I Just Came Across Ur Post And R U Srs Proship Is Just Anitharassment,,, I Kept Hearing It Was Only Problematic

🦋[ TW: Inc*st/gr**ming mention: Does any other proship-selfshipper make their selfships incestual or age gapped cause of trauma?? I do that, where ill make my self insert the child of an f/o or the sibling to one and ship them, or my self insert will be way younger than the f/o, cause my family treated me really sexually and i got groomed a few times. I used to be terrified of telling my closest friend abt that but now i just dont care, and they dont either, but im kinda curious if anyone else following me does that?? Like i genuinely get so repulsed by the idea of it happening irl and i hated it sm when it happened to me irl but thinking about it fictionally helps me cope w/ it?? And honestly at this point i kinda need some reasurance for it, since i cant tell if i should feel bad for it lmao. Ily guys tho, sorry! Take care, lovelies <3 ]🦋

I get really confused when an openly proship blog follows me but they reblog from a bunch of antis, I'm really unsure of if they just don't check people's blogs therefore they're reblogging those posts because said posts don't have proship dni on that specific post (I've seen especially a lot of selfship posts that have no indication of if proshippers can interact or not but their dni is on their pinned, so if it's just some random post on your feed like that it seems like there isn't a need to check the blog etcetc), or if they're, y'know, an anti posing as a proshipper 😭 I don't want to block someone over a misunderstanding since I like making mutuals but it's quite confusing. I moot a lot of people who follow me so if I haven't it's probably because of this misunderstanding (if it is a misunderstanding) and feel free to dm me to let me know, but also if possible please check dnis on people's blogs if you reblog/interact with them very frequently. I get it if they just don't have their dni in an easily accessible spot/you need to go through loops to find their dni but if their dni is on their pinned and you reblog from them frequently I'll probably misunderstand due to the nature of antis posing as proshippers. Sorry 😭 I also try not to moot people who purposely break dnis too so I also can't tell if it's done on purpose when it's done so much. It's just confusing for me, I might even sound a little silly right now but 😭

Hello proshippers <3 What are your favorite dynamics in your fictional ships? Be it darker themes or light ones, i'd love to know! Or if you also self-ship you can me your favorite dynamic with your self-ships too!

🦋[Hello hello lovely proshippers and selfshippers! Has anyone told you how amazing you are today? Well now you have, youre amazing! You are a wonderful person and i hope you are getting all the love and support you deserve ♡ Please take care of yourself, youre doing amazing, and you are so valid! Remember my inbox is always open, id love to hear you all gush about your ships and f/os! Ily all <<33]🦋

When I feel better, I was thinking about starting some more self-ship centered posts like imagines and maybe reblog games if anyone is interested. All for proselfshippers of course! And still post general proship positivity and encouragement while I'm at it. I also draw and have improved a lot over the years so, BUT if this doesn't interest you guys on this blog I'll make a separate blog instead :) !

hi proshippers! reminder NAWT to click any links, they might be to grab ur ip, or to doxx u.

i am blogging this everyday

You say pro-cotact dni is that all pars or only harmful ones?

Hi anon! I only mean harmful paras, such as if it involves parties that are unable to consent and/or it will cause harm to said parties (children, animals, things of this nature.) People can't control where their attractions lie, so if they are a paraphile with the attraction to said things I won't discriminate against the attraction by itself, especially if they are receiving help for it or have absolutely no intention to act on their attraction, I'm just strictly anti-contact in regards to those paras and don't want to interact with people who are pro-contact. Thanks for asking!

Just a reminder that 1. You owe absolutely nobody an 'explanation' on why you enjoy dark fictional content and 2. You don't NEED to indulge in dark fictional content for the sole purpose of coping with trauma/processing trauma for it to be a valid use of your time and attention. If you do, that's wonderful and I'm so glad it provides you with that comfort, but it isn't an obligation to be able to enjoy it. Have fun with it, and please don't let what others say make you feel like you need to explain yourself, or that you need to be doing it for trauma related reasons, because that isn't true. Okay? Okay. Take care now!

I've seen too many posts recently so I just wanted to say this as a proshipper:

NO. IT IS NOT OKAY TO HARASS ANTISHIPPERS.

You cannot call yourself "anti-harassment" and turn around and harass antishippers. I don't care how utterly ridiculous or disgusting they're being. You block, report what is reportable, and move on.

I'm not talking about leaving a thoughtful indepth comment about your stance on shipping or explaining what proship actually means. I'm talking about the people who will send death threats to some antis, the people who say it's "alright to call them slurs" (no??? It's not??? Babe that is the exact justification antis use about harassing you!), and the people who claim that it's "just natural".

You don't get to do what the "bad people" do just because you're a part of the "good group". You can call yourself anti-harassment all you want, but if you're harassing others, you're just an anti. You're doing the same shit they do just to different people. Revenge and punching back feels nice, but an eye for an eye will make the world go blind. Be the mature one. That's what being proship is about. It's not about "oooo I ship something dark-" no, it's about gritting your teeth and hitting the block button when a conversation turns sour. It's about sighing and moving on when one of your moots vague posts about you. It's about finding peace from not putting your brain in other people's bedrooms.

Being proship is "anti-censorship", "anti-harassment", sals, and dldr. Not "you're the opposite! Let me harass you."

hi! replying to your last post (the one about trauma-related selfshipping), although my selfships aren't like that (I'm lucky enough for not having experienced anything like that irl), I've certainly seen at least a few people in the community who've also experienced family-related trauma do the same thing as you do, which is a great coping mechanism btw (if it works for you, of course)!! hope you have a nice day/night! and your f/os love you regardless of your dynamic, of course! :D

Thank you so much lovely, i really needed to hear that <3 Youre very sweet, i hope you have a great day/night too, and your f/os love you regardless as well! ♡ I hope youre doing well and taking care of yourself! <3