Few things
The part about him ((TW TW)) getting bullied, then attempting suicide,,, and literally admitting that to an audience of almost 10 mil takes crazy guts and I cannot respect and love you more for that!
the part when he talked about labels resonated with me.. it was sort of a bit to lead into him coming out properly,,, but the general term ‘queer’ just seems right to me… The fact he said those words means so much to a person who was legitimately bullied for identifying as Queer,, from my own community who is supposed to support me… And I really love love love him for putting and framing it in such beautiful words
(3) to hardcore phannies- I know, he confirmed early Phan,, but PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE for the love of God don’t boil down this incredibly important video into just a “"PhAn cOnFiRmEd uWus”“ This video means a lot to him. And I think it means a lot to a lot of us. Don’t forget that!!!
I got annoyed to really worried about you because he was off the internet for so long (content creators and creative blocks ahhhhh) but this video looks like it took so much time to write, and edit and looks like the new "Daniel Howell era” has arrived!(content and gay wise both))
Don’t want to dwell on phan but Phil being the only person who supported and loved him for who he literally made my whole ass year like bIG BIG PROPS to Phil for being the best human of the earth none of us (except Dan) deserves that man.
Tldr I am a mess and Dan and Phil are my icons
Does anyone else wanna lay in an empty field on a blanket late one summer evening when it's not too dark or cold but the sun's setting with a girl cuddled up to your side listening to chill indie music using a skateboard as a pillow... or is it just me?
dark academia on a budget
(because not only rich people can be dark academics)
-thrifting with friends for old sweaters that someone’s grandfather must have worn
-getting second (or third or fourth) hand books and reading the notes that other people left in them
-making sure everything is tidy and clean, no matter what
-adopting a minimalist aesthetic
-or making your own decorations (which then makes you better at lettering and art)
-sitting in a local cafe and buying the cheapest thing so that you can study there (and making sure that you tip as much as you can)
-reading poetry online, printing your favorites, and posting them on your walls
-taking as much of your family’s clothing that they’ll let you have
-rotating the same few shirts, pants, and shoes without anyone noticing
-a lack of jewelry (because there are more important things)
-sitting outside at a park to read or write
-looking outside windows on public transport while listening to somber music
being in your youth can be so agonizing like the world is burning and the US is doing god knows what and one million other terrible things are happening and you’re so overworked and exhausted that all you can do is buy your groceries with reusable bags and skim headlines knowing vaguely that they’re prophecies of terror and feel ashamed you don’t know more than you do but your mental health is already so bad you just have to take your 10 minutes off to try to scrape together some meaning and peace as it all starts to crumble around you and yet here in your home on your laptop you still have deadlines and the streets outside are quiet and you can’t breathe
Loggin in to wish all my lesbian followers the best day (life) ever, love you lots
Can we please sit together and create? I want to make you mushroom earrings and weave flower crowns while you make ladybug tattoos on my hands with sketchpens. Let's giggle and play around while sitting on a checkered picnic mat. You can cut up fresh oranges and I will take out a dozen chocolates from my backpack. Oh please, let's sit together and create.
The moon is a lesbian and the sea is her girlfriend. Change my mind.
I feel like a universal young queer experience is knowing that you'll never actually get to be your true self until you're out of your parents house, everything before then is an extremely watered down version of yourself. And your parents think they know everything about you but you really have a whole other personality and they know absolutely nothing about you, or only what you want them to know. It even applies to your beliefs, religious or political.
this still hits hard
Okay listen if you are a baby queer and you don't feel loved, supported, or validated: you are the very precious grandchildren of the Stonewall rioters, the bright children of hope after the AIDS epidemic. You are the little siblings of ex-gay therapy survivors. You were fought for, and wanted, and loved. Everyone who came before you is so very happy that you are here.
“We must always take sides. Neutrality helps the oppressor, never the victim. Silence encourages the tormentor, never the tormented. The opposite of love is not hate, it’s indifference.”
— Elie Wiesel