I Am Imtithal From Northern Gaza. I Live In Very Difficult Conditions Because Of The War And I Struggle

Sometimes being a system is "yes this one person has been fronting alone for the past five hours"

And sometimes it's "there's like 13 people near front and god knows which one of them is actually in control of the body right now"

Silly12vior: let me know if this has already been coined!!!

A vior term where one’s behavior is described by, attributed to, or relates to humor attributed to 12 year old human boys or 12 year old behavior. Meant to be an otherkin term for those whose behavior may not be well described- fantasy kins for example- but anyone can use it for any reason

I actually have afew questions, I hope you don't mind!

1)I just recently saw your post about Sophie and "tulpa" and other variants of the word being harmful. I was wondering if you could give me some other terms for tulpa/tulpamancy/tulpagenic/tulpamancer/etc, especially using the terms "Willow/willowgenic"!

2) I've felt less valid as a system because I have Aphantasia and I can't hear my headmates. We speak through opinions and emotions because that's the only way we can. Do you have any ways I can work on communication with my Dudes?

3) Lastly, I've been super confident lately! But when my male/masculine presenting Dudes are near front, their dysphoric emotions probect onto me. I was wondering if this was normal and if it had a name!

That's about all I have, if any of my questions step out of your boundaries/comfort zone I'm so so so sorry!

Have a lovely timezone!!! <3/p

we don’t mind, that’s what we’re here for :)

1) here are some other terms you can use besides “tulpamancy:”

parogenic/parogen

paro/paromancy/paromancer (this is what we use!)

thoughtform

willogenic/willomate/willomancy/willomancer (though we have seen issues with this term, as some paros (tulpas) were never willed into existence and function more like walk-ins)

2) communicating through emotions and opinions is totally fine - these are definitely valid ways of communicating, especially if it works well for your system.

we know aphantasia may complicate things, but we do have a post on establishing contact with headmates. you can check it out here. your system may benefit most from spending time working on external communication, and we have a section in that post on how to do just that.

3) we’re not sure if the phenomenon of experiencing another headmate’s dysphoria has a name, but we can definitely say that it is very common for headmates to feel the emotions of other members, especially if they’re blended or cofronting together. i know i get species dysphoria and sometimes our resident human alter will feel that dysphoria when we’re cofronting together, even if he still identifies as a human. our gender dysphoria and euphoria are all over the place, and it’s very normal in our system for us to feel each other’s emotions when we’re fronting together.

we hope this helps to answer some of your questions. thanks for reaching out :)

🐢 kip and 👻 ghost

“Tudo que eu preciso é do seu pra sempre. Não posso prometer que as coisas não vão ser difíceis, mas eu juro que nunca vou ir embora. Por favor, fique para sempre comigo.”

— Sleeping With Sirens.

If it’s not too much trouble, could we request a headmate who is a porcelain ball-jointed doll? Feminine presentation, depression holder and trauma holder, with a color theme of silver and teal. Mostly we just need help with ideas for names, pronouns, and gender identity, but if you have any strokes of brilliance for other details then we welcome those also!

Side note, we love your blog so far. We recently had a bad experience with another bah blog, so this one has been so pleasant to follow that up with. You’re doing an amazing job, mods!

- 🫀🌌

One Porcelain Ball-Jointed doll coming up under the cut! Feel free to edit/scrap anything that doesn't fit!

༄~𖦹︎ Name(/s) ➪ Celestine, Liora, Glacia, Silverbell, Lumi, Thalassa, Winter ༄~𖦹︎ Pronouns ➪ She/Her, They/Them, Doll/Dolls, Glint/Glints, Snow/snows, Frost/frosts ༄~𖦹︎ Gender ➪ TFemmasc, Dollgender, Dollfem, Dollboy, Porceangelic, Porcelaindollgender, Frostgender, Phosnowial, Winterish ༄~𖦹︎ Orientations ➪ Winter Lesbian, Lesbian, Sapphic, Bambi Lesbian, Sapphic Lesbian, ༄~𖦹︎ Age ➪ 18-19 ༄~𖦹︎ Species(-ish) ➪ Porcelain Ball-Jointed Doll ༄~𖦹︎ Role(/s) ➪ Depression Holder & Trauma Holder ༄~𖦹︎ Source or Theme ➪ Silver & teal theme [Made us think of Winter] ༄~𖦹︎ Appearance or Faceclaim ➪

➪ Image Creds; 1 & 2 & 3 ༄~𖦹︎ Likes ➪ Winter & associated things (hot cocoa, etc), the cold & cold things (foods/drinks, snow, cool colours, etc); deer, rabbits, mice, shrews, and other prey animals; bebop, smooth jazz, and improvisational jazz, D1sney style animated films, forests & fields (nature/natural spaces), soft things ༄~𖦹︎ Mixed Feelings ➪ Romance & romantic themes, warm things (aside from those associated with Winter), the ocean, predator animals ༄~𖦹︎ Dislikes ➪ The heat/hot days/etc, horror, gore, violence, spiders, the loud (loud people, loud music, loud places, loud machines, etc) ༄~𖦹︎ Proxy Options ➪ 🧊🥀/☄️❄️

even our ancestors sang Popipo

Name: Avery, Connie, Grayson, Kay, Kat, Ray

nickname: Con-Con, sonnie, sunny, kit-kat, Av

pronouns: likes any and all, prefers she/her and neopronouns

typing quirks: Putting multiple exclamation marks in sentences, using lots of run on sentences and not caring about punctuation. Uses a lot of emoticons to react to things like: :3 :0 :( :) :,( :,)

gender: Genderfluid✨, Amicagender✨ https://pin.it/4MZZrHU2g , gendersylphen✨ https://pin.it/167RKPumy , genderrund✨ https://pin.it/1hB9uioqJ , gender hoarder✨ https://pin.it/4569BFOC6 , cottoncandygender✨ https://pin.it/6d9sQ2cQI , maverique✨ https://pin.it/7KzvchLLW , gummysharkic✨ https://pin.it/1ROJw4HkR , Hypergender✨ https://pin.it/7aRA8OqCV , WEBTHiNG✨ https://pin.it/PfGuckagz , SillyMusicGender✨ https://pin.it/6Tx1hVaJE , softstaric✨ https://pin.it/5Q1bKWjGG , Techoric✨ https://pin.it/64J25TubN , goofygender✨ https://pin.it/54Pf4qx8u , :3gender✨ https://pin.it/hchJbZYRu

orientation: Lesbian✨, sapphic✨ , Embrouillesexual✨ https://pin.it/J1epk7i3z , Bambi Sapphic https://pin.it/6qavR70py , KEYCHAiNALLION✨ https://pin.it/2YR1F6i7L , GIRL LOVER✨ https://pin.it/4PRLfV2Wa , Mellow-oriented sapphic✨ https://pin.it/XeK5ReD1j

species: Human

age: 17

personality: Bright, bubbly, hyper, talkative, and hugely social. A big hugger too. Exudes confidence like an aura.

quirks: Bounces a lot, often doesn’t realize how loud she is, often doodles on things while talking on the phone

likes: Yellow, bright colorful things, kandi, Stardew Valley, hyperpop music, scenecore music, and 8bit music.

dislikes: slow music, classical music, and despises being alone and bored.

role: Social Alter, Admirer https://pluralpedia.org/w/Admirer , Confidence holder, beauheur https://pluralpedia.org/w/Beauheur

sign off: !!!✨✨

idk if you support xenosatanist but one is following you https://www.tumblr.com/einai-nikos

can you stop going around to people's asks dropping this user there when the accounts dont have xenosatanism on their dni? I've seen you do this to several people. you can see very clearly that I have no dni pinned

I make silly blinkies guys. I don't care if Satan himself is following me. I'm not showing my raging support for a group just by letting them follow me. all following me does is show people my content a bit more often it doesn't make me morally responsible for them

As awareness of plurality continues to spread online, that also means more and more people will realize they are plural. And unfortunately, there will be a response from certain gatekeepy exclusionist types, who will push back against these newfound systems and insist on invalidating them. They’ll insist they’re just hopping on a trend, or just fooling themselves, or whatever other justification they can make up to maintain the idea that being plural is extremely rare and being plural means suffering for it.

Don’t fall for it. Being plural presents challenges and difficulties without question, but being plural also can bring joys and clarity that weren’t possible otherwise. Being plural can be hard, and it can be beautiful.

No two systems present and function exactly the same ways. No two systems are plural for the exact same reasons. So we can’t expect there to be an absolute common trait present in every system. So any attempt to weed out the “fakers” is pointless and malicious.

If someone believes themself to be plural, they have good reason to. No further “proof” needed. If someone comes to us believing themself to be plural, we will help them along without critique or question. And above all we will be happy for them. Even if someday they realize they aren’t plural, that process of being allowed to question and experiment is so important, and they should be allowed to do so regardless of where they end up.

Plurality is a spectrum that encompasses a vast swathe of experiences and outlooks. It can be difficult to reckon with, which is why community is so vital. And as that community online grows and becomes more and more visible, we should all do our part, systems and singlets, to make sure these newfound systems feel safe, seen, and welcome.

plural culture is being a relatively small system then going on school break and experiencing massive system growth and getting very involved with plural communities and mostly shifting to thinking in we/us and being scared to slip up at school when you go back

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