and you could even have BOTH a vagina and a penis!!!
its called being salmacian!!
its what i plan on doing!!!
I know that HRT gives you secondary sex characteristics in one direction or another, but we HAVE to stop telling nonbinary people that they “can’t pick and choose.” Of course, you can’t tell your testosterone that you’d rather not grow chest hair, but there are things you can do!
You could go on T so your voice drops and start shaving so you don’t grow a beard. You could start HRT and then stop once you get the permanent changes you like. You can pursue sterilization instead of bottom surgery. You can get top surgery without being on T. You can go on E and work out a bunch to bulk out your muscles. You can pursue laser hair removal or electrolysis to remove unwanted hair, with or without HRT. You could even just start hormones to see if you like it and then stop if it isn’t to your taste.
Obviously, you can’t order secondary sex characteristics a la carte, but we have to stop being so awful to nonbinary people. We should discuss the options we have, not shut down the conversation with “that’s what you get.”
OH MY GOD ITS THE 3 WEED SMOKING GIRLFIRENDS POST
My three girlfriends. And yes, they smoke weed.
i find this really funny because before i finally transitioned (like a month before) i was telling my then boyfriend about how i wanted to have a dick and asked him if he ever wanted to have a vagina and he went “???? no???” and thats when i found out that wanting the opposite sex organ is NOT a normal thought most people have :/
all of my bsfs when i had told them about my want also agreed with me and ironically half of them are trans (one is a trans man and one is genderfluid) LMAO
Just trans things.
oops forgot to update
im blonde now yall!!
+face reveal
my room lighting makes it look golden i PROMISE ITS LIGHTER IT DOES NEED TO BE LIFTED AGAIN THO LOL
im studying to become a veterinarian and we need to stop normalizing animal neglect as the norm this shits actually disgusting 😭
KEEP YOUR CATS INSIDE!!!!!!
indoor cats live up to 20 years whilst outside cats typically only live till theyre 4-10!!!!!
STOP neglecting your cat.
and your “outdoor cat” ISNT your cat. thats just a cat that comes to your house once in a while. they live outside because you refuse to actually care for them. dont be surprised if the cat never returns and hope and pray someone took them in and they didnt die a horrible and painful death like being hit by a car, dying of hypothermia/heat stroke, being taken by other ACTUAL wild animals because fun fact! theres no such thing as a wild version of the domesticated house cat! because they ARE DOMESTICATED. they are NOT meant to be outside. they ruin the environment and its very likely theyre going to die a horrible and painful death!!!
and to people saying that they cry because they want to go out i hope to god you dont have children and i don’t even believe in god! because cats are mentally toddlers and i bet your ass wouldn’t let a toddler go play in the fucking street just because they’re crying because they want to. there ARE safe ways to bring your cats out such as…
walks! bring your cat out on walks on leashes! if you have the space, time, and money then build a catio!
STOP putting your cats life in danger because youre fucking lazy. do not get a pet if you cant properly provide or care for them. i have zero empathy for people like that. if you cannot afford the time and money for a cat then do NOT GET ONE. surrender them to a shelter!! find someone else to give them to!! dont put your animal in danger just because you refuse to admit that youre a bad pet owner.
stop normalizing the neglect and abuse of cats. take care of your fucking cat and bring them inside where they are warm and safe.
You're gonna let somebody with an outside cat talk to you that way....?
never thought id have body dysphoria over my boobs lmao
as a child, one of my biggest insecurities was my boobs.
not because i wanted them gone,
my friends used to make fun of me because my lack of curves and ive always been a lover for biggest breasts so id always wish for them, wishing that throughout puberty that I’ll have like C or D cups.
but.. that never happened. my current breast size is around a like large b cup, small c cup (tried to figure it out at victoria’s secret and they said the same thing)
i used to be so disappointed in them until i started appreciating my body.
like my thighs and butt which are quite thick and where my body weight specifically only ever goes to lol
my face, my arms, my hands, my eyes,
even my skintone and my textured 4c hair
and with the help of my ex and ex friends,
over time,
i slowly started loving my breasts.
fast forward to now.
im no longer who i used to be.
i no longer am the person i was for 18 years.
and although whenever i look at myself, i feel happy with my body,
i just wish a few things were different.
i look at my face and wish it was longer, skinnier, more masculine.
i look at my eyes and wish they were smaller, more masculine.
i look at my hands and wish they were longer, slender, more masculine.
i look at my hair and wish it were longer, and healthy so i could keep it out to make me more masculine.
i look at my thighs when i wear pants that define them and wish they were hidden, that my thighs didnt inherently make me feminine.
and then, i look at my breasts.
the two pieces of flesh that i have longed to be bigger,
and i kind of find it ironic,
seeing how a trans med once told me that because i hadn’t experienced gender dysphoria (at the time), i probably wasnt trans.
i am trans.
i just dont experience the same dysphoria that others do or in the same way.
i feel euphoria whenever someone acknowledges who i truly am and i always feel weird whenever they dont (like when i was getting my hair dyed, my hairdresser had a daughter who called me “sister” and whenever she would, id feel weird. or whenever my hairdresser referred to me as my mothers daughter. they dont know that im out so i don’t blame them)
i am happy with the way my physical body looks, i just wish others still see me as who i truly am with them. a man who just happens to have a higher voice, curves, small breasts, and “birthing hips”.
i still plan on getting top surgery tho lol
hearing trans women talk about their love for their boobs always make me feel so happy for them and i wish i could give them mine lmao
"Everyone, look! It's the transmasc/trans man who is whining and bitching about how his/their bodily autonomy rights are being taken away and how he/they is still a target for malpractice in the medical field and how he/they are still a target for misogyny and transphobia in the cis ran world! Everyone point and laugh!" 🤡
This is genuinely have some of you mfs sound. Stfu. Ignorance is not bliss, it actually harms people in the long run.
#You are perpetuating the same misogyny we've experienced the majority of our lives it's just in a different font now.
Please reblog so this can reach more people.
Loved one got top surgery yesterday so I made this for him but I think y’all would appreciate it too
YALL IM GETTING MY HAIR DYED ILL LET YALL KNOW IF IT FALLS OUT 💞
pictures of the pretty girl :)
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