Hi I’m your local friendly AroAce.
And my love language is gifts. As I’m writing this I’m currently sitting on the floor making stuff for my friends for Easter.
I love to make gifts for people. Or even buying stuff for them. I will sew them a stuffie, draw them a picture, pain and item for them, make a piece of jewelry or otherwise.
But the issue is,
I like presents too.
That doesn’t sound like a problem except that the people in my life don’t really do gifts.
My parents will typically do something that I was already in need of as my present and my friends will typically just mass produce some sort of pastry for the group to share.
And I know it’s greedy and selfish to want something more, something with more meaning.
But I can’t help it. I don’t talk to them about it because I know I would sound greedy and selfish. I just need to rant about it.
I’m sorry.
Favorite pride memory?
Ok so as I’ve said before, I’ve never been to a pride parade or protest because I’m not exactly allowed to go, but I do quietly celebrate pride.
Last year, I was inspired by a video I saw to make a cactus sweater! Y’know cause ace/aro cactus! So that’s probably my favorite pride memory
Hey there folks
My joints have gotten to the point where its no longer uncomfortable to use them its now extremely painful and they keep poppin outta place.
Im saving up for joint braces, and my comissions are open. Anything is appreciated at this time, as its nearly 150$ (money I do not have) for all the braces I need. Please feel free to DM me here or on discord ( dubiouslyCannon#8325 )
Payment is through cashapp only ( $dubiouslycanon )
Read my pinned post for more info :)
Nonbinary doesn’t mean “woman”
Nonbinary doesn’t mean “slightly female”
Nonbinary doesn’t mean “masculine girl”
i can tell i’m sleep deprived bc i just made myself cry about tutankhamun and i have, like, negative interest in the kid
I need y’alls help with something.
I’m doing this thing and I need all of y’alls best cheesy pickup lines, as many as you can think of!!!
Any brand of pickup line is allowed, but that doesn’t mean they will be used.
there was a lot of aphobia going around so I thought it would be cool for these boys to show their true colors
reblog to scare aphobes
i don’t think we acknowledge enough that when children want to be treated “like adults” what they really mean is “like people”
this is just my own observations of course but 90% of the time when a kid tries to get people to treat them like an adult, what they really want is the respect and acknowledgement that they associate with adulthood - because that’s what they must give the adults. they have to give that to the adults in their lives, but the adults never give that same respect back, and so they see that difference and decide that they want to be treated “like an adult”
and sometimes i see parents who are like fine you want to be treated like an adult then you can work and pay rent but that’s the exact OPPOSITE of what the kid is actually asking for. you’re just belittling them, clearly intending to punish them for daring ask for your respect, clearly intending for them to break down and beg to be “treated like a child” again because you purposefully twisted their wants. they ask for respect, and you give them abuse.
never, ever, ever, treat a child like a full grown adult. it’s our responsibility as adults NOT to, because they ARENT adults no matter how much they think they want to be, and it’s our job as adults to take care of them.
that said, ALWAYS treat children like people. because they ARE that. they’re real people with real agency acting as best as they know to with what knowledge they have
it’s not a matter of kids trying to grow up too fast, it’s a matter of kids wanting to be treated like people instead of objects or pets.
hello! just a lil smth, please don’t scroll!
tw // anti-asian violence
there’s been a fuck ton of aapi hate since the beginning of the pandemic and especially lately, with the georgia shootings today, and even the grammys last sunday
all this said i just wanted to share a few resources (none mine!):
- anti-asian violence resources (this resource is also linked in my pinned, it contains information, petitions, places to donate and a lot more)
- stop asian hate (contains petitions, places to donate, ways to spread the word and more)
- sites to donate to and share (if you have a twitter please consider retweeting)
- a cumulative twitter thread with a little bit of everything and more than i explained
+ stop asian hate gofundme
+ asian american resource center (an atlanta based foundation focused on housing and civil classes)
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if you have any resources you wanna share reply and/or reblog and i’ll add it, and with that please share this with the same tags <3 sending love to my fellow aapi, please stay safe all of you and don’t be fucking racist :]
Uhhh Howdy?
I like to sew.
And because of that I make Stuffies.
I also like stuffies.
I also also SELL stuffies.
I have a my own website and everything!
It’s not great or anything, but it works and I made it myself!
The only issue is I don’t ship them nationally so I only can share them within the San Antonio, TX area.
So if you are willing to support me or just really want a custom stuffie, check out my website!
https://sites.google.com/view/sonny-little-stuffies-co/product-info
americans better be rebloging the donation and help links for mexico and colombia after all the help they recieved from latin americans w their own issues
I love all things frog, mushroom, rainbow high… I have Ehlers danlos syndrome and use both a rollator and a cane. Enby that is bad at making friends but likes to have them. I adore many cartoons but haven’t seen even more.
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