Reblog If You're Not Homophobic

"Scott and Jimmy are divorced-" actually Scott was widowed.

Which is very nitpicky, obviously, because. They're both currently alive and also no longer married. So divorced is a pretty fitting term.

But I think it's been so long since Thirdlife that we too easily forget when Scott was widowed.

Coming home to silence, to an empty house that was usually full of banter and laughter. He finds the cake he made Jimmy earlier that day, something he pranked Jimmy with, something they laughed about. It would stay uneaten now. He holds the Pufferish of Peace, a silly little misspelling that was just so Jimmy, one of the last things to remind Scott of him. It's quiet.

The rest of Scott's life was pretty short and miserable. He lost all his lives in pretty quick succession and the whole time after Jimmy died he was "dazed" as Bdubs put it. More violent and reckless than he'd been before (hadn't scott been the one to warn jimmy not to antagonize or get himself in trouble?), more dulled and unfocused than before. And then he died alone.

I think it's important to remember that Scott was widowed, not divorced. Losing Jimmy wasn't a mutual decision, or even something Jimmy asked for. It was sudden and violent and unfair. It broke Scott for the rest of the season. And Scott didn't even get to process it, really, living a short and miserable life and then being thrown into the next season where he was told nothing from before matters.

But it does matter. It festers and hurts and smothers. Not always, and it seems to get less as the seasons go on (or maybe scott just gets better at hiding how much love and grief buries him every time he sees someone he once called a partner), but when there are moments where Scott brings up their marriage, whether he's trying to get Jimmy's attention or being petty toward Jimmy, I feel like we don't analyze it enough through the lens of Scott as a widow.

I don’t like when people who have lower needs or level 1 autism(usually) say stuff on how it’s a stereotype that autistic people have aggressive behaviors towards themselves and others.

Because for me that is the case.

I loved my family, and I still do, I dont want to hurt them.

But I remember growing up I would bite people, especially my mom. I would bite her arms even when relaxed because I need needed the sensory stimulation.

Then it was myself, I would bite my fingers, my toes, and my family when having a meltdown.

I would thrash and hit and kick myself and people around me for no reason. Mainly when I was a toddler. I had lots of energy and didn’t know how to get it out.

I still have lots of ‘aggressive’ behaviors, mainly towards myself, and only people around me when I’m upset.

It’s usually hitting myself with my fists, throwing myself against walls and other people, biting myself, and this is when I’m not dysregulated. Just when I am understimulated.

Having aggressive behaviors is something autistic people, especially with level 2 and 3 autism, deal with on a regular basis.

It shouldn’t be something shamed, or taboo, or thought of as ‘a bad stereotype’.

Because it is true for a big majority of people with autism.

yall if Joel goes to exile we get jevin and joel interactions. Jevin’s already embracing the insane what happens when we add Mr. Mania Man

team send joel to exile so he joins the cult

early stages of friendship are Soooo embarrassing like yea sorry....... it's me again............ i enjoy talking to you and spending time with you....... you can shoot me point blank if you want i dont mind

to this day possibly one of my best ideas. someone get me a pitch meeting with the hallmark channel

Thank you for letting me see this.

The way Knuckles immediately steps in between Sonic and Tails when he sees that Sonic is angry and Knuckles defends Tails.

I don't think that Sonic would hurt Tails and I don't think that Knuckles thought so but I love the way he is triggered by Sonic's behaviour and he immediately decided to defend their little brother while being gentle with Sonic at the same time. I know I already made posts about how amazing Knuckles was in this movie being such a good big brother to these two but I always keep finding more moments where he's showing just how much he cares about his whole family.

Life Series as Incorrect Quotes Pt2

Since the last one did surprisingly well.

one time i was in an olive garden bathroom and my packer fell out of my shorts and this ten year old boy just looked at me with absolute terror and without thinking i said "that's what happens when you don't eat your vegetables" later i saw him eating salad at a speed no human should be capable of

I wish I had a definitive and 100% accurate way of figuring out my gender so I could end this years-long questioning phase and just stop worrying about it.

Awww! That’s so nice! Literally kicking my feet all super giddy and happy rn.

were gonna be best friends forever you stupid son of a bitch