this is very true. like, for me, i don’t view sex as something just for people in a relationship. i enjoy casual sex, and for me, while it doesn’t change a relationship, it demonstrates your closeness and adds layers to your relationship with each other.
and i don’t sleep with all my friends. but that doesn’t mean that we’re not as close as the friends that i do sleep with. it’s just another part of our relationship.
Any post about how it's fine and normal to have sex with people that you are friends with will be full of comments like "but that's not friends then that's friends with benefits and that's not the same"
Why do you see sex as a benefit - a reward, something earned, something that can both lift a relationship beyond the limitations of regular friendship but also lessens that friendship to something more sinister? How does this impact your personal sexuality and self esteem?
Why do you think sex between friends must change or ruin the friendship? Does sex between partners do that? Do you really think the way YOU feel about sex, love, friendship, and human relationships is the ONLY way to think or feel despite there being billions of human minds on the planet? Do you just not believe people when they describe the way their own minds and hearts and cunts function because YOU aren't like that and can't empathize with how people different from you function? How is that different from conservative viewpoints?
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fotd: people on the arospec and acespec are queer.
SENDING THIS TO MY BROTHER HE WOULD LOVE THIS
my friend was walking home and this kid came up to her and said “you have a vagina, retard” and walked off and he couldn’t have been older than like 11 and we couldn’t stop laughing abt it just thought i’d share
this season is PAINFUL i knew everything that was coming, having read the graphic novels, but jesus SHIT.
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I can’t tell if it’s my stomach or my lower back that hurts because I’ve been sat hunched over for a while now :/
Romance is not pink.
Romance is deep, deep red. Romance is silk, and velvet, and stormy nights, and raging fires underneath a blanket of stars.
Love is pink. Love is fluffy blankets on plush sofas, big enough for two. Love is a shining sun in a deep blue sky, with fluffy white clouds drifting lazily about. Love is a warm breeze rustling the grass, a picnic by a sparkling, clear lake.
Romance is not pink.