Fotd: The Point Of Identities In The Queer Community Is Not To Box Yourself, But To Find Something That

fotd: the point of identities in the queer community is not to box yourself, but to find something that roughly describes how you feel. it doesn’t have to be all that close to your identity to use it! for example, i say i’m bisexual, when i probably fit more under sexual fluidity - my preference and sexuality tends to change a lot. i still say im bisexual as that feels more right! so don’t feel the need to label yourself as something and then when something about you doesn’t align with that label, don’t freak out. that label just describes common experiences!

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8 months ago

OKAY TUMBLR. IT'S TIME TO SETTLE THIS ONCE AND FOR ALL.

Reblog this if you pronounce “.gif” as “GIF.”

NOT JIF,

GIF.

And here is the link for the opposite.

WE SHALL SEE WHICH ONE PREVAILS.

2 months ago

reblog if you think aros and aces (or anyone on the aroace spectrum) are queer

trying to prove something to my mother ^^

1 year ago

Ahhh okay thank you for explaining!!

hello 👋

is it ok to hate certain pronouns being used for you, but having none that you really, genuinely feel good with? I use they/them but it doesn't really give me that euphoria ppl talk about so I just wanted to ask

whatever feelings you have about pronouns are always okay.

it's probably more common than people talk about too. this is actually how i felt for a long time about my pronouns in german. i definitely didn't want german he/him or she/her, but no german neopronouns or it/its gave me the "right" feeling. i ended up kinda flip-flopping around.

sometimes "this'll do" is the best option.

(there's also always the possibility of not using pronouns or using multiple sets or making up your own neopronouns.)

6 months ago

i love saiki in ep 3 cause he’s helping out kaidou and it’s so sweet. kaidou got scammed so saiki, as kaidou’s “only friend”, helps him out by scaring the scammer so kaidou doesn’t fall into a scam. i love it sm cause it shows saiki does care - and he even openly admits to being kaidou’s friend :3


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10 months ago

is it weird that i watch sex scenes in stuff like bridgerton and it’s all loving and stuff and i just feel gross but i watch sex scenes that are just hot and dirty and i’m fine with it (coming from an asexual if that makes a difference)


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7 months ago

reblog this if you want a LONG (or short) anonymous message saying what they think of you.

pleaaase?

1 year ago

i want chunky rings and baggy tops

they are life, they are everything


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1 year ago

some weird as hell shawtys on this site

Some Weird As Hell Shawtys On This Site
1 year ago

we got a seaweed brain

the percabeth is percabething and my brain chemistry is altered

i fucking cried

im so normal about them


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11 months ago

no offence but that’s not an answer

did it fix you :(

surely one more trinket will fix me

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