Normalize not forcing people to choose you. If they think they can find better elsewhere – let them. Respectfully.
“Life changes.
You lose love. You lose friends. You lose pieces of yourself that you never imagined would be gone.
And then, without you even realizing it, these pieces come back.
New love enters. Better friends come along. And a stronger, wiser you is staring back in the mirror.”
~Preetham Mohanty
“Be conscious of yourself, watch your mind, give it your full attention. Don’t look for quick results; there may be none within your noticing. Unknown to you, your psyche will undergo a change; there will be more clarity in your thinking, charity in your feeling, purity in your behavior. You need not aim at these—you will witness the change all the same. For, what you are now is the result of inattention and what you become will be the fruit of attention.”
— Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj
Star 💫 Sign: Libra ♎️
Libra ladies have a reputation for being the quintessential “manic pixie dream girl” of the zodiac, the kind of woman who is always up for a wild and playful adventure, even if it’s just hitchhiking over to the local carnival to eat candy apples and ride on the Ferris wheel.
Another keyword for this sign is delight. A Libra woman thrives on fun, laughter, joyfulness, and beauty. She loves to feel free and keep it light, instinctively turning away from people whose traits feel too negative or heavy for her. These babes have a natural cool to them that comes from not trying too hard and keeping things chill. Their style is of the moment and easygoing, but always attractive and comfortable. The Libra woman is also known for being a great beauty – even when her look is less than conventional, she’s known for being the girl that everyone has a crush on. Her ruling planet is Venus, after all. And she wields that knowledge with a confidence that makes it easier for her to talk – and flirt – with anyone.
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“When the mind is calm, how quickly, how smoothly, how beautifully you will perceive everything.”
— Paramahansa Yogananda
Divine Love (love of self)
The self discipline is vibrant within a strong libra person.
Libra placements that I encounter will be the first to get dolled up to go out on the town, yet still be the early birds the next day getting their responsibilities taken care of.
When I found out saturn is exalted in this sign, I was far from surprised. That planet keeps them on top of things and disciplined. All while letting their venus ruler experience the pleasures of life.
Having an emotionally mature partner is TOP TIER. You're able to express yourself freely and openly. They don’t insult you. They don't give you the silent treatment. They don't become aggressive or manipulative. They listen, they respond—they patiently hold a safe space for you.
Maturity is when you realize people can't give you what they can't give themselves, so you stop expecting loyalty from people who betray themselves, stop expecting honesty from people who lie to themselves, and stop expecting peace from people who are at war with themselves.