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Day 15

Day 15. Bartending locked up is strange. Oh well, here's to new experiences.

People who are like “asking for consent ruins the moment” have no imagination.

Like, I’m sorry, but purring “do you want it?” into your partner’s ear before you fuck is hot.

Looking into your partner’s eyes and asking “may I?” in a voice breathy with desire before you kiss them is super hot.

and “Do you want me to pin you up against this wall and fuck you till you’re screaming my name?” is just basically dirty talk.

What the actual fuck is wrong with you?  If asking for consent ruins sex for you, you’re… what?  A rapist who sucks at talking dirty?  

Is that a demographic whose fun we care about ruining?

masturbation?  i prefer the term “menage a moi”

Reblog if I can leave you a sexually uncomfortable message.

Yes you my

A plan...

So, the cage I got, and posted photos of, is having mixed results. The comfort is good. It is a tiny bit big, but for long time wear it irritates my skin. I think it had to do with the metal it is made from, so here is my plan:

I will be locking up full time as of July first. At this point it looks like I will be using my cb6000s. I will also be attempting to modify the metal cage. My plan is to paint it with a spray-on sealer. It will be like spray painting it. I was thinking of maybe using rustoleum. It puts a hard shell on metal. If that works out, and the painted cage doesn't bother me, that will be what I wear.

She is already teasing me about extended wear times. Guess we can just wait and see what she wants.

I remember crying over you, not just a couple of beads of tears. I remember gasping for air, beating my fist against my chest trying to rip my heart out. Trying to get the pain to stop. You should have skinned me alive instead, it probably would have hurt less.

(via morphine-and-cigarettes)