Fluffy Achlys
very floof.
I think one of the things that has brought me the most peace in my life was the decision to stop responding to anything not clearly stated to me.
Anxiety: Oh no your friend hates you!
Me: Well they didn't say that. So either they need to fortify and tell me themselves, or I will continue to be their friend exactly as I am.
Not just that though. When people hint drop that they want a thing from you, I act as if I have not noticed at all. Either you directly ask me for that thing, or you are not getting that thing from me.
I actually decided to start doing this because I got diagnosed as autistic and I realised how much stress and unhappiness I put on myself trying to figure out everyone's motives and wants and needs all the time. So I decided I'd just... Stop.
And I tell people that. I tell people "I don't notice or respond to hints or passive aggressive behaviour. Either you need to be straight with me or I will continue as I am." And you know the only person that has had a problem with it?
My former abuser (who I am vvvvv low contact with). Because they relied on me feeling obligated to respond to their unspoken moods and wants to keep me in line.
Everyone else has been immediately on board and my relationships have gotten SO much stronger. Because I am asked directly for things, and I will give a direct reason for my response, regardless of what that response is. (e.g. "Hey, can you call me, I want company on the drive home!" "No, sorry, I'm in the middle of [task], but I will be done in twenty minutes so if you still want my company then, I'll be happy to.")
So I put this out as a suggestion for all people, ND and NT.
Stop responding to hints, passive aggression and other 'unspoken' things. Use, model and encourage clear communication with everyone, you'd be surprised how much easier it makes EVERYTHING!
Do Doll and her family have a last name? I don't remember at all.
Also what is Doll's father's name?
Lately, there has been an uptake in the amount of hate and harassment towards a variety of fellow community creators. This is neither an issue limited to a single fandom nor an issue confined to the internet space. And while this is a symptom of much larger and more systematic problem way above my pay grade, I will only focus on a small part of it.
Everyone is entitled to both their opinions and tastes. These might not align with your own and that is ok.
You are fully allowed to disagree with those opinions, enquire about them, discuss them, and share your own opinions on it.
What you are NOT allowed, however, is to harass a person for having different opinions or tastes than you. You may not threaten, berate, or insult a person for their opinions and tastes.
When sharing, discussing, or disagreeing with opinions, be respectful of others.
tl;dr : be respectful.
i don’t post my personal art publicly (nor do i render that often) but i thought this drawing i did of my ocs was pretty cool
I drew my robotsona fluffier like months ago???
Fluffy drones are surely cursed but also cute?
May we have manor JUzi please? Pretty pretty please? Your art is so scrumptious btw!
- @thetrollunderthebridgeidk
even more jangst
Also thank you! :,3
What's the name of J x V x Uzi ship? As far I'm aware, it's JUVi but I mean like those funny ship names below here-
PinkLemonade (V x Lizzy) and BrandGun (J x Uzi)
I wanna know :3c
Ok so can you draw my md oc and gfs md oc as chubby kittys cuddling?
My gf’s is the cyan colored on and well mines the red one :> Rani and Achlys
Achlys - Maine Coon (largest cat breed)
Rani - Russian Blue (Russian Blue cats always have amber eyes, nothing can go outside amber but I can do anything whatever I want to)
kitties.
Jangst I have left in somewhere files-
V is all fluffy now >:3c hehe
Imma continue dumping most artworks of murder drones I have in my files :P
★✮ 18 y/o ✮ Cerifed insane artist ✮ ENG-ASL (Deaf) ✮ It/They ✮ Murder Drones Brainrot ✮ Please credit me if reposting my work! ✮★
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