok this is the first serious post im making that isnt just account boundaries or anything. wow. ok how do i start this!!! so you guys know kitty bubai and franke athens from psychonauts right.

these little freakazoids from whispering rock in the first game. you know how theyre always holding hands and how theyre 'bestest friends' and shit

yeah well what if i told you they were queer. wow! as if nobody knew that already!!!! (clear sarcasm) but theres some more that meets the eye yknow. one, its remarkable the devs snuck queer girls into the first game which came out in 2005 mind you. when people still werent really all that accepting of queer people ESPECIALLY if they were in a public relationship. this was really based of the devs to do no matter how hidden it is. more under the cut

of course they refer to each other as girlfriends (iirc) and 'sister,' but theres more than you think. we all know about the campster profiles, but the information on them is actually pretty interesting about the campers, since we dont learn much of them in the game itself which is sad.

lets start off with franke. first of all, her only interest (aside from favorite medias) is literally JUST kitty.

thats pretty fucking gay if you ask me. and to add to the fire, she seems to have no real interest in other campers, especially other male campers. vernon in the campster profiles is revealed to have a crush on her, but her feelings toward him are ambivalent at BEST. her main focus is kitty, and has always been kitty.

and about her favorite medias, basically all of them are queer.

lets start with her favorite band of two women, t.A.T.u. this russian pop duo of girls, lena katina and julia volkova. they arent lesbians, but their queerness was a marketing stunt driven by shapovalov. though, maybe franke didnt know this. she just thought that their music was about two girls, loving one another. two russian girls loving one another in a time of potent homophobic stigma. russia has had homophobic ideals for a very long time, and homophobia was even more rampant back then than it is today. its forbidden love, and of course a young queer girl would eat that shit UP. its how she feels during that time.

from an article called 'the strange and homophobic history of 'queer icons' t.A.T.u,' the author writes these little tidbits.

'Perhaps catching wind of their struggling personal brand, Katina and Volkova released a statement in 2007. “Many of our fans of alternative sexual orientation thought that we lied and betrayed them,” they wrote. “This is not true! We’ve never done that and we’ve always advocated love without boundaries." A few weeks later, they performed at the Moscow’s Pride celebrations.'

'In a 2011 interview, Volkova stated that she wouldn’t accept having a gay son. “God created man for procreation, it is the nature. The man for me is the support…I won’t accept a gay son,” she said on Russian TV. “A man has no right to be a fag…I just want my son to be a real man, not a fag.” She then tried to ‘backpedal’, saying, “I have many gay friends. I believe that being gay is all still better than murderers, thieves or drug addicts. If you choose out of all this, being gay a little better than the rest.’ For what it’s worth, Katina publicly condemned Volkova’s statements.'

but of course, franke wouldnt know. this was all way after 2003, when the campster profiles were made. she would think that these two girls were lesbians, just like her. of course she would like their music.

now, lets go to her favorite tv shows and movie—ellen, laverne & shirly, and the hunger. as we all know, ellen is a lesbian. ellen publicly came out on april 30, 1997. with laverne & shirley, people have speculated that they are in a relationship, especially with how they act towards each other.

with the hunger, 1; its an erotic horror. not something a 10 year old should be watching, but honestly its not as bad as the other kids literally being peeping toms or killing animals on complete accident just with how overwhelmed and utterly powerful their minds are. 2; its a vampire flick with homosexual themes. being transformed, in both a queer awakening and a literal way, being transformed into a vampire. vampries throughout history have been associated with queerness in media, and this movie is no different. the hunger is one of the most famous movies with a literal queer plot. theres lesbian sex scenes, and theres goth swinger couples. very 1983. from a website called bitch flicks, theres a post that is titled 'nine pretty great lesbian vampire movies,' in which part of the section on the hunger says;

'Sticking well within queer tropes, however, Miriam is honestly a real U-Haul vampire, and waits all of 10 seconds after John’s death before she tries to marry Sarah pretty much out of nowhere. We are talking about someone that has an eternity ahead of her that can’t even wait like a month after her husband’s “death” before she starts moving her girlfriend in. Which is cold as Hell, because they were married for something like 300 years.'

conclusion, franke is gay as fuck. we love lesbians in this house! now, on to kitty, the more obvious of the queer couple i think.

as a brief little bit, her and frankes relationship status on campster is set to 'open marriage.' if that isnt gay, i dont know what is. franke is only interested in being friends with men and women, meanwhile kitty is interested in a serious relationship with women and men. clearly, shes already polyamorous and bi, which is absolutely based.

with her favorite media, her favorite show is xena: warrior princess. theres a bit of queerness in that show as well, with xena being clearly written as a queer character. xena and gabrielle, friends in the show, have been speculated to be queer, and the actresses for both have embraced this headcanon with open arms. in one episode, xena takes the form of a man and kisses gabrielle, and despite the heterosexual appearance, its very clearly a queer scene with obvious romantic intent. xena has been referred to as a feminist and lesbian icon. love that!

with her favorite movie, mulholland drive, it has been a key staple in sapphic media. from an article, 'the important of mulholland drive in sapphic cinematic history,' there are a few paragraphs id like to highlight.

'Rita has suffered amnesia after being in a car crash on Mulholland Drive–she can’t even remember her own name, choosing Rita from a movie poster. Betty attempts to help Rita figure out her identity and they grow close through the process, eventually sleeping together in a very passionate scene of connection. It’s nothing gratuitous, nor the focus of the film or its celebration after release. “Have you even done this before?” Betty asks Rita. “I don’t know,” Rita says. “Have you?” “I want to, with you. I’m in love with you.”'

'Viewers of Mulholland Drive are unraveling the mystery with Rita and Betty, looking for clues that might have been overlooked, some, like Melissa Anderson of ArtForum, seeing the film an upwards of 20 times. As bizarre things begin to occur–a blue key found in Rita’s purse unlocks a mystery box that has Betty becoming Diane Selwyn, a name Rita recognized earlier on as Rita is now actress Camilla Rhodes. In their new roles, Diane is in love with Camilla, Another love scene between Diane and Camilla is disconnected, one-sided. “We shouldn’t do this anymore,” Camilla says. “Don’t say that!” Diane replies. “Don’t ever say that.” Later, Camilla kisses another woman (played by Melissa George) and then a man, and laughs in Diane’s face. This madness leads Diane to hire a hitman to kill the object of her affection.'

both of these girls favorite medias are queer. all of them. clearly some thought went into these girls, and what they would like as young girls exploring themselves and their identity. it seems like franke would be more closeted about herself, meanwhile kitty is proud of herself. kitty is the ringleader in their relationship, with franke following behind.

conclusion, franke and kitty are gay as hell, and theres literally no disputing that with all the evidence at our fingertips.

sorry if this little essay post was weirdly formatted, i was interested in writing this stupid little thing.

— our stances for this account !

we typically use the stance labels of oldqueer and hazardqueer.

this post will also include conversation of things that can possibly be triggering.

using the block button if something bothers you, unless it's valid to report. if it isn't grounds for a police report, just block someone instead of going to harass

here is also our full "shipcourse" stance, which is more of a rant than an explanation. this is for later in the list, but i'd rather put it here where more people will see it.

we are pro :

liom/mogai, and other microlabels, including ficto- and objectum (as well as posic)

contradictory labels

endogenic systems, created systems, and generally all system/plural origins

therians, otherkin, and alterhumans, including physical therians

alternative terms like chronosian, dissomei, desirdae, etc. as well as biid

self-diagnosis with extensive, informed research

being pro-active in your real-life communities if at all possible

reclamation of slurs that fit with yourself and your background

kink at pride events (as long as you keep yourself away from those who personally don't want to see it, or children)

paraphilias, and helping those with harmful or nonconsensual paraphilias that are trying to get help

supporting and seeing other peoples' viewpoints, as long as they are respectful, as well as nuanced conversation

supporting people and families from ukraine, palestine, the congo, and other countries that need freedom if you can financially

harm reduction, and the destigmatizing of people who use drugs

sex workers, and the people who rely on those kinds of jobs to survive in this economy and world

piracy and media preservation. we also hate billionaries

we are neutral on :

factkin (simply because we don't quite understand and haven't for a long time)

transids that do not include transitioning to another race, chronological age, disability/disorder, etc. (pretty much boils down to non-harmful transids. we think other terms are better, but we don't police language here)

the usage of "tulpa" as a term (we don't personally use it, and instead use thoughtform or other terms. however, again, we won't police your language)

syscourse (a lot of it is harmful. but a thoughtful, reasonable discussion of plural discourse is decent enough and sometimes needed to get your point across. just be kind to your fellow plurals)

we are against :

being rude to others for no reason

radqueers, xenosatanists, and harmful transids (including transharmful, transrace, transage, transabled, etc. this does not include transspecies)

consang/incest and beastiality in both real life and fiction (of course, people can write what they want to, but we are very against the romanticization of these things and absolutely prefer to not see it anywhere. to us, it's absolutely nasty and foul. and in real life, this shit is rightfully illegal! at least in america)

lolicon and shotacon material. refer to the anti-censorship thing, but to us, it doesn't matter if a child is fictional or not. those are still children, regardless whether they are real or not. if it "rids you of your urges," keep it offline. and especially keep it away from us

pro-contact for harmful or nonconsensual paraphilias including pedophilia, zoophilia, necrophilia, etc. and encouraging those types of paraphilias

most online censorship, although things such as csem, real-life gore (especially of children and animals), etc. need to be heavily monitored or outright removed. however, people can write what they want to write

terfs, radical feminists in general (even if they are "trans-inclusive"), "gender criticals," transmedicalists, system medicalists, and any group that focuses on gatekeeping and exclusivity

minors in kink or nsfw spaces online (for the safety of children online. we were heavily in those spaces when we were younger and it affected us for the worse. don't post nsfw if you are a minor — only keep your thoughts to friends around the same age as you that you know are comfortable with that type of conversation)

the idea of "personality disorder abuse." not all abusers are narcissists and not all narcissists are abusive. same thing with borderlines)

we will add more stances if needed, but this is it. this is going to be linked in our introduction post so it's easier to get to.

not bro telling our mutual to get off the internet.. bro do that yourself 🔥🔥 no need for needless hatred you absolute fucking bozo

Girl you need to get off the internet

[ HELLO BLATENT HOMOPHOBIA DO YOU WANT A GOLD STAR ?? ]

just had to deal with someone who ban/kick evaded in a server 3 times just because they wanted to say some corny shit and ping admins for a supposed genshin roleplay. its too late at night for this shit.

People are so annoying. Can't they simply take "no" for an answer? "I don't want to be here anyways, this sucks" then why did you rejoin several times? To get the last laugh? People are so insufferable, I hate them. dni banner

@confettisketty pspspspspsps i think you like this guy ??????

more creatures commandos 🕺

— ring-a-ling ding! new system role incoming!

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a new order just arrived : fadhbpart !

so, like. ok. i, nec, have a fragment in my (ringed) subsystem that is. not my favorite to say the least. shi is a type of part that i don't really like or vibe with personally, but i had to make a role for lust because absolutely no other terms can possibly fit. and now that i've redone our profile, i figured that i'd post this for the public to see.

heads up, this term includes rad//queer and dark//ship mentions. we aren't rad//queer and never will be! and please for the love of everything holy do not send hatemail because that is a guaranteed block. abide by your own dni's please.

— fadhbpart :

a persecutor who acts in "problematic" ways according to the rest of the [system], or engages in such behavior as a way to vent for the [system], rid oneself or the [system] of urges, or for other related reasons. a fadhbpart does not act in accordance to the rest or majority of the [system]'s views.

this term is not to be directly forced upon someone in a system. this term also does not support harmful actions taken in real life (including rad//queer "transitioning"), and is only for online usage due to the sensitive nature of such a concept. please use this role with care.

— ( fadhb, pronounced "fibe," roughly translates to "problem" in irish gaelic. )

( terms in brackets are obviously able to be changed for whatever a plural calls oneself. )

examples of a fadhbpart can include :

a headmate who is rad//queer or uses related terms to describe oneself, in a system that is majority anti rad//queer

a headmate who uses or ships dark//ships for whatever reason, whilst in a system that is majority antiship or anti dark//ship

a headmate who has or holds an addiction (and acts on said addiction) that the others do not have.

.. and more. this is for whatever you deem to be not in accordance with the rest of your headmates.

this is coined by a trauma-endo system, but it is for all systems and plurals alike to use. i don't gatekeep my terms! but please don't interact with this post if you are included in my dni.