“I’m a mess but god I hope you still want me.”
— (via beschaedigung)
"Hey kiddo" with the intention of taking every ounce of frustration out on you
So, everyone know I’m all about that Daddy Dom life—caring, protective, making sure everyone’s having a good time and staying safe. But lately, I’ve been seeing way too many so-called "Doms" out here who are straight-up missing the point.
Let me just say this loud and clear: Being a Dom does NOT give you the right to be a jerk. I’m talking about those dudes who think they can just slide into someone’s DMs with demands or "orders" without so much as a "Hi, how are you?" first. Like, what happened to basic respect? This isn’t some fast-food drive-thru where you can just order up a sub or a little with a side of kinks.
Being a Dom means more than just barking orders—it’s about connection, trust, and mutual respect. You don’t get to bypass the whole "getting to know you" phase just because you’ve slapped a "Dom" label on yourself. That’s not dominance, that’s entitlement, and it’s toxic as hell for our community.
And don’t even get me started on the "faux Doms" who think they’re God’s gift to subs just because they can spout off a few buzzwords. Real talk? If you’re not taking the time to understand the other person, their needs, and their boundaries, you’re doing it wrong. This lifestyle is about creating a safe, consensual space where everyone involved feels respected and valued—not about feeding your ego at someone else’s expense.
To those of you who are new to the lifestyle, please take your time. Learn, listen, and don’t be afraid to ask questions. We’ve all been there, and there’s no shame in taking it slow. But to the "Doms" who are out here acting like the rules don’t apply to you? Knock it off. You’re making the lifestyle toxic, and it’s not okay.
Let’s keep this space safe, fun, and respectful for everyone involved. If you’re in it for the power trip, then you’re not in it for the right reasons.
Alright, rant over. Back to your regularly Daddy Texts content.
Stay safe.
nobody talks about how hard self love is when you’ve poured into others your whole life
Brats vs. good girls?
Both have their merits, a brat is fun to tame all that attitude until you decide to remind her who's in charge. Good girls always like to please and do as they're told. There's alot of fulfilment in both types.
In the mood to grab her by the throat force her down and take what’s mine. Then use my toys to destroy her further while she uses her hands or mouth to get me hard again before ruining her insides again and again.
Take her to that place only I can because she knows her pretty little holes belong to me.
concerning age gaps <33
• Using your safeword does not make you a bad sub.
• Not enjoying a certain act (i.e. tying up, pain play, etc) does not make you a bad sub.
• Not sharing the same kinks as your dom(s) does not make you a bad sub.
• Asserting your wants, needs and/or triggers does not make you a bad sub.
• Stopping a scene entirely and not wanting to continue does not make you a bad sub.
Bdsm is supposed to be fun. You can stop or alter things to suit your comfort. It’s ok to do this.
Any dom that tells you otherwise is a bad dom.
"It's OK to cry kiddo, dad will be done soon" while I pin you into the mattress and pound your ass with no concern for anything but my own pleasure
When please don’t, becomes please fill me