i don’t think people understand that people can ‘love’ you and not actually love you
like my grandmother ‘loved’ me, but she also was always trying to change me. she tried to take me away from my (catholic bisexual) mother. she made me wear dresses when i was there. she always tried to get me to go to church and was always asking me if i was dating a boy yet
i spent years feeling guilty that i wasn’t what she wanted me to be until my mom told me one day “she never bothered to know the real you”
and it’s true. any time i tried to show her something about myself, even cook for her, it would be dismissed, and a replacement would be offered. even northern food was somehow a sin.
she loved me what she thought i should be, she never loved me.
bc people who love you, they love you for all the stuff that makes you you. they never consider that it makes you inconvenient.
"Your disability doesn't define you" Okay but what if it does? What if my disability is inherently entangled in who I am and how I experience my life? Would that dehumanize me in your eyes? Because then that's a you problem you shouldn't project onto me
Am I into this? Yeah I’m very into this-
cats are too adorable
He knows there's a little baby in there 🥰
i want face hair like Heisenberg. lucky duck fucker. give me your face please. and your body maybe? EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Concepts like sex magic and fertility deities in fantasy are actually really interesting to me as a person with a lot of interest in anthropology and mythology like Yes I am curious about the weird sex that elves have but its pretty much exclusively explored by authors who are Weird Horny Dudes and forget about putting that stuff into a d&d campaign
So I found this caterpillar on my way to class
We’re bros
Whenever I do worldbuilding I try to keep this image in mind
I will never shut up about how attractive Neil is, and that's final 🧎♀️
why can i never get my partner to watch Overly Sarcastic Productions with meeeeeeeee i just wanna show you how GAY the past was in it’s story telling and how cool some of these story’s areeeee can’t i just please show you Dionysus and why he’s so cool to me???? ;U;
21, any pronounds really but i prefer they/them or he/him. Proud posessive polyamorous pansexual person.
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