Oh Straight People 😔

Sorry, straights! ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

resisting the feminine urge to draw boobs

I wanna draw some tits, maybe so bare tits, maybe just some boobs spilling out of some open shirt or a bra- maybe so fancy costume I just really wanna draw tits but I can’t anatomy.

I hate being the therapist friend so so so much.

You’re starting to read my taste a lil too much, not sure wether I should be worried you already know me so well even tho we’ve only been friends for about a year (?) or be happy you already know me so well even tho we’ve only been friends for about a year

either way, slay

Girl I told you, soulmates duh

dream smp characters asking for your pronouns: part one

dream: what are your pronouns? wait no let me guess- she/they? what do you mean no? why?? they fit you so much better though. you know what? its fine if you dont use she/they pronouns, no really its fine, i just thought-

sapnap: do you have adjectives too?

george: snooork mimimimimi.... snooooooork... mimimimimi

karl: he/her? i hardly know her!! 🤗🤗❤️

quackity: pronoun pins are $15 each.

sam: please write your name, pronouns, address, and reason for visiting and ill call you back when hes ready to see you.

ranboo: do um. do you have p-pronounce??

tubbo: get lost before i make you.

tommy: do you use man pronouns, woman pronouns, or ranboo pronouns?

wilbur: oh to have the awareness of self to formulate my own identity- alas my soul died with lmanburg; what is identity without a soul? do you wanna smoke some dmt with me?

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Please I'm begging you all to turn this on in your settings

Now that I've enabled this I can see how old a post is and also when anything added via reblog was posted. I'm now able to see, for example, people inadvertantly circulating news that's years old but responding to it like it's new. I can see if a post with 10k notes is a day old or a decade old. It's very, very useful. Please do it.

Something that always has bothered me in fanfics (or just any work of fiction period) is when the female main character is so insistent on trying to be anti-feminine.  And I’m not saying if you’re a masculine woman or a gender non-conforming woman you should feel ashamed about not expressing femininity, you do what makes you feel comfortable and happy, but what I am saying is it always fucks with me how alienated it is in media.

comments like “(x) tried to get me to wear a dress, like that would ever happen” or “I don’t understand how they (another woman) can wear so much makeup” and other comments similar have never sat right with me because of the implications they have.  The implication being because they (the character) doesn’t participate in feminine things such as wearing makeup or dresses is in some way better or more desirable than the women who do.  But at the same time this also alienates women who participate in masculinity.

Typically these characters are just feminine enough to remind the audience they’re women and make them desirable, but just masculine enough to be different and worthy of being idolized.  Because masculine women don’t retain the femininity these women in media display (not saying they can’t be feminine just saying their femininity isn’t represented in the media we consume) we often make fun of them for being hyper masculine.

But this also affects gender non conforming women, as they have been so romanticized and idealized when they aren’t able to meet the expectations our media has set up for them they’re scrutinized and attacked.  Creating an endless cycle nobody can truly win.

TLDR; media romanticizes and depicts the wrong parts of women the wrong way and screw everyone over and it’s very disappointing.