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Got through to 3am but something wasn't quite right.

Took it off and when I looked this morning the back plate has cracked.

I'll try a repair but who knows if it will work.

Could be the end of chastity for me.

I am ... it feels good

A New Learning

We've been doing this a while now, and it's working. I think I've got into a real groove, and it's become second nature. At first, especially when you are both new to this, there's a part of this chastity game which feels like a bit of a chore - or at least, a bit 'maintenance-y'. Of course, in any good sexual partnership, there is always work to put in, but what I sometimes didn't like was the feeling that I was doing the work. He was doing the 'suffering', and I was reaping many benefits, but I still had to do additional things that were not previously part of my routine or lifestyle.

Well, this feeling has gone. He knows the rules now, I know how to pin back and attempts to subvert them or bend them. "No". But I must admit, I have had a new learning recently worth sharing.

I've mentioned previously that the 'hardest' part of the lockup period for the male is the first 7-or-so days after an orgasm. The 'post-nut' clarity, and often 'drop', kicks in, and they often seem reluctant to get locked up again. Similar to how a previously-keen locked male will all of a sudden refuse to eat their cum straight after an orgasm - all of a sudden they are repulsed by an idea that turned them on massively a few seconds earlier.

Well, like all things male, this is simply primal physiological response. Post-orgasm, the male brain floods with blood, there is residual adrenaline and the blinding hormones of horniness dissipate. The result is a distinctly objective and un-sexual analysis of current state. This is inconvenient and to be avoided.

So what's my learning?

If my male is being allowed a full orgasm with his nub cage removed, I have now made it essential for the ring of the cage to be in place. The SECOND he has had his release, I firmly place the cage back on his ejaculating nub and firmly press until I can relock the cage. This means that the cage is back on his nub before the orgasmic glow subsides. His post-nut brain now takes in the 'current' state, and moves on. In this version of current state, he is already locked, so 'nothing to see here'. Since doing this, I have seen significant reduction in begging/whining/reluctance to start the next lockup cycle. Of course, ruined orgasms and caged releases have a similar effect, so take your pick.

Would be interested to hear your thoughts on this, or if you have any tips for the post-nut moments worth sharing. This may just involve "Do as I say - I don't care what you think", but hey!

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Findoms Problem

First I want say I am not talking about real findoms I will only talk about this random "findoms" in Tumblr

For me that's the biggest problem in Tumblr now. People are sending DMs for people who have some BDSM content in they blogs (even Doms and Femdoms) that DM usually say something like (Hey sissy or Hey sub) if you reply they will try to chat about your kinks propose some kink play from that point they have two strategies firs and more common is ask for money in exchange for kink task and pictures from them the second is the most dangerous usually they ask for pictures from you and try get some information them they blackmail you for money

So is obviously dangerous they can take really big amounts of money from you very quick and offcorse all this accounts are 100% false the profile pictures are usually one of the first pictures you would find if you search for femdom picture in google they usually just reblog 10 captions from one or two big pages (they usually repeat the same post) and this profiles usually only follow 10 or less pages just to don't be empty

To find this information I just "fall in they trap" I spend some time chat and I send them random pictures I find in google and some of them really look like AI but definitely are some humans doing this as well I did this at least if 10 profiles after this initial strategy a try get some interviews but I don't find any of them who accept tell me something I will put some prints of one of this attempts. One thing I discovery is they just give up if you shows to be smart so if want try this play the stupid or they will just stop talking

My conclusion is some criminal groups are doing this but are people doing this alone I don't find any strategy to make this stop beside do this post to try help people don't fall in they trap because if people stop falling they will stop doing so if someone with this type of profile send you DM report them

Please reblog this so more people see my blog is really small and I will not get any views alone send this to big blogs so they can help us

If that fake findoms don't stop all real findoms who really cares about they subs and dominant people will lose interest in this site and we all will lose this space to share and experience

Good bye and thank you all for your time and support and sorry for any language mistake english isn't my first language