"Do It For The Vine" Except You're Doing Something To Make Your Mistress Proud Of You And Wrap You In

"This person has a secret onlyfans!" "This artist does NSFW commissions!" "This author writes porn on the side!" I cannot begin to tell you how swag and awesome that is.

so many of the transfems i know spent their time pre-transition performing a kind of lifelong exercise in self-deprivation. the goal, for them, was to find out exactly how little a person needed to live. they starved themselves, dressed carelessly, shunned friends, and hollowed themselves out so as not to be burdens on anyone but themselves.

i see it now, too, in the girls around me. i'll ask if they want care – a home-cooked meal, relaxed company, sex without the expectation of reciprocation – and they say no, no, thank you, i don't need it; what would you like, what do you want, because in their head they're still doing that awful calculus, still training themselves to disappear in the eyes of the people around them.

i don't think i'd have died without transition – not in the conventional sense, at least – but to take that leap, i had to stop thinking of myself as a human experiment in fuel-efficient living and start nurturing the anemic, atrophied flame of desire in my heart. i had to learn to eat well, to exercise, to style myself beautiful, but harder than that, i had to learn to ask the people around me to work on my behalf in order to enrich my life and give me the things i wanted.

and i did it; i learned. and it was agony, but courage is a muscle you can train, and every day i get better at accepting gifts with the hungry gratitude i never learned in my years and years as a sad, scared, lonely boy.

so be patient with the trans girls in your life. better than that: be proactive, attentive, generous; be forceful, if you have to, and learn to distinguish real discomfort from the terrified reflex of self-deprivation that so many of us learned to rely on.

and if you are so lucky as to love a trans girl, you must insist upon her. you must insist upon her happiness, her comfort, her pleasure, and her rest, because she may still not yet know how to make those demands for herself. if you can devote any amount of energy to becoming an engine that nurtures the flame of even a single tgirl then there is a place for you in trans heaven, which as far as i'm concerned is the only one worth going to

i love dating tgirls cus a lot of the time they have bad self image so all u gotta do is compliment them and they get so adorably flustered.

what if this thing was a goddess?

still a submissive goddess, but before you could taste its divinity, you had to prove your devotion first?

you make your prayers, asking for its attention. you learn its ways, showing it your commitment. you make your sacrifices, pleasing it with your faith. you spend your time in worship, turning its gaze to yours. you perform its rituals, invoking its divinity in your life.

when this goddess accepts you as worthy of its gifts, you're invited into its inner chambers, its hallowed halls, its high heavens.

you recieve the blessings only it can deliver. it serves you as only a goddess can, turning its power to support you where your goals and its divinity aligns. as its most devoted worshipper, you're invited to explore its holy body, to feel its curves, to enjoy its holes, to know its heart, to learn its reactions to pain.

once you're held in its embrace, there's still a remaining question: will you remain a faithful devotee, or begin to twist your goddess and corrupt it into something else?

REBLOG TO PISS OFF TRANSPHOBES

suspension bondage but it’s a mech trussed up and hanging in a repair bay, limbs disconnected from hardpoints, reactor exposed.

Owning a black cat is awesome because you’ll leave the bathroom and The Shape will be waiting for you

I think I deserve to get kidnapped and given progesterone and get called a good girl when I huff musky pits. As a treat.

someone come over and tie my leash around one of the legs of my bed in such a way that it prevents me from getting onto the bed or even fully sitting up

I mean, I do very much appreciate being electrocuted

idk who needs to hear this but don’t put shock collars on animals it’s inhumane and ineffective

put them on a petgirl instead they’ll be able to appreciate it