Depends, do you do it for you or do you do it for them/society? š¤·āāļø
Mindsets are shifting from ānot having kids is selfishā to āhaving kids is selfishā
I make dumb decisions and Iām mentally unstable but at least Iām somewhat attractive š
I donāt want to try to write this in a relatable way that thousands of people will reblog, I just want to say that today I had to watch my ex and his new girlfriend do everything we used to do and I drank so much I threw up in a bush and it fucking sucks and Iām still drunk and I feel like Iām dying.
As a student, the most comforting words youāll ever hear are āi havenāt started eitherā
ā¦This is the story of how I diedā¦
Things I find soft in relationships :
Stealing clothes. The size doesnāt matter, the article of clothing doesnāt matter. Underwear, hoodies, shirts, pants, etc. That shit is sweet and soft
Sleepy morning kisses
Gentle kisses on the back of the neck during spooning
Helping to cook meals. 10/10 bonding
Mild PDA (small kisses, hand-holding, loving smiles, light flirting, etc)
Holding each other tight and close at night
Letting each other be as open as ever about anything
Going to the park and swinging on the swings
Taking a quiet walk side-by-side at sunset
Sitting close on porch steps and chatting
Cuddling on the couch with soft blankets and pillows, also a lot of snacks and a Disney movie
Bonding over similar interests
Shamelessly doing some talent or skill around the other (singing, dancing, drawing, etc)
Person a waking up early to prepare person bās favorite breakfast
Helping with menstruation (such as buying pads/tampons and chocolate, running a hot bath, etc)
Reading books beside each other
Sharing smoothie/milkshake/froyo/etc
Helping with anxiety/depression/any mental or emotional issue really
Iāll probably add more along the way,,
not this shit again
(Big thank you to all the Genjis who filmed this with me HAHAHA )
Poverty is violence