Imagine being rejected from your dream college/school because you preferred daydreaming than building that dream life.
“my dream college rejected me” … no. you’re already an accepted student.
“she’s ignoring my texts and calls” … no. you’re someone that your sp is in love with & shows it.
“im working a shitty, low paying job” … no. you’re working your dream job.
you see something in the 3d you dont like? reject it, decide the opposite is happening (fulfill) & move on. what you see is not permanent anyway. stop sticking with what you see in the 3d & holding onto it. thats not cute. stop accepting what you dont want, decide what you do want & know its done regardless of everything.
theres no point in continuing to accept the bullshit you see for weeks and months until you burst and start to wonder where you went wrong. shift into the version of you that knows they have what they want. stop trying to control & micromanage the 3d and instead, let it be. change self, not the 3d.
the 3d follows you, not the other way around. so be the change.
reject it
decide your desired outcome
fulfill
its done
you cannot allow yourself to continue depending on physical evidence. reject the bullshit you dont like seeing. you cannot continue to limit yourself and drag yourself down depending on what you see in the 3d. thats a sign that you do not understand yourself as the operant power.
kisses, jani ☆
Please you don't need to change your body to be "perfect" or an angel. Perfectness doesn't exist because everything seen by an alive being is subjective, we can't change that. One will find you perfect while one will find you horrible. Start finding your own self perfect, don't search to please anybody you're perfect just the way you are 🫶
Depression,eating disorder, anxiety disorder,separation anxiety,daddy issues,anger issues!
I’m 5’8,I’m 21🔁 I really like to draw and workout! I have one cat and my own room! I’m new to this app! I’m 140 pounds!
Quitting also mean starting over from this or even worse
I have all the tools, so why do I keep searching for them ?
One day they'll know your name, but in order to that you need to put in the work RIGHT NOW
“i wish i had an extra couple days to study :(” sounds familiar right? well THESE are your extra couple days. stop wasting your time. stop wishing for more time.
Temporary discomfort to a lifetime comfort.
"I'll do it tomorrow" tomorrow will turn into a day, a week, a month, a year, a decade, a life and a century eventually
Start now.
Being insecure is a choice.
It's totally your choice to give these people enough power on yourself to the point of low esteem and confidence.
Nobody is gonna say no to your desires, your desires cannot be cancelled, your desires cannot be delayed and there is no such thing as a transition period. There is no such thing as stressing over not having it. You either have it or you don't.