Hes Just Like Me Fr

i want to be in a relationship where when we're alone it's really calm and soft and cute but in public its bastard time™️ like babe go put on your most over the top batshit crazy outfit we're going to cause trouble and look sexy together

i got the copper iud today!

honestly, it wasnt as bad as i thought it would be, but it was still pretty awful. the insertion was painful but i wasnt nauseous, didnt pass out, i was kinda thirsty and tired afterwards tho. 

my nurse was also a trans guy too!! his name was pete and he was so nice and made me a million times more comfortable.

around an hour or so after the insertion was when i started getting really really bad cramps. typically, my period cramps are like a 5 or 6 but these were like an 8 in my opinion. the only thing thats helped so far has been tylenol (cant take ibuprofen for medical reasons) and heating pads--cant stress that enough: heating pads were the only things that helped. a couple hours after the insertion the pain was too much for me so i took so melatonin and slept it off. 

biggest piece of advice, drink water and eat something beforehand, bring some water and a stuffed animal with you for support, and have the doctor talk you through the procedure. afterwards make sure you have a heating pad, some tylenol or advil, and if you can, sleep it off. call some friends to take your mind off the pain as well.

Lou Sullivan trans man activist in his bedroom six months before he died of AIDS in 1991. Photographed by Mariette Pathy Allen (source)

trans4trans beanie baby sticker ($1.50)

my life goal you ask? oh, its nothing...only to have a humble diner in a small town with an apartment upstairs where i live with my partner and our 2 cats and 1 dog, and i'm the head of the kitchen and bake fresh bread for our loyal customers and our employees are students in need of positive parental support...or something

idk man come kiss me or smth

why are most Tumblr mlm's still single there are so many of us

1. liu xiaodong, love / 2. jane fisher, black pjs / 3. henri de toulouse-latrec, le lit / 4. lucian freud, two men / 5. leslie allen, sleeping

mickey milkovich has done so much for the transmasc community

like honestly when he says liking what he likes doesnt make him a bitch in response to a jab about him bottoming, being a short king but everyone still takes him seriously, showing how to be queer you dont have to be soft or flamboyant, how queer people can look and act like anybody, i could go on and on

to be by your side.

not to sound kinda gay or anything but i really want a guy to lie in bed with, our limbs intertwined as i nuzzle my head in that space between the neck and the collarbone, resting my hand on his chest as he gently intertwines his fingers in my hair, his hand on top of mine and we feel each others warmth while rain taps on the windows of our room