The Maker's Grace Does Not Make You Immortal, You Live Or Dieby Your Own Hand. That Is Worthy Of Admiration.

General Resources:

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Trans Student Equality Resources

Trans Housing Network

All Our Worlds (Queer Book Database)

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art

articles

books

videos 

visibility

Questioning?

5 Common Insecurities The Don’t Mean Anything About Your Transgender Identity

8 Signs and Symptoms of Indirect Dysphoria (summary by Transgender Teen Survival Guide, article by Zinnia Jones)

Ask a Gender Therapist: Am I Transgender? (youtube video)

I think I might be transgender, now what do I do? (an article by AdvocatesForYouth.org)

Need help finding pronouns? / Here’s where to try them out

What Am I? (an article by Transgender Teen Survival Guide)

Coming Out

Coming Out (article by Trans Youth Family Allies)

Coming Out: The Plan (by Neutrois.me)

Coming Out Tips (by Transgender Teen Survival Guide)

Coming Out to Partners: Transgender and Nonbinary People (article by J. Lee Phelan)

Coming out stories:

On Coming Out as Genderqueer; or, My Life as a Bearded Lady (by Dustin L)

So Your Child is Non-binary: A Guide For Parents

Resources for Friends and Family

Understanding:

American Psychological Association: Answers to Your Questions About Transgender People, Gender Identity, And Gender Expression

So Your Child is Non-binary: A Guide For Parents

Everything You Need to Know About Nonbinary Identities (an article by Everyday Feminism)

in-depth interview with a nonbinary person about their identity (article from Zenger’s Newsmagazine)

Explaining Genderqueer to Those Who Are Not (an article by neutrois.me)

"forcing kids to stick to gender roles can actually be harmful to their health" (article by Tara Culp-Ressler)

Middle Sexes: Redefining He and She (an HBO documentary on gender variance available on Youtube)

Think Your Child Might be Transgender? (an article by GenderSpectrum.org)

What It Feels Like to be Transgender (article by Sophia Gubb)

8 Signs and Symptoms of Indirect Dysphoria (summary by Transgender Teen Survival Guide, article by Zinnia Jones)

Supporting:

A Support Guide for Parents, Families and Friends of Transgender and Gender Non-Conforming people (by PFLAG.org)

There’s No Such Thing as a “Sex Change” (video from TheGuardian.com about how to talk about transgender people)

find support groups for parents of transgender children and trans youth (USA)

Trans*Forming Family (a blog by the mother of a genderqueer child)

Transgender Parenting (articles from Egale Canada)

TransYouth Family Allies

Singular They

Merriam and Webster: Ask The Editor

Oxford English Dictionary

Wikipedia: Singular They

The Economist: Singular They

Legal

WPATH Standards of Care, version 7 (pdf) (The World Professional Organization for Transgender Health)

Transgender Law Center (USA)

Change your Name for Free - Civil Indigent Status (USA) (Tumblr post)

Transgender Surgeons in the U.S. (USA)

DMAB Resources

Presentation:

Women’s Clothing Terminology

Tucking How-to Guide

The Breast Form Store

Mastectomy Bras with Built In Flap for Breast Forms

How to Contour and Highlight Using Makeup | How to Apply Eyeliner with a Spoon | How to Apply Foundation | How to Apply Blush | How to Apply Eyeshadow

Eva Voice Training App

Transition:

Find a gender therapist

AMAB Hormone Guide (uses “MTF” wording)

AMAB Surgery Guide (uses “MTF” wording)

DMAB master post

DFAB Resources

Presentation:

The FTM’s Complete Illustrated Guide to Looking Like a Hot Dude

Underworks Binders | GC2B Binders

Mr. Limpy Soft Packers | The Real EZP (the only STP that actually works)

Transition:

Find a gender therapist

AFAB Hormone Guide (uses FTM wording)

AFAB Surgery Guide (uses FTM wording)

FTMSexTalk.tumblr.com (everything to do with sex as it relates to gender and transition - FTM-focussed but they also answer a lot of questions from AFAB non-binary people)

Hudson’s FTM Guide (tons of information about binding, HRT, and masculinization)

Janitor Queer (a blog by a genderqueer person on low-dose testosterone)

Neutrois Nonsense (for information about nonbinary-specific transition)

YouTubers:

OutOfThisBinary (collab channel)

welkin gender

Micah R

thecharliecharmander

queerascat

queerbb

benderqueer

Qubit Cuties (collab channel)

Let’s be clear.

I’ll respect your religion, until you use it to try to fuck up people lives.

I’ll respect your movement, until you use it to try to fuck up people lives.

I’ll respect your beliefs, until you use them to try to fuck up people lives.

I’ll respect you, until you try to fuck up people lives.

My 7 year old son was shot down by his 1st grade teacher

I know I was taking a little break to avoid all the stress of the Charlottesville rally being talked about on tumblr, but I also wanted to make sure all of my Jewish mutuals know how loved they are. I know this is scary and sometimes it feels like the only people looking out for us is ourselves, but know that you are not alone and have never been alone. We are one mishpacha, one family, and we will look after each other and keep each other safe like we always have. I love each and every one of you. Remember, the whole world is a very narrow bridge and the main thing is to have no fear at all.

Goyim, please reblog this instead of all the performative “punch a nazi” nonsense. Make your Jewish followers feel safe.

Feminism is not about who opens the jar. It is not about who pays for the date. It is not about who moves the couch. It is not about who kills the bugs. It is not about who cooks the dinner. It’s not even about who stays home with the kids, as long as the decision was made together, after thinking carefully about your situation and coming to an agreement that makes sense for your particular marriage and family. It is about making sure that nobody ever has to do anything by “default” because of their gender. The stronger person should move the couch. The person who enjoys cooking more, has more time for it, and/or is better at it should do the cooking. Sometimes the stronger person is male, sometimes not. Sometimes the person who is best suited for cooking is female, sometimes not. You should do what works. But it is also about letting people know that it is okay to change. If you’re a woman who wants to become stronger, that’s great. If you’re a man who wants to learn how to cook, that’s also great. You might start out with a relationship where the guy opens all the jars and the girl cooks all the meals, but you might find that you want to try something else. So try it.

4 ignorant delusions people have about feminism (via brutereason)

wanna know what’s funny about transgender jokes? Chicks with dicks, dudes with boobs? No. That’s not the funny part. The funniest part is The fact we get up in the morning and get too scared to look in the mirror in case we get overwhelmed with dysphoria, OBSESSED with looking like the gender we are inside but irritated because we feel like we can’t, to the point where we hide from our own reflection. The fact that we barely want to leave our house sometimes because we don’t want to answer the daily pestering questions. “Are you a boy or a girl?” The fact that needing to use to the bathroom in a public place is like waking a sleeping dog. The fact that we have to be ashamed of our own natural bodies and wonder why a God would ever do this to us. The fact that your options are: coming out and swearing that you were born with the same sex as your gender, or locking it away and not telling a soul. The fact that we have to hide from the world, one way or another, because people aren’t ready for the “diversity” we bring. The fact that my friend thought ‘transgender’ meant I was born with no genitals. The fact that I am notorious in my town, and I can’t walk out the door without being asked why I want to be a boy if I’m really a girl? Why I don’t just identify as lesbian and move on. The fact that shower time equals to “put a towel over the mirror just so you don’t have to look at yourself” time. The fact that sometimes, I feel okay. Sometimes I accept that my body is my body. That I was born like this. 
Sometimes I can respect myself, because I know that one day, I’ll become who I need to be. 
There’ll be no more questions. 
No more insults. 
No more misunderstanding. 
No more mis-pronoun-ing. 
No more suicidal thoughts. 
No more self loathing. 
No more of people looking at me like I’m some sort of freak. 
No more complicated relationships with people who can’t help putting someone’s body before their everything else. 
No more cutting. 
No more worries. 
But as the day progresses, I remember that people already do look at me differently. I remember that, if I ever fall in love, I’ll have to find someone who doesn’t care that I don’t have the “parts” to be a man- someone who can understand that I AM TWICE THE MAN as the guy who just told me that I’ll never be one, so why don’t I just give up?
I remember that I’ll never have kids of my own. 
I remember that having a sexual relationship will be near impossible for years to come. 
I remember that I’m too weak and feminine to fight. 
I remember that I am still my birth-name to every register I’m in.
I remember that I look twelve years old and I will still look twelve years old when I am 19.
I remember that I am PATHETIC without my masculinity. 
I remember that people will never understand how worthless I feel- how much i’d rather be anyone else. wanna know what’s funny about transgender jokes? Nothing.

"Trans Jokes"- Cody Woods (via immakinggingerbreadcookies)

My first shot at creating a sort of tutorial/guide, telling how I do things. On this initial chapter we’re going over the handy matter of Hands. Not meaning to be an encyclopedic explanation, only showing my own methods and self-taught clues. Hoping somebody finds it useful! :3 I’ll do more if this one is received well. So let me know~

My thanks also to the supporters in my Patreon campaign, who helped me decide which themes to focus on for a start. And are actually allowing this to happen. :D Cheers!

Female Fantasy III