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If you’re not x group, you don’t get to tell x group shit about themselves. I can assure you, we trans-mascs are aware of the privilege we have over trans femmes, but that doesn’t mean we aren’t oppressed. Do not tell me what my experiences are. Do not pretend like you know our experiences better than we do. Also, as a white LGBT, I apologize on behalf of my ignorant brethren.

honestly there are like...so many parallels between being transmasc and being mixed race. which is why it feels so dang familiar when people on here talk about how "transmascs have privilege over the rest of us" in the face of very real lived experiences to the contrary.

like some of us who are mixed race are white-passing. some of us are not. but sometimes it depends on the culture we're in, sometimes it's literally just a matter of who we're perceived by and whether they know enough to identify that we're different. I remember stretches of my existence where I assumed everyone saw me as white and then suddenly a strange white man comes up to me alone in the park and says "I've always found asian women attractive" and I'm like. oh. right. I will always be the Other to some people.

but then you date an asian person who suddenly tells you "you're white, 100%, white girl, nobody in here sees you as asian" and, sure, not that day, not in san francisco in a vietnamese restaurant. but there's a specific, unique experience of walking that tightrope every single day, wondering how you'll be perceived then, in that room, by that person who has more power than you.

I feel like so much of my life I have dealt with being Othered by white people and simultaneously regarded with suspicion in asian spaces as an outsider, that this whole discourse around "you transmascs can fit in with cis men, you dont need the LGBT community and it doesn't need you" reeks of such bullshit from people whose identities have always neatly fit into a particular box.

and even guys who pass 100% of the time, wherever they are? even completely white passing mixed race people have different lived experiences that continue their whole lives. experiences of being raised by a parent from a minority race/culture, of being with extended family, of observing traditions that are not observed by the majority, of speaking a different language--that to simply defer to their outward appearance is a denial of their familial and personal history.

like. I am absolutely tired of people who are not party to a particular experience deciding that everything about that experience is fine and not as bad and therefore not even deserving of the acknowledgment of its existence. white LGBTs who are spouting this bullshit, your words are very familiar to me and now I know how you'd feel about my race as well. 🙃

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Tucker Carlson got hacked and the only thing the hacker did was add “Fully vaccinated. They/Theirs 🇺🇦” to his bio

That is the funniest possible thing they ever could have done and the restraint is incredible

Anthony Mackie. Reblog if you agree.

I quickly did this venn diagram to prove a point to my friends - feel free to add / alter anything lmao

Just The Touch Of Your Love

Summary: When Loki finds out you’re a tad bit touch-starved, he decides to take matters into his own hands… literally.

Warnings: none? massive fluff

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God this hurts It will always hurt and I’ll never recover from this heart break

Ginger Writes Masterlist

The culmination of all my writing. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for reading my work. Creativity is meant to be shared, so thank you for letting me share the tiny bit I have with you.

Last updated: 12/26/18

Loki

Loki’s Happy Ending

Summary: a whole bunch of drabbles of various levels giving our lovely Loki the happiness and character development he deserves!!

Heat Wave (Series Masterlist)

Summary: An 11 part series in which after getting a severe concussion at the hands of Captain America, you get roped into helping a certain Asgardian Frost Giant regain trust and a clean name in his homeland - and he isn’t happy about it. But maybe… if Loki could trust himself enough to feel something for once… things might be different.

Angst, swearing, kinda violence, slowburn, if you stick it out till the end I reward you with fluff

Please, Kiss Me

Summary: In what will eventually be six unlinked pieces of writing, I give you five times that Loki kissed you, and one time you kissed him.

First Kiss

New Years Kiss

You’re Not Leaving Me, Are You?

Mistletoe Lover

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You and I Just Make Scents

Summary: A quick one shot where your restless, sleep deprived mind drifts off to your lover.

Pure. Fluff.

Snowflakes

Summary: A one shot in which you get to experience the first snow of the season with your husband, who doesn’t seem to mind the cold as much as you do.

Pure. Fluff.

Broken Beds

Summary: You and your husband kinda sorta accidentally broke your bed one crazy night. You leave it up to Loki to tell Tony the problem and get a new bed, but his version of what happened doesn’t quite match yours.

Pure fluff

*cough* suggestive themes

Battle Scars

Summary: Marrying into royalty is not as glamorous as one would hope: no one wants to see you by Loki’s side. But Loki assures you of his undying love for you, scars and all.

Mentions of self harm

Angst covered in fluff to make it all better

I Saw Mommy Kissing Santa Claus

Summary: Loki is the greatest husband…and an even better father. A little mischief-maker to join in on his fun? Sign him up. Christmas Eve arrives, bringing with it a stressed out you, so of course, Loki helps you calm down. That naturally calls for spiked eggnog, a nice little makeout session, and one (1) slightly cringe-worthy situation.

Pure. FAMILY. FLUFF.

Making out, innuendos heh

Vacation

Summary: Spending a night in jail with the god of mischief? Sure, what could go wrong?

Pure. Fluff.

SugGeSTiVe ThEMeS

Loki Drabbles Masterlist

The link/masterlist for Loki’s happy ending is better and puts these drabbles + more in order, this one does have a couple not on the other one though!

Bucky Barnes

Sorry!

Summary: A power outage during a storm leads to awkward situations that you couldn’t be more grateful for.

Fluff. Swearing. That’s the whole fic

Ours

Summary: When Bucky gets called back into service, he promises you to be back by Christmas. But unfortunately, things don’t always turn out the way you hope for.

Wartime angst

Fluff, angst, fluff. I’m tryna make you cry

Peter Parker

Fuzzy Socks and Warm Hearts

Summary: What happens when you’re dating the biggest dork in all of New York, who also just so happens to be an Avenger? You get taken on dates unlike any you could have ever imagine, that’s for sure.

Pure. Fluff.

Part 2