My Favorite Part About Joining Discord Servers (small Ones) To Make Friends Alone Is Theres 4 Options

A cis woman tells me that maybe she should transition to gain male privilege as I'm recovering from getting beaten up in the men's bathrooms.

I tell her to be my guest and give me a call when she gets her jaw broken, I always carry a first aid kit and a pepper spray.

She calls me a misogynistic asshole.

A cis man tells me that he'd sure love some T.

Gave him my prescription and best of luck with the constant shortages and getting denied.

He calls me a pussy.

I'm fighting for my life and reproductive rights. I get told to get off women's fights, that it's not about me, like I shed my womb after my first T shot.

I search for support groups for SA victims, and I'm stuck in the same “women/NBs only”. Still shooting my shot, send an application. I introduce myself. Never get a call back.

I go to a trans night. Say I go by he/him. Get told back “yeah, that's how we all start !” by a trans woman. I'm too exhausted, I get up and I leave.

I hang out with my friends, one of them drunkenly says masculinity is a prison we must learn to escape. She gets rows of applause. Back to drinking alone.

Yes I could explain it. But who'd you rather be ? A delusional girl or a man made threat ?Or it could be better, I could just not exist ! And we'd bleach my corpse and I'd become a casualty. Not an F, ot an M, a W for Wound and for Wrong.

I put a candle on a single cupcake, 2 years on HRT. I blow it in the dark. Curtains closed like casket.

Reminder that hermaphrodite ORIGINALLY referred to intersex human beings and is in fact never a neutral biological term. It's a slur. Stop saying it.

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Feeling extremely disappointed in the community response to Trump's gender order regarding X gender markers on documents. Can y'all quit with the victim-blaming and "I'm so glad I don't have an X gender marker, I knew it was a bad idea" statements for two seconds to support those of us who are targeted by this?

I have X on all of my documents. Birth certificate, passport, ID, you name it I have an X on it. I'm intersex & trans. I'm percieved as ambiguous 100% of the time and I can't pass for shit. Stealth is not an option for me, I am visibly intersex/trans no matter what.

Having either M or F on my documents wasn't any more feasible than having an X on everything at the time I got my documents. Which I had to work my ass off to get, by the way, because I was homeless and had no documents and I needed to obtain everything from scratch, which of course is made as hard as possible to do. (How do you provide proof of identity without any identity documents? How do you provide proof of address without an address? How do you pay for any of this when you can't even afford your own groceries and you get all your needs met through local mutual aid? How do you drop anything off or attend interviews or court without transportation?)

Goddamn right I was getting an X on my documents after having to go through hell to obtain them. If I had to work that hard for them, my documents were going to be how I wanted them.

Now I'm being told the president is trying to invalidate my documents, that depending on how things go I may be held if I try to go anywhere due to my passport having an X gender marker, that we don't know the ways this will be enforced and whether I will still be able to use my documents or not, and my trans community is saying it's actually my own fault for having an X gender marker in the first place and that I was just begging to be discriminated against by having one.

I am in a very vulnerable position and I should be supported by my own community when anti-trans anti-intersex discrimination targets me and people I care about. Y'all are dropping the ball and abandoning your siblings when we need each other most.

Also, for the record, I believe that no documentation should have gender markers. However, the US requires gender markers on documentation at the moment and that fucking sucks. It seems like this will be the case for the foreseeable future. The way people have been saying "nobody should get an X gender marker because gender markers shouldn't exist" just feels very "your strategy pales in comparison to my strategy, firebombing a Walmart" and then not firebombing a Walmart. While we can and should work towards gender markers not existing in the future, people with X gender markers exist right now and maybe y'all should support us instead of constantly throwing us under the bus.

I cannot stress the importance of including as many people in the fight against trump and his nazi friends as possible.

there is no more debate about who is part of the lgbt community.

It’s simple in my mind, if you’re trying to live your romantic/sexual life and/or express your gender a specific way without hurting anyone, and you are getting beaten down for it by the mass of society you are with us. This includes all non binary genders and all ace people. I don’t care if you disagree with any of it, we’re together now because there’s a greater cause to fight against than your little opinions about perfectly legitimate queer people.

If you are of any race and are being beaten down by these nazi fucks, you are with us.

If you are intersex, you are with us.

Jewish, Muslim, Hindu, Sikh, the smallest religion rn? Guess what, if trump is hurting you when you’re hurting no one, you are with us. I don’t care if you think someone else’s religion isn’t true, no one should be in danger for it.

Terf Women, no one gives a flying fuck about your shit opinions about trans men. You know that they are affected by the reproductive rights being stripped as much as you are, you dickhead, so just reevaluate your shite opinions on these people, and stand with them. If you can’t do this, then do you even care about the issue in the first place?

We are all together. We need to fight together. No more stupid fucking infighting, because we have big big big problems to solve.

Stop bullying other struggling groups , and fucking focus for once.

I don’t wanna see any of you exclusionists in the comments, going “oh, but trans men aren’t this or that…” or “asexual people aren’t in the lgbt, what are they scared for?” Because no one cares about your fucking opinion on them, just help each other ffs. They’re not your enemy.

they’re your greatest fucking ally now

Republicans: Do not interact. There’s literally no point, I have better things to do than fight you on the internet. I’m here to make sure my siblings in America get the support they deserve. And it’s very telling of your character if you want to shit on someone who’s offering support to people.

me and my cousin were joking around (one who knows im trans, btw)

we both decided to eat cereal at 11p. i had frosted flakes and shes having fruity pebbles

we’re both queer so i called her a fruity faggot just like her cereal (as one does)

and she said that i needed the cereal

and whenever we do jokes like this, you would claim to not be apart of a minority while you’re obviously apart of it (jokes goes: claim the other is a minority they’re apart and they deny it)

so i of course did the usual spiel of denying being queer and tried to say “im a straight woman” but i just…. couldnt.

yall i couldnt even jokingly lie about being cisgender 😭

i also stopped using ftm to describe myself. i kinda feel weird using that term for myself. i dont wanna refer to my previous identity to acknowledge my current one. no shame to others who do, though!

opened up my main tumblr and saw 40 notifications

hit tumblr page

dude i want to take out my hair and wear my fro i wanna look more masc 💔💔

I put on Twitter that a cute date idea for me (a cis woman with reproductive issues) and my boyfriend (a trans man) would be for us to get a hysterectomy together and someone replied:

im so happy being on tumblr rather than twitter since its easier for me to see/interact with other trans men and transmascs

on twitter the only stuff i ever see about transmascs are people denying our existence and experiences and, very rarely, artwork