I Just Had One Of The Most Positive "coming Out" Therian Experiences Ive Ever Had The Other Day.

I just had one of the most positive "coming out" therian experiences Ive ever had the other day.

I was hanging out with a couple friends I hadn't seen in a while (technically it'd been years, but we've all kept in good contact online so it felt like much less), and one of them asked me about therianthropy because they had seen me post about it once or twice on my main. So I tried to be less awkward about it than usual and just told them straight up "It means I identify as an animal".

And there were no weird looks, no blank stares or awkward silence. They just kinda laughed and were like "Oh yeah that makes perfect sense for you :)"

We talked about it a little bit off and on during the rest of the hang out, I told them about my phantom shifts and mental shifts, about how I met my irl therian friends, about how I found the community. They asked me genuine questions, and while talking about alterhumanity irl is still a rather uncomfortable experience given how infrequently I do it, I never once felt judged.

And the thing is that neither of these friends are even part of adjacent/intersecting communities. Neither are furries, neither are cosplayers or really even into fandom at all. By all accounts they're both very "normie", but they accepted me with open arms.

After really only having coming out experiences where the other person just responds with "okay 🙂" and then never acknowledges it again, it felt soooo good to just have a normal open conversation about it, just like I would with any other aspect of my identity.

Sometimes humans are really cool :)

More Posts from Wanderingcritter and Others

4 months ago

Free to use wolfkin edits of my therian flag design!!

Free To Use Wolfkin Edits Of My Therian Flag Design!!
Free To Use Wolfkin Edits Of My Therian Flag Design!!
Free To Use Wolfkin Edits Of My Therian Flag Design!!
Free To Use Wolfkin Edits Of My Therian Flag Design!!
Free To Use Wolfkin Edits Of My Therian Flag Design!!
Free To Use Wolfkin Edits Of My Therian Flag Design!!
Free To Use Wolfkin Edits Of My Therian Flag Design!!
Free To Use Wolfkin Edits Of My Therian Flag Design!!

brown, grey, white and black wolf!! ⋆˚꩜。


Tags
1 year ago

So How Do I Know if I’m Nonhuman?

So How Do I Know If I’m Nonhuman?

Disclaimer: This post is largely targeted toward those who experience or are questioning nonhumanity in a non-physical way, such as therian, otherkin, and some nonhuman alter experiences, as that is the realm I have the most knowledge on. Please keep this in mind going forward.

I’ve been in the alterhuman/therian/nonhuman communities for *checks watch* eight years now, give or take. I’m very confident in my identity as a dog, and I live my life as a dog in a human body every day. I’m very open about it with people in my life. I’m just always like this.

I get asked a lot— in my DMs, in my asks, personally by people I know— how to know if you’re nonhuman.

Unfortunately I do not have an easy answer for that. Finding out you’re nonhuman, and being comfortable with that identity, is a long, confusing process for most. There are so many ways to experience nonhumanity, and a lot of people will tell you narrow definitions based on what their experience looks like.

My experience with finding out I was nonhuman is messy and long, and it took me several years to get as comfortable and as confident in my identity as I am. I know that’s not an answer people like to hear. I know how hard it is to just think “This will take time” and be cool with that.

So I think my biggest piece of advice would be: Don’t be afraid to experiment. Don’t be afraid to get it wrong.

There have been times where I’ve thought I was a wolf, a rabbit, a fox, a dragon, a husky, a bear, all kinds of things, before I finally figured out the right answer for me. I only have one theriotype. My theriotype is psychological and trauma-induced in nature. Yours might not be. You will very likely not experience nonhumanity in the exact same way as anyone else. That’s why it’s so confusing. That’s why it takes so long to understand your own journey.

Look dude. Get the gear you like. Do what makes you feel species euphoric. If you’re so worried about “faking” your nonhuman identity, chances are you’re not. Also? I personally wouldn’t care if someone who identified as nonhuman later retracted that identity, and I don’t know anyone who would care either.

If labeling yourself as some kind of nonhuman feels right to you right now, that’s okay. Your ‘types may change and grow overtime, you may feel more or less connected with them, that is all okay. Experience nonhumanity in a way that works for you right now. There’s not one way to know if you’re nonhuman. But I’d say if the community and the label is right for you, you’ll stay with it, and you’ll be more confident in it over time. And if it isn’t, that’s okay too.


Tags
1 year ago

“Fawn” comes from the Old English Word for ‘glad’

I ain’t happy, I’m feelin glad


Tags
1 year ago

why am i a wolf doing tests. 4 weeks of tests. who thought this would be a good idea what the hell


Tags
7 months ago
Anywhere And Nowhere With Your Pack🌙
Anywhere And Nowhere With Your Pack🌙
Anywhere And Nowhere With Your Pack🌙
Anywhere And Nowhere With Your Pack🌙
Anywhere And Nowhere With Your Pack🌙
Anywhere And Nowhere With Your Pack🌙
Anywhere And Nowhere With Your Pack🌙
Anywhere And Nowhere With Your Pack🌙
Anywhere And Nowhere With Your Pack🌙
Anywhere And Nowhere With Your Pack🌙
Anywhere And Nowhere With Your Pack🌙
Anywhere And Nowhere With Your Pack🌙
Anywhere And Nowhere With Your Pack🌙

anywhere and nowhere with your pack🌙


Tags
5 months ago

Yk what fuck it im otherlink now idc :P

Im cervid (primarily reindeer and excluding moose) and corvid clado link. Honestly these might be legitimate theriotypes, Ive been questioning them forever, but I neither have the time or motivation to actually try to figure it out rn so whatever. They both just feel very me but in a much less serious/deeply rooted way as my other kintypes, if I wasn't already a therian I probably wouldn't think of them as anything more than animals I enjoy portraying myself as lol

Yk What Fuck It Im Otherlink Now Idc :P
Yk What Fuck It Im Otherlink Now Idc :P
Yk What Fuck It Im Otherlink Now Idc :P
Yk What Fuck It Im Otherlink Now Idc :P
Yk What Fuck It Im Otherlink Now Idc :P
Yk What Fuck It Im Otherlink Now Idc :P
Yk What Fuck It Im Otherlink Now Idc :P
Yk What Fuck It Im Otherlink Now Idc :P
Yk What Fuck It Im Otherlink Now Idc :P
Yk What Fuck It Im Otherlink Now Idc :P

But yeah this is what I look like irl, local reindeer and bluejays hmu lets be friends ❆.°🪶


Tags
Loading...
End of content
No more pages to load
  • literally-just-a-deer
    literally-just-a-deer liked this · 1 month ago
  • turtlefordestiel
    turtlefordestiel liked this · 1 month ago
  • theoddcryptid
    theoddcryptid liked this · 2 months ago
  • crittertangles
    crittertangles liked this · 2 months ago
  • wanderingcritter
    wanderingcritter reblogged this · 2 months ago
  • daffodilsatdusk
    daffodilsatdusk reblogged this · 2 months ago
  • flowersateventide
    flowersateventide liked this · 2 months ago
  • superchopshopcrown
    superchopshopcrown liked this · 3 months ago
  • constellations-above-my-bed
    constellations-above-my-bed liked this · 5 months ago
  • wishingstone
    wishingstone liked this · 6 months ago
  • rareblackcat
    rareblackcat liked this · 8 months ago
  • cotta-dog
    cotta-dog liked this · 8 months ago
  • questioning-ex-rq
    questioning-ex-rq liked this · 8 months ago
  • porkchopseven
    porkchopseven liked this · 8 months ago
  • kito-kat
    kito-kat liked this · 8 months ago
  • buggydoesblogs
    buggydoesblogs liked this · 8 months ago
  • dumbestbitchyoulleverknow
    dumbestbitchyoulleverknow reblogged this · 8 months ago
  • dumbestbitchyoulleverknow
    dumbestbitchyoulleverknow liked this · 8 months ago
  • chaostributary97
    chaostributary97 liked this · 8 months ago
  • arctictern12
    arctictern12 reblogged this · 8 months ago
  • arctictern12
    arctictern12 liked this · 8 months ago
  • merlinmeows
    merlinmeows liked this · 8 months ago
  • notadogband
    notadogband liked this · 8 months ago
  • lemonlionpie
    lemonlionpie liked this · 8 months ago
  • eldritchbean-shapeshifter
    eldritchbean-shapeshifter reblogged this · 8 months ago
  • rhoselacksthorns
    rhoselacksthorns liked this · 8 months ago
  • corvidstar
    corvidstar liked this · 8 months ago
  • solarcitymelodies
    solarcitymelodies liked this · 8 months ago
  • comicbookluv3r
    comicbookluv3r liked this · 8 months ago
  • unadulteratedfreakscissorsdean
    unadulteratedfreakscissorsdean reblogged this · 8 months ago
  • twelve-nights
    twelve-nights liked this · 8 months ago
  • multifaceted-muttgirl
    multifaceted-muttgirl liked this · 8 months ago
  • catsithkelpie
    catsithkelpie liked this · 8 months ago
  • lox-is-running
    lox-is-running liked this · 8 months ago
  • wolfboygirlboy
    wolfboygirlboy liked this · 8 months ago
  • iamblueraspberry
    iamblueraspberry liked this · 8 months ago
  • moonpieandfries12345
    moonpieandfries12345 liked this · 8 months ago
  • w0lfm4d30fk4nd1
    w0lfm4d30fk4nd1 liked this · 8 months ago
  • rei0408
    rei0408 liked this · 8 months ago
  • saturn-in-retrograde0
    saturn-in-retrograde0 liked this · 8 months ago
  • that-ldiot
    that-ldiot liked this · 8 months ago
  • malecius
    malecius liked this · 8 months ago
  • rarespawns
    rarespawns liked this · 8 months ago
  • plseatmyfries
    plseatmyfries liked this · 8 months ago
wanderingcritter - 𖦹⋅°.𝚆𝚊𝚗𝚍𝚎𝚛 .°⋅𖦹
𖦹⋅°.𝚆𝚊𝚗𝚍𝚎𝚛 .°⋅𖦹

🌱⋆˚࿔ 𝚒𝚛𝚕 𝚍𝚢𝚔𝚎 𝚌𝚘𝚢𝚘𝚝𝚎 ☄︎⋅✧✦₊⊹ 𝚝𝚛𝚊𝚗𝚜𝚜𝚙𝚎𝚌𝚒𝚎𝚜 + 𝚏𝚞𝚛𝚛𝚢 ☾۠ 🌲★ᯓ- Θ𐊣 ⚧︎ ⚢ ◺✧◹ -ᯓ★

232 posts

Explore Tumblr Blog
Search Through Tumblr Tags