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Finally got time to dress….. feels good again. Hope you all missed me 🤣

Happy Comfy Saturday night to all. 😇

Dressed in some warm, comfy clothes.... but still some fishnets. 💋

Love the dress... but the socks... I have a weakness for lace 😳😍

Trying out some poses.....

Also a pic from some months ago....

Showing my back....

Wonderful story and how love 💗 suppose to be. 😍

Supporting My Crossdressing Man

When I met and fell in love with my soulmate, there were two things I realized for certain:

1 - I was exactly where I was supposed to be, and with the person I was supposed to be with; and                        

2 - Everything that I went through in my past was meant to happen. If even one thing changed, I would have never been on the path that led me to the greatest love I have known, my boyfriend @krystall-crossdress.  

I read a quote awhile ago that said, “sometimes the bad things that happen in our lives put us directly on the path to the best things that will ever happen to us”. I do believe that we both needed to go through the tough times we did, so when we came together we recognized how special and rare our connection and unconditional love & acceptance of each other is. We mention it often to each other. We remind ourselves that we are so very lucky to have what we have. It wasn’t until @krystall-crossdress got the courage to admit his love of crossdressing to me, that I realized why our lives were meant to come together. I love this man in ways I could never put into words. I accept him completely whether he wants to dress part time just for me & us, if he decides to stop at some point, or if he decides some time that he wants to be more open & public with it or make it a permanent change (that wouldn’t actually be a change, but an evolution into his true self). I am attracted to, and turned on by him whether he’s dressed masculine, feminine, or not dressed at all 😉. I don’t even have to think about it. Unconditional love is that; unconditional. Without condition. I love his heart, his mind and his soul. The person he is at his core. That is always there and doesn’t change whether he is dressing masculine, feminine, part time or full time; just between us or open to the public. Witnessing him finally having the opportunity to freely express his true self and trust me to keep that safe and enjoy it along with him, by his side, is one of the most powerful experiences I have ever had. I, in turn, feel very protective over him and would go to the ends of the earth to protect him from anyone out there wishing any harm or ridicule toward him.                                       

The photo I am sharing with you in this blog is another that @krystall-crossdress took himself many years ago. During this time in his life there was nothing positive for him to associate with his crossdressing. It was still a time where he had to sneak away to dress just to have a small amount of happiness at feeling more himself than he normally did. He did not have anyone that he could talk to or share his wants & needs with, confide in or have support from. This also ties in to the quote I mentioned above.   

 We both love how many people have liked and reposted our blogs. And we are very touched by the messages we have received as well. We have been able to connect with other couples on similar journeys and are so grateful to this community for being so welcoming, supportive & caring. We love hearing from anyone who wishes to reach out to us. Feel free to message myself or @krystall-crossdress if you would like to reach out for any reason. Please also like and repost our blogs. That helps get our story out to a wider number of people. The connections we all make on here are so important and they help spread support and understanding. In time this can grow and hopefully extend beyond this community, where people should have support & safety, and are encouraged to, dress in whichever way makes them feel good and makes them feel whole. 

Love to everyone and we wish you continued strength & courage as you each navigate your journey. Please reach out to us or someone if you need to.                                                               

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What does it mean to be a sissy?

Sissies are a distinct breed of transvestites. A sissy is a transvestite who’s primary sexual interest lies not just in wearing feminine clothing, but in becoming an exaggerated version of femininity. Femininity as seen through the lens of traditional hetero male sexual desire. Sissies are not seeking to become women in a normal sense, but are instead seeking to become the object of their desires. Their ultimate fantasy woman if they were normal, rather than being a sissy. 

Sissies are transvestites who can’t be sated by just throwing on some panties and jerking off. They must strive to become their ideal female. This means the fetish will transcend the bedroom, and creep into the rest of their life. A full warddrobe, makeup, wigs, etc. Sissies will spend more time looking at women’s outfits than they will looking at the women wearing them. Sissies keep their body hair shaved, likely wear panties (or more!) at all times, nail polish on their toes, etc. Being a sissy takes commitment and dedication. 

Sissies are bisexual, but not in the traditional sense. You aren’t going to see a sissy settle down and marry a man. You won’t find many that will say they find men attractive. Remember, a sissy seeks to become the embodiment of what their dream woman would be. As such, their interest in pleasing men is distinct from that of homosexual men. Their interest in men comes from seeking validation that they have achieved their sissy goal: being feminine enough to interest “straight” men. They aren’t into the men themselves as much as the men are sex objects that a sissy uses to confirm her own sissyness.

Sissies are submissive. You can be a crossdresser who makes an effort to look the part and not be submissive, but that means you are not a sissy. A sissy gets off on pleasing others. She doesn’t worry about herself or her pleasure nearly as much. This is where you see chastity and cuckolding come into play for a lot of sisses. Chastity is sought because it allows a sissy to stay horny, giving them the drive to further their sissy desires (rather than losing them after orgasm). Cuckolding is natural because if a sissy is going to have a wife or girlfriend (remember, sissies aren’t typically into men romantically), by her nature a sissy is unlikely going to be able to be much of a man when it comes to sex. As such, not only is the woman more likely to look elsewhere for those needs, the sissy herself shouldn’t mind. Her wife isn’t cheating on the sissy with “another man”, but is having sex with “a man”. The sissy isn’t a man anymore, so why should she be jealous that her wife needs a man from time to time? If anything, the sissy can relate. She needs a man sometimes too!

Sadly, the term sissy tends to be overused these days. Guys with thick body hair showing off their one pair of panties, or ones where their small wardrobe is a mishmash of mismatched clothes that no woman would ever wear, these sorts are all using the term sissy. Guess what guys? You aren’t a sissy. You may have the mindset, you may be working towards it, but until you get there, you aren’t one. You need to learn fashion, makeup, and you need to work towards looking hot. Instead of doing just enough sissy stuff to get your cock hard, you need to focus on doing enough to get someone else’s cock hard. In a world of pantyboys, you need to rise above. You need to embrace what it means to truly be a sissy and dedicate yourself to it.

Hey all... do you think I got an attitude? 😂

Well I feel lately more confident as girl. Am less insecure and enjoy life sometimes better.

Love you all for the lovely comments and positive vibe and feelings 💋😘

Positivity always wins, always 🤗

Happy weekend everybody

“We are all a little weird and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours. We join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love 💝”

(Dr. Seuss)