What Is Falling In Love?

What is Falling in love?

You know I've always loved how different people portray falling in love, or at least how they perceive love. However, I don't like how people feel the need to argue that their version of falling in love is the right version.

For some people falling in love is wild and adventurous, and an emotion that frees you from responsibility and allows you to focus on yourself and how you feel. Some people see it as scary and impending, as if falling in love comes with a ball and chain, and is an unknown emotion that they must figure out their feelings on their own. To some, it is easy to fall in love because they want to share their own love with everyone around them, to show their world that it is beautiful and deserves to feel special, they want to build a wall around those they fall in love with to protect them. To some, it is difficult, because they feel you must become vulnerable to others, that they must break down the walls they carefully build to protect themselves from the world.

To some falling in love is romantic, it is one of passion and caring, falling in deep with another until they explode with emotion. To some, it is platonic, where they see soft smiles and laughs and build loyalty until realizing that they have fallen in deep and they don't want to spend the rest of their life without them by their side.

However, I believe falling in love is none of these things. Falling in love is an identity. Falling in love is different for every person as each person is different from each other. Falling in love is created by our different environments, and each experience is unique to everyone. I just find that beautiful.